The Tea app must be deleted

SaltyBigBoi · 2025-07-22T22:12:10+00:00

The issue is that people (women especially) won't see this as an issue until the male version of the app is created. I deserve to know my date's STD history, body count, etc.

drkmttr_ · 2025-07-22T22:48:13+00:00

Imagine if the roles were flipped.

lonely_rat_xoxo · 2025-07-22T22:15:10+00:00

insanely disgusting app. holy fuck

MisterNovember8126 · 2025-07-22T23:29:43+00:00

There's another app in addition to the Tea App. It's being led by Paola Sanchez who started the whole "Are We Dating The Same Guy" Facebook groups where all of this started. Between her and Sean Cook @ Tea, they seem to both be in a shady opportunistic race to monetize and exploit the situation. It's going to do a lot of societal damage for both men and women. 100% guarantee this ends badly in lawsuits.

AWDTSG App

jessi387 · 2025-07-22T22:16:58+00:00

Is it actually possible to get this removed ?

Equal-Physics-1596 · 2025-07-22T23:22:50+00:00

It's also in Google Play, report it there too.

Edit: Reporting it through Google Play won't do anything, do it through here: https://support.google.com/googleplay/android-developer/contact/policy_violation_report

App id is com.tea.tea

friendlyfernando · 2025-07-22T22:34:19+00:00

Is this a US only app? Seems like it would be illegal in the EU under GDPR

Kentuckywindage01 · 2025-07-22T22:13:27+00:00

I just dowloaded it for shits and giggles. By God, they verify if you’re a woman via selfie. I tried to screenshot this, and it blocks the screenshot with a black screen.

TheSpaceDuck · 2025-07-22T23:53:20+00:00

The slandering and doxxing is only the tip of the iceberg. One of the advertised features is finding a guy's address just by inputting their phone number.

It's guaranteed that men who reject/ghost women will be given the Lavinia Woodward treatment thanks to this app. Dating as a man was already unsafe with how often violent behaviour towards men goes legally unpunished (even worse when it comes to sexual crime), but now you go into any date (or just message in a dating app) knowing that the psycho you rejected/ghosted could be at your doorstep tomorrow.

All I can say is that I'm glad I've found my partner a long time ago and I've been off the dating scene since then, because the tendency has been more and more to make dating unsafe for men and encourage hostile/violent behaviour towards men. The fact that this is the #1 free app on the Apple store tells a lot about how normalized/encouraged this hostility and violence are.

Daytona_675 · 2025-07-22T22:13:56+00:00

wasn't there another one of these that got shut down? forget the name

NulliosG · 2025-07-23T01:29:23+00:00

How tf is this even legal?! What a horrific deterrent for men to be active in the dating scene. Anyone can make up literally whatever they want.

Global-Brother3274 · 2025-07-22T23:34:18+00:00

How do you report it?

Bread-Zeppelin780 · 2025-07-22T21:50:46+00:00

Can you ELI5? never heard of it.

LushGut · 2025-07-22T23:55:35+00:00

How do i report it?

DullSpark98 · 2025-07-23T02:39:53+00:00

So basically, it’s Are we dating the same guy?

MannerNo7000 · 2025-07-22T22:02:32+00:00

Thx god its not available in Aus

Zipdox · 2025-07-22T23:40:31+00:00

I have serious doubts about the legality of this app in the EU. In any case, EU citizens can exercise their right to be forgotten and request they be removed from the platform and their information be excluded.

Frank_Bianco · 2025-07-23T00:17:16+00:00

Someone tried this with the tickle app in Australia, and a trans guy got it shut down for discrimination, the whole deal was pretty entertaining.

Clean_Priority4578 · 2025-07-23T03:06:33+00:00

There should be a civil lawsuit for sexism. Straight up. This is sick and degenerate. There should be a go fund me to file a civil lawsuit against this.

Any-Criticism5666 · 2025-07-23T06:24:44+00:00

Apps like that shouldn't even exist. It's basically illegal to slander someone's name, I think.

Aesopwise · 2025-07-22T22:34:29+00:00

This is just a more toxic version of the Lulu app. The Lulu app would actually give you constructive criticism and a rating if you were a man though. It was too based so I got removed. We should make our own version of this app, but make it a two-way street.

i_am_an_enigma · 2025-07-22T21:50:35+00:00

Send the link to the app

SimpleOk5895 · 2025-07-23T01:55:43+00:00

Wonder if contacting our local congressmen would help??

vabriga24 · 2025-07-23T06:22:01+00:00

Tell such girls you will have a convo with their ex to see what type of bs u can expect from her, and see how a women will literaly fight for her life.

AbysmalDescent · 2025-07-23T05:12:16+00:00

This is disturbing and disgusting. No app should ever just be setup for "insert group of people" only. Could you imagine an app that was designed as "for verified white people only" and promoted to white supremacist to share personal information about minorities or bond over their negative or subjective experiences with minorities under the guise of "safety". Slander is also entirely guaranteed with this kind of application. It's not an if but a certainty, and it's very unlikely that these kinds of apps will be fact checked.

Malignant_Lvst7 · 2025-07-23T07:46:35+00:00

but would 100% be claimed “misogyny” if there was a mens only app. n they’d look at you like you’re an evil, narcissistic, shallow, low life if you had downloaded in the past

SatisfactionEasy3446 · 2025-07-22T22:27:18+00:00

Wombyn constantly get websites exposing them taking down for cheating, homewrecking, and prostitution.

Modern_Ketchup · 2025-07-23T00:53:08+00:00

I’d love to make one for women ive been saying recently. my secretary coworker just ended 1 year ship because she found the guy on there. how do i put something online of this girl that i was on dates with that got dick pics from men while we were hanging out? and i’m the asshole for getting upset that she didn’t wanna block them. tf is this shit?

