Lmao, I’m 19.

mshourglasss · 2020-03-03T21:44:52+00:00

“Besides there are things I know that guys your age dont”

Aka, “I have more knowledge than you on life in general which I will use to my every advantage to manipulate you out of your boundaries and push you to do things you’re not comfortable with under the guise of ‘new experiences’ and ‘trying new things’ “

Get fucked pervert.

Please block and delete him sis.

mshourglasss · 2020-03-03T21:39:51+00:00

“Most women I’ve known acknowledge that guys get better looking as they age”

Uhm, no. Your hairlines recede, skinny-fat takes full effect, limp-dick syndrome smacks them past 35 which means more time spent on pleasuring him to get it up, and less stamina among many other unpleasantries.

Not to mention this guy is a fucking creep trying to mess with someone half his age. Definitely would date younger if he could.

“A young 40” ...if you don’t shut the fuck?

Nearby-Armadillo · 2020-03-03T21:39:38+00:00

Guys do not get better looking as they age. They just don't.

riseaboveagain · 2020-03-03T21:35:16+00:00

Lol! The delusion!

Massive eyeroll to him, and applause to you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

CeriseNoire · 2020-03-03T21:47:00+00:00

Aaaahahahahahaha. What things you know that younger guys don't, son? What the best painkillers are after a particularly vigorous walk? Get the fuck out of here omg😆

2020-03-03T21:42:19+00:00

Arguing the point here isn't important. He knows men don't look better, and if he does then he's swallowed his own lie and a lost cause.

He just wants to manipulate someone more than half his age that he's worth taking a chance on. Because he can't date anyone his own age.

TravelHag66 · 2020-03-03T21:49:19+00:00

I've noticed that whenever the topic of "looking good for one's age" comes up, men typically only focus on the shape of their bodies. They never seem to focus on facial attractiveness. Most men tend to look rather worn out after the age of 35+, if not earlier, mostly because they refuse to maintain good skincare habits throughout their youth. Years of sun exposure, bad diets, alcohol, etc wrecks havoc on most people's skin, especially those that don't even bother to use moisturizer.

Ask most men what their skincare routine is, and you will likely receive a dumbfounded stare back.

SslimReaperr · 2020-03-03T22:40:35+00:00

I can tell a guy is a complete fucking loser with low self-esteem when he desperately clings on to the notion that women love “30-40 year olds”.

What is even remotely attractive about middle aged men? I don’t like your chubby dad bod nor do I like your receding hairline & bald spot.

They GENUINELY think a 40 year old grown ass man w/ a dad bod and monthly rogaine subscription will be more attractive than a hot, young, svelte man in his 20s. Okay Gerald, whatever helps you sleep.

GCchick · 2020-03-03T23:23:02+00:00

The best part is this guy is going to go to his friends and say "Yeah, that 19 year old chick was all over me. What can I say, guys age like wine."

That's how they self perpetuate that delusional myth. They gaslight and pester teenagers who reject them en masse and then go to other men and lie through their teeth about how "young chicks love old creeps". Said other men choose to believe that lie despite what their own experience tells them and it's the ciiiiircle of liiiiiiiife : a new generation of creeps carries on the torch.

natal_woman · 2020-03-03T21:42:11+00:00

LVMs will lie and gaslight as much as they want, if they're over a certain age and with teens is because they're pursuing teens. That's their type, inexperienced young people with brains that aren't done developing. They knew they ain't shit.

All the time I hear, "it's legal so shut up" but marrying literal children is legal in some states, and you can have sex with animals in West Virginia but I guess that's not a conversation we're ready for, huh.

shiwanginaithani · 2020-03-03T22:05:16+00:00

🤢🤢 this is disgusting. If a 40 year old finds a 19 year old attractive this is some real bad shit

radical__daphne · 2020-03-03T22:07:04+00:00

Lol those copes! 🤣 "I'm better looking and in better condition than guys that are in their 20s" Ok, Saggy Balls, whatever you say!

