Excuse the provocative title, I just didn't know how to sum this up.

I feel as though sex ability is underestimated by most men beyond lasting a lot in bed.

Why are there so few guys capable of giving women breath taking sex? The kind of sex where you nail her to the bed, lead the dance, make her do what you want.

I've never had this kind of encounter, where I didn't have to teach someone slowly what I liked. I have a few friends of mine who are single and they've told me about a few guys they've seen and while some are average are few have really turned them upside down, throwing them around, being really assertive and leading in the bedroom.

These guys weren't Brad Pitts in terms of attractiveness, they just knew exactly what they were doing.

Word also spreads around fast, and it helps their reputation.

What is the mechanism behind why some guys settle for being average in bed?

How do you consider yourself in bed?

Why do so many guys underestimate the importance that a good lay does to have the girl return for more sex and the word spreading around her circle of friends?

Is something blocking you from doing what you like to a woman and if yes what Is it?

I know that not all women like the same things, but I think there are a vast majority of things that women like, especially seeing how 50 shades was a best seller, a little bit of manly dominance is almost always appreciated and by testing waters you can quickly back track.