TheSpoty · 2025-07-23T04:51:59+00:00

Fucking sickening.

soldierboy3 · 2025-07-23T02:52:25+00:00

Well thank god this app is not on my country. But I’ll tell you what. You can take actions and legally sue them. This is an easy a very easy one which you can sue anyone who even posted you also after suing the developer

Unpopularopinion341 · 2025-07-23T06:40:32+00:00

Reported! But how is something like this legal? I swear there is all kind of laws that protect against stuff like this.

I have seen male groups( small ones) where dudes do something similar mainly to protect against scamming women and danger and when the women find out they take the ultimate steps .

OrganicHedgehog8483 · 2025-07-23T12:28:32+00:00

It’s such an invasion of privacy and a deal breaker for me personally. The concept is great but any clanker could see how it would eventually turn into a horrible idea. It’s just an echo chamber for women to shit on men, gossip or spread rumors. I believe few actually use it for the intended purpose. Largely why I don’t do dating apps.

Whatthehellman_stop_ · 2025-07-23T02:15:22+00:00

FUCK IT LETS MAKE OUR OWN VERSION NOW!!!

SeaHeight5867 · 2025-07-23T03:41:42+00:00

Mannnn add me on ig lets create something for all the dogs cause these women think they winning

Prudent_Patient1509 · 2025-07-23T03:53:25+00:00

You got the link

Regular-Charity8902 · 2025-07-23T07:30:11+00:00

This app is honestly trash there are females who will talk crap and lie about men they want to be with and try to ruin relationships. Women are dumb and I can see why men do them the way they do them cus I really hope we get a women one I have a few ppl I would love to know their business

Embarrassed_Tip6665 · 2025-07-23T11:01:06+00:00

We should make a is this bitch crazy version lol

ferrousduck7089 · 2025-07-23T14:51:19+00:00

Already reported it to Apple this morning on basis of being discriminatory on basis of gender, against men and intergender people

Impossible_Budget_85 · 2025-07-23T18:57:57+00:00

Women are such hypocrites,they entertain literally 7-10 men at once but if a man dares focus on just one woman besides her(dating phase),he’s a dog!

Hubris1998 · 2025-07-23T19:57:02+00:00

I could bet every single cent in my bank account that if we made a coffee app, we'd be instantly persecuted and denounced

Most-Inflation-4370 · 2025-07-22T21:56:37+00:00

Anonymous app that you can't use in court?

Top_Touch_8101 · 2025-07-26T04:45:45+00:00

We finally got one of our own!

TeaAppForMen.com

Snoo-81328 · 2025-07-26T07:12:39+00:00

dont delete the app. just make the exact same for men on women and the outcry of women will be oh so loud and such apps will be forbidden instantly

MichaelPopeDev_17 · 2025-07-28T02:53:49+00:00

Fight fire with fire, I'm building the male version called TeaBag. If you want early access or to support it, sign up below.

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSezqgqa1PBrb4ZXR5nsIt7-_3W6KyEnuWxSyfE2J9jcWCbNfw/viewform?usp=header

NoSand4979 · 2025-07-28T11:17:47+00:00

Hello everyone,

Per my research, this apps operations and its users are in direct violation of at least 8 California state laws and 2 federal stalking statutes.

I am working to organize a class action lawsuit against Tea Dating Advice, Inc. There are a couple of legal organizations that could represent us if enough evidence is presented.

If you have been affected, or know someone who was negatively impacted in any way by the Tea app, please send me a private DM ASAP.

I am currently working on gathering donations for legal counsel so we can get justice for those affected and stop the company from further harm.

Again please send a private DM if you are interested in organizing a class action suit or have been affected by this app!

Human-Spend9442 · 2025-07-23T03:41:10+00:00

They need to delete this app this is harassment bullying and fake false accusations is not right at all this app needs to be banned for good

local_meme_dealer45 · 2025-07-23T13:59:25+00:00

The biggest red flag this app can show you is by opening your front camera. The cognitive dissonance required to use this app is insane

Willing_Cancel_23 · 2025-07-23T16:55:48+00:00

Help us remove the TEA APP. This is a protected fundraiser.

https://gofund.me/129a5fdf

Please spread the word!

itsromeb · 2025-07-23T18:21:56+00:00

I meean I did get a nice settlement check from Bumble so we’ll see

kennyhen · 2025-07-23T19:30:24+00:00

You can Sue btw

Vegetable-Leave-9401 · 2025-07-23T19:33:50+00:00

The report buttons gone

chaosrealm93 · 2025-07-23T20:19:35+00:00

I identify as a woman, does that get me in?

Global-Praline-1170 · 2025-07-23T22:28:55+00:00

Simple thing to do is to create the make version of the app

Conscious_Mention_85 · 2025-07-23T22:38:52+00:00

Bro isn’t this app defamation some girl can just lie and ruin some guys life and he can’t do anything abt it 😭

ChipDjango · 2025-07-24T00:01:28+00:00

It's not available is Israel... hmm. What does that tell us??

turnipduck · 2025-07-24T00:01:44+00:00

In past 8 months I've been posted 5 times in an 'are we dating the same guy' group. Not sure if it's one person or different girls. I'm single, I've never done anything against anyone but I must start looking like a creep after regularly popping up on there.

Emotional-Impress-74 · 2025-07-24T00:03:20+00:00

lol u mad

Reasonable_Elk3267 · 2025-07-24T02:19:26+00:00

Literally the first sentence in the description is, “Are we dating the same guy?”