Ms_Tilly · 2020-03-03T22:20:18+00:00

This 🤡. I'm glad you're not falling for his bullshit. He probably looks like a foot. He's old enough to be your dad and it's disgusting that he's trying to manipulate you into dating him. A decent older man would've never messaged you. This piece of trash doesn't even have the decency to respect you saying you only date men your own age. If he had any decency at all he would've apologized and left you alone instead of flapping his gums so much.

psychsense · 2020-03-03T23:56:46+00:00

He “considers” himself a young 40? We don’t “consider” our ages- they are what they are. It sounds like he’s lying and is most likely closer to 50.

WillingBeing · 2020-03-04T00:28:40+00:00

I’m 45, and I rarely see attractive men my age and older — and I say this as a happily married woman who thinks my 50 year old hubby is still the sexiest thing. But the reality is that few older men take care of themselves the same way women do. Also, I was never attracted to older men back in my 20’s. Most young women aren’t. Maybe these guys should start listening to women instead of other delusional men for once?

2020-03-03T21:45:38+00:00

This man is trying to take advantage of you. They see younger women as easy victims to use, you dodged a bullet here.

ivarteefies · 2020-03-03T21:52:50+00:00

How much baggage does a man collect in 40 years of being a fuccboi? It might account for his delusional view of his physical condition. Shit's a lot to carry.

runrunrunawayyyyyyyy · 2020-03-03T22:33:05+00:00

They can't date women their own age because they can tell they're full of shit. So they try to trap the younglings. You handled it perfectly drrd

circescircus · 2020-03-03T23:47:24+00:00

I love seeing a young woman putting old predatory men in their place.

You told him he was ugly and old in a few short sentences and left him on read after he said he looks better than 20-somethings at 40.

LMAO

ItsFreezen · 2020-03-03T23:01:12+00:00

The manosphere really bullshits these guys into thinking there 40 years young.
"I'm in better shape then most of the 20- somethings I see"
You mean the pudgy Doritos eating gamers you see? lol

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2020-03-03T23:12:01+00:00

So many men are convinced they get more attractive even into their 40s. Yes, some 40 yo men can look better than a 20 yo neckbeard basement dweller, but that is not the point. If a 40 yo man looks good, then I would argue that this same man looked even better 10 years prior. Or at least had the ability to look better10 years prior. Women get judged harshly on their looks and age all the time, so why the surprise when a woman prefers an age-appropriate attractive man? This, of all things, men should be the most understanding of, as they themselves seem to have these preferences! LOL

And good on you OP for sticking to YOUR standards and preferences and fending off this delusional prick 🤮

99power · 2020-03-03T22:55:03+00:00

I’m in better shape than most of the 20-somethings I see

No.

themissdaydreamer · 2020-03-03T23:30:52+00:00

you can tell that is the kind of scrote who coerces young women into sex saying shit like "come on, you're an adult already, we're just having some fun"

glazedhamster · 2020-03-03T23:01:41+00:00

most women I've known acknowledge that guys get better looking as they age

So why aren't you dating THEM instead of creeping on this 19 year old woman who already told you to take your saggy balls and fuck off, Tom?

randomgirlimok · 2020-03-03T23:54:25+00:00

You mean most MEN think men get better looking as they age. Sorry but we don’t find receding hairlines attractive.

2020-03-03T23:33:38+00:00

"most women i've selectively listened to because they are saying something i want to hear"

cannedboelyn · 2020-03-03T23:41:09+00:00

Ha ha the audacity. And no, most older guys are not better looking than younger guys. There are rare exceptions based on self physical care. And more experienced doesn’t mean better

2020-03-03T22:42:20+00:00

Lmao what a completely delusional creep. Good for you for not taking his shit. Now just stop responding at all, he ain't worth a further second of your time.

FodderFigureIllushun · 2020-03-03T22:20:59+00:00

He's creepy. I would have stopped talking to him because even though you won't be going out with him, he's still getting responses from you and sometimes that's all these perverts want.

2020-03-03T22:21:57+00:00

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Skittleschild02 · 2020-03-03T23:07:53+00:00

Oh, gawd. Is that from Whisper? It’s not even a dating app but people treat it is. You can post anything about Mcdonald’s and some random will come in your dms talking about their dick or whatever else.

Just cesspool of ugh.

GroundbreakingCat · 2020-03-03T23:14:10+00:00

Strong pedo vibes. Block this creep

greensciencegeek · 2020-03-04T02:45:27+00:00

"Most women I've known acknowledge that guys get better looking as they age"

so why isn't he with one of them now?