Top_Height5303 · 2025-07-24T02:27:14+00:00

I find it funny that the Tea app was made so that women can share safety tips about men in their area, which, while not inherently a bad idea (I mean, those statistics don't exist for a reason.), has the potential to lead to mass libel.

On the other the and... the male equivalent Teaborn? It was shut down quickly and not because of sexism or that men were sharing redflags and safety tips regarding women and the super sekrit shadow feminazi lizard government didn't like that. No, it was cause of the sheer amount of revenge pornography being shared. Like, even when you all made a good thing, you can't keep it because you can't even be better than your opposition. Like, you can't miss the side-shatteringly funny irony of

Women make app to share possible redflags and safety warnings of men in their area, such as them being dangerous or abusive. It's used for it intended purpose most of the time and the worst that happens is "He sucks, he took me out for only a coffee smh and makes less than six figures..." or "Don't date him, he dumped me and I'm still not over it."

Men make app to share possible redflags and safety warnings of women in their area, such as them being dangerous or abusive. It's used to share so much revenge pornography that it's shut down.

Like, both apps have the potential for real harm (libel, defamation, lying, etc.) but one went out and not only proved what harm can come but the other side's beliefs of why they needed that app in the first place.

TLDR; Tea and Teaborn are terrible ideas for apps and the idea that you can rate someone not on their service but their own humanity will lead to trouble.

zero2sic · 2025-07-24T15:51:10+00:00

They already do it in those female only FB groups.

BayAreaHeartThrob · 2025-07-24T15:58:17+00:00

Reported the app lmaoooo, it’s crazy how Tea Reborn was deleted so fast before I could install it lmao

Chart-Turbulent · 2025-07-24T16:46:05+00:00

its fine. The women on these apps are REJECTED by the men and those men already have new women who are not on said app

Think about it. Happy women dont go here.

Alternative_Ad2697 · 2025-07-24T20:25:07+00:00

Im trying to figure out why be worried if you played your part as a real man. Lol all yall must lie and cheat 🤣 😂

Mother_Bag_3114 · 2025-07-24T20:29:40+00:00

Dude just live a normal human life and this won’t matter to you

slippage_ · 2025-07-23T01:04:10+00:00

not available in Aus

HueeJackman · 2025-07-23T05:17:40+00:00

All you have to do is apply to join, then report them for not accepting you based on your gender. Claim you are trans

mlsecdl · 2025-07-25T18:32:58+00:00

Woops, a real fucking shame: https://www.cnet.com/tech/services-and-software/tea-app-breach-exposes-72000-selfies-id-photos-and-other-user-images/

jasiuB21 · 2025-07-25T23:26:05+00:00

they doxxed their users lmao

abdelkarim19 · 2025-07-26T05:19:23+00:00

They aired their shit out and I’m here for it

Spicyjollof98 · 2025-07-26T09:59:59+00:00

Op must’ve been on to something or the hacker saw this post 😂💀

Hurley120 · 2025-07-26T11:26:16+00:00

Women want relationships but there’s no trust and apps like this are to blame

FearlessDepth2578 · 2025-07-26T12:00:28+00:00

I found someone talking about me FROM 22 YEARS AGO! lol. I was a bit of a cad before getting married 22 years ago, and it STILL has someone talking! Lol. They sure can hold a grudge! The photo that was inlcude was from HIGH SCHOOL. I was a kid with a mowhawk and a lether jacket.

stillbornangel · 2025-07-26T15:23:05+00:00

The mens tea app would be like “this bitch gave me 5/10 head”

ProfessionalDry5048 · 2025-07-26T20:04:54+00:00

Just learned about this, holy shit, cannot believe it honestly. Is this the reason why I get like no matches on anything because shitty women make things up about me and assume it's right. Fucking HATE this generation fucking wish I was in the early 19 hundreds at least then the women would have to be the worst in person.

Other-Persimmon9496 · 2025-07-27T11:08:20+00:00

I think its hilarious and ironic that the database was leaked. Now all these 200 lb fatties are exposed for being the douchebags they are!

ApprehensiveIce7987 · 2025-07-27T13:24:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1mam7aw/tea_app/ trying to gauge interest

DavidFullLAG · 2025-07-27T13:37:02+00:00

guess what all the data was in the open and someone found out, they had NO security, now someone made a website to rate the women who were on the app

Clean-Fault6185 · 2025-07-27T16:47:11+00:00

Just ignore any skank who uses it, lol. It’s really not that big of an issue if you just ignore every single slut who does.

Don’t talk to them, don’t be near them, don’t even mate with these types of females. Leave them to die old and alone, used, and with their cats or lesbian partners since they hate men so much.

Zestyclose_Walrus268 · 2025-07-27T17:54:07+00:00

I think that’s fine, but if they can do it, so can we I’m going to be developing my own app for men who can label females as gold diggers, cheaters, manipulative etc…. Or positive maybe they are good people but you hated that they chewed like a cow hahaha

Raraucouspie01 · 2025-07-28T01:46:11+00:00

This is absolutely disgusting, and it shows how low society has become. If a group of girls wanted to ruin a man reputation because a woman got mad and told her friends I'm sure it could happen.

StarlightGamer356 · 2025-07-28T11:35:41+00:00

Dating in America is done. It’s over, completely and utterly finished. I’m done, for good. Focusing on my career, fitness, and friends. I was just born into the wrong time…

Asleep_Radio1750 · 2025-08-02T19:46:58+00:00

There’s an app called “teaonher” for men in the App Store. Looks to be the same idea..

zaapas · 2025-08-11T16:01:54+00:00

It's already banned in Europe.

fatedeclipse · 2025-08-14T06:42:47+00:00

Oh great. My psycho ex has been parading around spreading false accusations about me for two years. Glad to see she has a new platform to keep up the act. 😑

Epicael · 2025-07-23T06:22:01+00:00

Let's do our own version but for men it is going to be polemical and deleted almost instantly? Yes but that's the point when they complain about we will bring the tea app to the table and ask why they didn't about that, then they will try to say that it's different but it is and they will be exposed as the hypocrites they are but more important we will have a new argument and reasons to ask the tea app to be taken down

EverySingleMinute · 2025-07-23T12:23:59+00:00

How does the app know you are female?

Lord-Zedd-Rik · 2025-07-23T12:26:02+00:00

Just checked we don't have any type of tea or similar app In the uk as rules and regulations wouldn't allow it as even though we are not technically in the eu we mimic most of there gdpr rules. How I'd did make me think how us as men would get around it. Say we made a male edition of the app however we also allowed the person who was on a page be able to tell there side of the story. Now here me out first before I get any backlass. First and foremost you would have to provide legal documents to prove who you are before posting about anyone like passport driving license. The person who who you would be making a post has to do the same to be able to tell there side of the story and prove they are the same person. But you would also allow fellow friends and family or both parties to provide there experiences from interacting with said person who the post was about. Even may videos nothing like revenge porn etc but proof like the woman abusing you when they been hitting you or taking drugs and alcohol and out of control same for freely available police camera footage or then being abusive at time of the arrest. Make it so only the app could be about woman being posted. So like wise they would allow females to make make a similar app. But by allowing the woman on there page to see what is posted about them and others to prove to with legal proof of audio video or photo footage all claims are true. You back yourself up legally unless a previous court order said otherwise this is 100% the person this page is about. The fact they have provided legal documents to prove they are the woman would bring proof they admit they are the woman the page is about to be able to tell there side of the story. I'm sure very quickly this would make headline news. But because you have provided proof of all things on that person's and they will as woman do admit there reason why they did said thing was because you did or said this or was trying to control them aka what ever she says to try prove shes is the right and your in the wrong. I'd recon by say about 3 months of this app being public woman wouldn't even have enough time to release there edition of the app and you in the usa would very quickly have a law like we do in uk and Europe to stop apps and websites like this from ever being a thing again and at a least both sexes would have projections in law so you can go after the page makers or app makers or said contents.

We are men we need to think about these things with logic. Stop apps like this from happen ever again for both sexes. And back ourselves up in the process while doing so. There's more to fighting fire with fire. Us men built the world , and it would end without us. Let's use are heads to stop this once and for all. Put your comments below to what you think and how we could achieve this legally.

The_Ace_of_Grace · 2025-07-23T13:37:12+00:00

Also report it here on the Google Play store

https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.tea.tea

Ok-Nefariousness101 · 2025-07-23T18:04:50+00:00

I wonder if you can sue for defamation of what is not true (with proof)

Honest-Regular-9561 · 2025-07-23T21:29:04+00:00

Where’s the men’s tea app

Short_King_13 · 2025-07-23T21:52:52+00:00

I must be out of the loop or living in a dam cave. Some kind soul could explain what this app are about?

danaeegoddess · 2025-07-23T23:13:18+00:00

Men have a sub reddit dedicated to exposing toxic women

Low_Session8677 · 2025-07-24T00:29:26+00:00

I literally saw a man crying about how the tea app needs to be deleted because it’s “ruining his image”. Mind you, he has 20 red flags and 10 people commenting singing the same songs about him & it wasn’t a lie because he was in fact abusive. Like I’m sorry but all these people can’t be lying, yall hate it because it exposes your true behavior. No, most of the women aren’t “out to get you”. I think the creator of the app should do a better job at responding to claims, and there should be a better system BUTTT I do not believe the app should be removed just because a bunch of psychopaths are scared of being exposed if they haven’t been already. There should be an app that brings awareness.

Canikpanik · 2025-07-24T00:34:38+00:00

Whos making a male version asap??

antagymous · 2025-07-24T00:37:14+00:00

Tbh.. I do not believe there is much you can do as far as getting the app deleted. The internet is a public space. However, the strongest argument is gender discrimination. A selfie does not determine whether you are a male or female. It also discriminates against transgenders which is ironic because their community is known for being faced with violent attacks by men. I personally believe the app will destroy itself. It will be filed with so much bullshit that the validity will go out the window.

Wpns_Grade · 2025-07-24T00:56:13+00:00

You know, before all of this I thought about creating an app that lets anyone rate People 1/5 starts. Kinda like a social credit system. But anyone could use it not just 1 gender.

Realistic_Message195 · 2025-07-24T01:09:24+00:00

Here is what is tripping me up.

Let’s say someone is legitimately being slandered which is almost certain to happen, who is responsible?

Normally you would sue the offending party. But if the app is truly anonymous then I feel like the app owner would be legally accountable. Technically are you not being slandered by the app if they can’t tie it back to a user or verify it is not slander?

I’m not a lawyer and this is not legal advice I am just generally curious.

Which-Ad8041 · 2025-07-24T01:13:46+00:00

Lmao

w0rst1 · 2025-07-24T01:21:35+00:00

I had thought of the rating your ex or future partner app like 5 years ago. Where people can anonymously rate that person based on emotions, sexual interactions and much more. But it would only be rate based. Called it Rate. If anyone wants to build the idea, lmk. Willing to work something out and provide more ideas.

solabang · 2025-07-24T01:27:25+00:00

I can already see the posts of “cheap”, “broke”, or “took me on a walk and for coffee” and a lot of guys are taken off the table just for being adult with their money or dating intentionally. I’m already seeing black women I’ve known talking about actual tea and it’s nowhere near about safety concerns. There will be a lot of bashing some really good men and it’s a sad reality. On a side note, it’s even sadder that us men were given an app and opportunity to even the playing field and dudes decided to post revenge porn smh tragic

RepulsiveBig4349 · 2025-07-24T02:32:05+00:00

I see that app as the fourth wave of feminism and it's digital. It's probably going to be the final blow to the dating market at the end of the day. Everybody will lose, men could potentially be doxxed with this app which will cause them to no longer want to pursue dating, leaving a lot of women single, Will will then make dating much harder for women, There are no winners in this.