Novemberinthechair · 2020-03-04T00:20:39+00:00

Look out, it's a dude attempting to take advantage of a woman too young for him! See, vampires do exist. Older women are hot, guys? Meh.

lightbluemind · 2020-03-04T01:50:25+00:00

I got messages almost exactly like when I was online dating. And even when they aren't overtly creepy - when they respond to "Actually, you're over my age limit" with "Oh ok nvm then" - they're still ignoring a boundary you've already set, because on OKCupid at least, you can see the person's age restrictions. So he's seeing "looking for men 25-31" or whatever, and his 39-year-old ass is still deciding to message the woman who does not want his messages.

bitch_not_it · 2020-03-04T02:09:46+00:00

This is perfect. Absolutely perfect

Also, so he's 40. Not 30, not 30s. He's 40. She specifically asked late 20s or 40. But he brings in the 30s and 40s to try to blend it all together because the late 20s OR 40 was just too much truth for him to handle

"A young 40" and in his opinion in better shape than most 20 somethings. Literally never has been true whenever a middle aged man claims this - just because he's got regular the middle aged bloat instead of being morbidly obese and his bald spot is just on top of his head and you can't really see it from the front

I'm not trying to be ageist - everyone ages but what is it about these disgusting middle aged men who try their hardest to act like they're 20 and think it's 100% totally normal to chase after girls under 20. And just baffled at the hint of a thought that they may not be appealing to a girl under 20

InayahDaneen · 2020-03-04T02:45:57+00:00

Notice the older these men get, the younger the age bracket of women they go for. Why don’t they stick to women closer to their age? It’s disturbing! I remember one of my supervisors at work advising me to never marry someone a decade older than me since older men can easily manipulate younger women. He also mentioned an older man’s DNA messes with a younger woman’s and ages her since women receive the man’s ejaculation during intercourse (I wish I had asked for the articles name since I’ve tried looking for it)

But I think it could be true when you look at such pairings (older man/younger woman) the woman tends to age quicker than she would or ends up looking the man’s age. Especially if she’s with a broke older guy, he ends up taking a toll on her youth. It’s happened to my mom (my dad was 27 years older than her).

It’s happened to my aunt who was only 14 when my grandmother married her off to a 47 year old pedophile (in Muslim countries men are allowed to marry underage girls).

Older men suck the fun & liveliness out of a younger woman’s youth. He pressures her to behave older than her age.

whathisbastardid · 2020-03-04T03:07:49+00:00

Women get better looking with age. They get curves and confidence and wisdom.

Men lose hair on their head, and grow longer nose hair! And they get dumber, way dumber because the years of porn use reduces gray matter in the prefrontal cortex. (For references seem pinned post on r/PornFreeRelationships our sister sub)

sweet_rat · 2020-03-04T03:31:05+00:00

I dated a 35 year old when I was 18. It was disgusting. Please let me have made that mistake for you. Block him and never think of that pig again.

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-03-04T01:35:45+00:00

I consider myself a young 40..... tf!

anoukdaae · 2020-03-04T02:01:46+00:00

Yeah, no. If life experience has taught me anything, it's that the only time guys in their 40s want to date women in their early 20s, it's because they want empty-headed arm candy that they can manipulate. I'm in my early 30s, and I wouldn't even touch a guy over 40. Just, completely different places in life. Nooooo

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-03-04T03:03:29+00:00

Ewwwwww 😫

randomyellowumbrella · 2020-03-04T03:04:17+00:00

Gross.

naenita_ · 2020-03-04T01:46:06+00:00

Yes, I've found 40 something men good looking... but not for me, and I'm 28 lol.

detectivejuicee · 2020-03-04T03:25:42+00:00

When do we stop nicely rejecting this type of guy and just lash out at them for the creeps they are omg I’m tired.

2020-03-04T03:56:04+00:00

Omg, ew, vom 🤢

Rockymemorylane · 2020-03-03T21:46:23+00:00

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willget_better · 2020-03-04T02:01:38+00:00

Why do you have your settings for older men if you’re not interested?

Title	Lmao, I’m 19.
Author	springdaylilly6
Upvotes	186
Comments	99
Date	March 3, 2020 9:32 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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