JoeRadd · 2025-07-24T02:33:20+00:00

Just review yourself positively

weatherinfo · 2025-07-24T02:49:38+00:00

I took a super flattering picture of myself and thought I got approved but got sent to manual review

weatherinfo · 2025-07-24T02:49:56+00:00

Nah, let’s make a male version instead of getting it taken down. The reactions will be worth it.

fman916 · 2025-07-24T02:54:30+00:00

Word is an app called "body count" is coming out, and it lets men know if shes in it to just get free food, rent paid etc too lol

I'm assuming if you understand probabilities then you'd get your answer and the psychological effect for a woman to see herself being spoken about like that will have some sort of effect on her more than likely as well. Sad state regardless.

Affectionate_Salt941 · 2025-07-24T03:03:20+00:00

As a woman I think it should be deleted. Everybody got a past IMO. I don’t want answers to people sexual past other than if you clean and clear of STDs and diseases you can’t get rid of. Why can’t people be okay with two grown adults being consenting and doing there thing. If it goes sour move on. Just that simple

NeatSolid1183 · 2025-07-24T03:50:48+00:00

Until the egg chases the sperm we won’t be equal. The tea app is mostly criminals, abusers, and child offenders. We are looking out for each other. If you are a good man you have nothing to worry about :)

kenuuhdeee · 2025-07-24T04:05:54+00:00

LMAO men are that bitter that you have to report the app to shut it down? This is so sad, just enjoy the one made for you. Literally can’t pinpoint why it actually makes men upset, none of these reasons make actual sense.

New_Gap_9694 · 2025-07-24T04:08:37+00:00

Its a man version made now, called teaborn on the apple app store

Gold-Refrigerator408 · 2025-07-24T04:16:02+00:00

I don’t think that many people understand that men are inherently dangerous. If you’re a truly honest person who isnt abusive, violent, and/or has questionable intentions, you should have no reason to worry about being featured on this app or being on AWDTG.

What’s really telling is how many of you want an app where the roles are reversed, however, you name, body counts and STD history as things you wish to be posted. Majority of the stories posted in these groups are from women who have already contracted an STD from someone who lied or who have faced real abuse from men. We aren’t trying to inquire about body count, nudes or anything sexual, really. It’s supposed to be a place to protect women, not judge men.

Many of you actually have something to worry about because you’re a POS - and that’s why you’re so concerned about what’s being said.

Dear-Sandwich-8869 · 2025-07-24T04:50:04+00:00

🍵 $50 for 3 Green or Red Flags – Let’s Spill the Truth 🍵 Your business stays private. Your peace of mind? Worth it. 🫖💌 I will do searches for 5$.

Electronic-Panic-876 · 2025-07-24T05:10:43+00:00

Just remember if a man got std or hiv it’s from a woman lol

Tarev97 · 2025-07-24T05:40:31+00:00

This app sounds so toxic, the fact that women actually think it’s a great idea is insane, it’s a invasion of privacy, it’s childish, who wants their pictures uploaded to a sight without their consent and discussed and seen by possibly thousand of women in the area that you haven’t even met yet?? So if you had one bad encounter someone can literally ruin your reputation and image and make it hard for you to find love, whoever created this app is a psychopath

ApprehensiveGreen122 · 2025-07-24T06:38:52+00:00

It's not going to happen. deal with it and be super careful of what you say post do etc and maybe you will have a relationship or be yourself and end up alone even if you accidentally don't keep the door open to a woman. a man was killed for this.

jcantor2000 · 2025-07-24T06:43:54+00:00

If there’s one behavior that exemplifies the slow, grinding downfall of modern womanhood, beyond the glaring vacuum of meaningful contribution in many corners of society, it’s the compulsive need to gossip. Not casual chatter, mind you. I mean the full-time, venom-laced vocation of character assassination disguised as “concern” or “just saying.”

Now, don’t mistake this for some censorship crusade. The First Amendment is, after all, the crowning jewel of Western civilization. But the way some of these women weaponize speech like it’s a sport? It's not free expression. It’s sabotage disguised as civility.

And now they want to take your photo without one’s permission to publicly shame you? And what if it's abused? What if they whine about a series of trivial and stupid things? Like tipping or money issues? A red flag isn't just a red flag. Women use that trite hashtag for a variety of nonsensical issues.

They're not just gossipers. They're guttersniping, fork-tongued vipers who feast on the reputations of others like it’s brunch. It's pathological. And what’s worse: they bond over it, build identities around it, and then demand moral high ground while sinking their teeth into whoever’s not in the room. Frankly, it turns my stomach. If idle talk is the devil’s playground, some of them built a luxury resort on it.

Honestly, if it's not removed or a male equivalent isn't developed, then here's to hoping that the Anonymous hacker group or the 4chaners will go after their lousy asses. Or perhaps DOX the app developers themselves.

Humble-Xora · 2025-07-24T06:54:59+00:00

The Founder & CEO of Tea is a homosexual who created the app because his mom was DMing criminals on dating apps.

https://x.com/MedGold_/status/1948119566954983912

tarantulacowboy · 2025-07-24T08:24:03+00:00

Men need to really work on themselves. These comments are so sad.

Zealousideal-Sea1045 · 2025-07-24T08:29:36+00:00

This is destined to fail. Anything that involves overt co-operation between women , especially around finding high value mates, will never work. 100% this app was started by some idiot dude who couldnt find a woman to date to save his life.

WeakAuthor · 2025-07-24T09:16:21+00:00

I will be making a male only app called accountability

lilricky19 · 2025-07-24T10:14:39+00:00

Make your own or make a group on Facebook.

Natural-Examination5 · 2025-07-24T10:26:39+00:00

What are the subreddits for the same information and intel on women without the apps ?

therealpork · 2025-07-24T12:04:18+00:00

Things like "Are we dating the same guy" and then Tea app basically prove that short men are right, only 20% of men are getting all the matches. How the hell are some random men so popular that dozens of women can opine about their experiences with said men? Short men never appear on these things because people see "5'1" and swipe like a cockroach landed on their screen.

ds2465 · 2025-07-24T12:08:19+00:00

Haha didn’t we go through this when that Lulu app was a thing 15 years ago

Left_Berry_2167 · 2025-07-24T12:24:12+00:00

"where are all the men at?" A question we may never have an answer to...

Mr_Neo-Anderson · 2025-07-24T12:24:27+00:00

I don’t care. Women will continue to share the top percentage of men.

Epicmittens54 · 2025-07-24T12:43:07+00:00

https://www.change.org/p/remove-the-tea-and-are-we-dating-the-same-guy-apps-from-app-stores/starter-onboarding/signature-milestone started a petition to get this app removed, along with reporting this app to App Store outlets please sign this petition to gain exposure for the app to be removed.

jaygohamm · 2025-07-24T12:43:53+00:00

Honestly I thought I was paranoid but I have a feeling I’m on this as I have felt my numbers come to a grinding halt and had no clue why either I’m cooked or on this app I really wanna check can someone for me…

PigletPretend7175 · 2025-07-24T13:04:29+00:00

App is unfortunately not available in my region to report it. I've tried VPN too

Basique_b · 2025-07-24T13:19:48+00:00

Idk have yall tried not being shitty?

Turbulent_Hour2858 · 2025-07-24T13:58:22+00:00

If someone used your image on that app without your consent, simply file a DMCA take down, especially if you own the rights to your photo, and someone posted it without your consent.

No_Cricket9170 · 2025-07-24T14:51:18+00:00

One Latvian guy was victim of Latvian version of this thing. Reason why he got there was because he is conservative and rich and both moderators are left wing junkies who are jelous of him. Any one defending this got my full discust.

LazyCaptions · 2025-07-24T15:17:11+00:00

Guys you need to review bomb it to atleast get the rating down a bit

sibythomas_ · 2025-07-24T15:45:07+00:00

There was a female version and they took it done from the App Store.

https://teaborn.app/

xQueenxJx · 2025-07-24T17:31:24+00:00

I’m a woman (25) and in the app lol. Some people are doing a lot but genuinely, I feel like it wouldn’t be bad if there was an app for everybody (or separate ones) bc it really is good to know histories. I mean ofc we should all get tested and stuff before starting new relationships but that’s unfortunately not the case for everybody. And not everybody is capable of being transparent even months into a relationship/fling.

I may get heat for this but we really do need to acknowledge: there’s a lot of bad people out there and unfortunately a lot of bad men. It’s definitely not all men, but we need more good men to call out the bad men, hold them accountable, etc. Some people are being messy but truthfully, and naturally with patriarchies and toxic masculinity (red pill trend made it even worse🙄), there’s too many men who are harming women (and others) roaming free and unaccountable. There are too many stats of abuse, too many cases collecting dust, too much to act like this is uncalled for. Not all men are bad but TOO MANY are.

We’ll see what happens with the app and what happens when one for women comes out. But keep in mind that this app was made by a man whose mom had too many dating horror stories.

(Please hold more of the bad guys accountable, even if they’re your best buddy or blood brother. There’s too many terrible videos online of bad things at the hand of men with other grown men standing around doing nothing! Too many bad men are walking around unchecked and that’s not cool.)

CanPuzzleheaded3736 · 2025-07-24T17:51:58+00:00

😮‍💨the man hating on social media never ends. You just have to get off the internet and back to real life where people aren't like this.

DizzyOperation4532 · 2025-07-24T18:20:26+00:00

Hey guys how about we all come together and create an app that rivals the tea app let’s match the energy with energy. Let’s not complain about it let’s do something about it. I need help anybody with some good ideas for a name and guidelines????

mr_longfellow_deeds · 2025-07-24T18:51:40+00:00

This app is in gross violation of Illinois state law at a minimum (BIPA class action lawsuits here are notorious). Is there anyway to see if you are on the app? I will happily sue if I am on it.

SupremeNeverDies · 2025-07-24T18:55:55+00:00

(Copy & Paste this) - Remove this part for the dummies

⭐️ 1-Star Review Title: Enables Defamation, Harassment & Legal Risk – Remove This App

This app promotes anonymous defamation and cyber harassment. Users post unverified, damaging claims about real people—including names, photos, and personal details—without evidence. Many posts accuse individuals of abuse, infidelity, STDs, or criminal behavior with no verification. This is not “dating advice”—it’s a digital smear campaign tool that violates defamation laws, privacy rights, and opens victims to public shaming. It encourages targeted bullying and character assassination under the guise of “safety.” If Apple continues hosting it, you may face legal and reputational consequences as the platform facilitating this abuse. Section 230 may not shield apps that knowingly allow harmful, illegal content. This app invites lawsuits and serious harm. Apple must investigate and remove it immediately to prevent further damage. Protect user rights and dignity—take action now

Het_Kipman · 2025-07-24T19:24:00+00:00

Defamation lawsuits incoming. Sue them if they're spreading false information about you.

Roamer56 · 2025-07-24T20:15:40+00:00

Addiction to social media needs to be the first reason for a man telling a woman to get lost. Guys, do your research on them. If she’s doing misandrist rants and/or thirst traps, walk!

mundus_zsh_senescit · 2025-07-24T20:30:07+00:00

[ Removed by Reddit ]

Nervous-Attempt-7575 · 2025-07-24T21:24:21+00:00

THE THING IS THIS CAN AFFECT BIG CITY OFFICIALS ARTIST ETC

FrequentCountry6870 · 2025-07-24T21:26:16+00:00

Seriously, you only have something to worry about if you know that you’re a red-flag. I keep reading “imagine if it was flipped”… but it’s not the same. Women feel unsafe around certain men. Fact. So as a man with somewhat emotional intelligence I have zero problems with this app.

Obvious-Resort8803 · 2025-07-24T21:43:08+00:00

Everyone a part of this subreddit I promise you’re not on the tea app, you need to actually get pussy to be on there 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

AllUsernamesInUse_ · 2025-07-24T22:03:22+00:00

r/TeaAppVictims

CommissionHour7832 · 2025-07-24T22:27:58+00:00

If woman thought it was hard to get a date before 😂 All the fat unattractive women we would hit up after midnight off a whim are about to be humbled and learn their place. Now that men can be exposed for so much as sending you a DM men will naturally become ALLOT more selective as a result. Businesses will suffer woman will suffer and men will just use their right or left hand and move on with life. If this app isn’t taken down within a week it might be too late if not already.

NamelesIntelect · 2025-07-24T22:28:11+00:00

And now the men have an app as well. Light em up fellas

MP82494 · 2025-07-24T22:41:46+00:00

Who could possibly get a good review on this thing? Who would sing praises about someone they stopped dating?

Ambitious-Wind-6338 · 2025-07-24T22:45:44+00:00

Somebody make the men’s version of this, i’m ready for the nuclear option, fight fire with fire

Resident-Security-16 · 2025-07-24T23:06:30+00:00

great reason to delete your dating apps, go outside and actually meet people. touch some grass with some fine shit you feel me?

Easy_Diver_8849 · 2025-07-24T23:38:35+00:00

All I’m saying is if any of my private information is on that app I’m going to sue the heck out of the app. Defamation, stress, harassment. Literally anything I can sue for I will

Broad-Tell4356 · 2025-07-25T00:14:29+00:00

I think it’s a good thing!

SympathyCharming4869 · 2025-07-25T00:34:41+00:00

The tea born app reveal isn’t surprising to those of us who’ve experienced dating deception firsthand. After my divorce at 42, I hopped on apps like Hinge and Bumble, preferring to meet quickly in person to avoid endless texting or no-shows. Once, I arrived early for a date and accidentally witnessed my match finishing another date before ours—complete with a to-go box. I sent her a picture of them on their way out and left.

Honesty is non-negotiable if relationships are to work. It’s disappointing that some weaponize vulnerability, but the truth is deceit isn’t gendered. Both men and women get hurt when transparency isn’t the foundation. Hopefully tools like this push people toward accountability—because investing in someone should mean they’re real with you from the start.

SelectionForeign7260 · 2025-07-25T00:47:38+00:00

Make a male version mfs not going to like it…. They probably on that mf lying they ass off too

Lrellok · 2025-07-25T00:57:33+00:00

Ill settle for seeing my own profile and then suing them for liable.

BudgetRisk3237 · 2025-07-25T01:08:06+00:00

It’s time we gotta mass report that app use every tactic saw myself I wanna 💀myself in gta oh I’m gonna sue anything because this was one of the craziest things in App Store history genuinely we gotta stop babying grown women who enjoy bad men company like u know what it takes for a relationship yet u stay with the emotionally unavailable guy that wants to fuck so much of them think a real man is someone that can pay for nails I’m like a abusive loser can do that like stop trying to make your ideal man perfect because in reality he’s shitty like u ask a man what’s his type he goes blondes u ask him if it ever works out with blondes he goes nah so im trying something new ask a women she say 6feet handsome hot rich guy has it worked out no ok what are u gonna do nothing keep dating the same man in different bodies over and over again

jawntothefuture · 2025-07-25T01:13:35+00:00

It spreads gossip and slander, basically the two prime venoms that women spew/ keeps them in trouble. Quite ironic

EffectiveGround125 · 2025-07-25T01:23:31+00:00

jokes on you, i'm not on the apps.

eclipsespider · 2025-07-25T01:51:44+00:00

im part of the top 1% of men BY CHOICE. dating coach bootcamp(S)****. and previous incel before making my choices. average guys need to realize the competition became global and went from stiff to armageddon ten fucking years ago already now and stop being such retards that make our gender look like the stupid shitforbrains one. this app will only widen the gap

AmbitiousYesterday75 · 2025-07-24T02:49:12+00:00

Men are worried their reputation may be harmed... women are being murdered and SA'd...

Same old story...Men have a fear that women will laugh at them ... Women have a fear that they will be murdered.

One woman a day is being killed via the femicide epidemic... you're the ones creating your own loneliness epidemic...

Protect women... From yourselves.

No_Journalist_7201 · 2025-07-23T09:21:31+00:00

Did yall not here the news? 5 women died by using that TEA dating app

Mace96 · 2025-07-23T20:20:10+00:00

lol, I don’t love the idea of unverified reports about me either but if the girl you are dating is a rational person, she will confront you about anything concerning she reads and you’ll have the chance to defend yourself and so will begin developing trust in the relationship. If she chooses to believe random things online and ghost you or otherwise hold it against you without verifying, she is not the kind of person you want to date. Hope this helped.

EveningFinancial9720 · 2025-07-24T17:51:21+00:00

Yall are actually slow ash. The app keeps women from being w man wh*res. It also catches ppl in lies, prevents them from knowingly spreading stds. And stop women from meeting up w abusers. Get your sht tg if you’re so worried and quit peeving the women u entertain off. They will have no reason to lie on your name. GET IT TG.

Academic-State-8180 · 2025-07-24T18:16:26+00:00

Misusing an app like this should be punished exactly like a 911 prank call. Its the same thing. But these women are too much of a coward to actually prank call 911.

redditforcedmesignup · 2025-07-23T03:47:48+00:00

Koffee Leaks is the male version currently in early access

airboyexpress · 2025-07-24T00:01:51+00:00

i got an app idea called “that f*’n b**” where men can warn other men about fuckin bitches

Mythril_Bahaumut · 2025-07-24T01:58:01+00:00

This is a lawsuit waiting to happen.

lindzcat2006 · 2025-07-24T06:40:43+00:00

If there’s one behavior that exemplifies the slow, grinding downfall of modern womanhood, beyond the glaring vacuum of meaningful contribution in many corners of society, it’s the compulsive need to gossip. Not casual chatter, mind you. I mean the full-time, venom-laced vocation of character assassination disguised as “concern” or “just saying.”

Now, don’t mistake this for some censorship crusade. The First Amendment is, after all, the crowning jewel of Western civilization. But the way some of these women weaponize speech like it’s a sport? It's not free expression. It’s social demolition with a smile.

And now they want to take your photo without one’s permission to publicly shame you? And what if it's abused? What if they whine about a series of trivial and stupid things? Like tipping or money issues? A red flag isn't just a red flag. Women use that trite hashtag for a variety of nonsensical issues.

I hope the Anonymous hacker group or the 4chaners goes after their lousy asses.

They're not just gossipers. They're guttersniping, fork-tongued vipers who feast on the reputations of others like it’s brunch. It's pathological. And what’s worse: they bond over it, build identities around it, and then demand moral high ground while sinking their teeth into whoever’s not in the room. Frankly, it turns my stomach. If idle talk is the devil’s playground, some of them built a luxury resort on it.

SupremeNeverDies · 2025-07-24T18:54:56+00:00

Copy & Paste this Guys

⭐️ 1-Star Review Title: Enables Defamation, Harassment & Legal Risk – Remove This App

This app promotes anonymous defamation and cyber harassment. Users post unverified, damaging claims about real people—including names, photos, and personal details—without evidence. Many posts accuse individuals of abuse, infidelity, STDs, or criminal behavior with no verification. This is not “dating advice”—it’s a digital smear campaign tool that violates defamation laws, privacy rights, and opens victims to public shaming. It encourages targeted bullying and character assassination under the guise of “safety.” If Apple continues hosting it, you may face legal and reputational consequences as the platform facilitating this abuse. Section 230 may not shield apps that knowingly allow harmful, illegal content. This app invites lawsuits and serious harm. Apple must investigate and remove it immediately to prevent further damage. Protect user rights and dignity—take action now

Obvious-Resort8803 · 2025-07-24T21:41:22+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHA LOSERSSSSSS #FUCKMEN

GlowingRedThorns · 2025-07-24T23:49:33+00:00

Even if you deleted it, im working on a similar website. If women want to communicate like this, we are going to. No matter how many times yall remove an avenue for our collective communication. I personally dont care if men make their own version- the only thing is they tried and it was removed within 24 hours due to revenge porn and shit including minors being posted to it.

These tools for communication have always existed they just haven’t been as organized/centralized before. So no, this isnt the end of dating for heterosexuals, its just more of the same with an added convenience. I’m totally down for men to have their own app that doesn’t perpetuate misogyny and hypocrisy (i dont support women using the tea app to air out bullsh*t like “doesnt take women out on nice enough dates only places like Olive Garden” ) but even if you wanted to add a woman’s body count (men’s body count isnt mentioned on the tea app whatsoever)- it wouldn’t actually affect our odds of getting with the man we like. The men that women who use that app actually want- wouldn’t be on the male revenge version of the app, or this subreddit even. We move in two completely different dating circles. If it makes you feel better about the existence of the tea app- make your own. Just dont expect it to actually hurt women at all, because you’d be very disappointed by the results.

Curious_Art5157 · 2025-07-25T03:15:51+00:00

Reporting to Apple legal > https://www.reddit.com/r/AWDTSGisToxic/comments/1m6jeqd/comment/n50287d/?context=3

thumper386 · 2025-07-25T03:17:57+00:00

everyone go ask chatgpt to: "give me a demand letter to the tea app and apple legal to blacklist my name, phone number, and likeness including copyrighted photographs of me from being uploaded to the tea app. please also cite laws and dcma regulations to support my rights. make it concise and optimize for minial character count."

https://www.apple.com/legal/intellectual-property/dispute-forms/app-store/app-store-dispute.html

https://reportaproblem.apple.com/store/6444453051?s=10

Beatmd07 · 2025-07-25T03:55:18+00:00

Guys have one too, called tea born

Moist_Ad_3843 · 2025-07-25T05:00:41+00:00

Easy, Unruh Civil Rights Act. You can't restrict access based on Gender. Don't worry, this will be gone very soon, they are trying to make a quick buck.

Otherwise_Camera_923 · 2025-07-25T05:24:12+00:00

The only thing scary about this app is that men are scared wtf are yall hiding? Let’s be fr one of these apps existed for men what did men do? Trade nudes like telegram isn’t a thing. Yes some women may use the app wrong what can we say humans are evil sometimes! But it shouldn’t be shut down, we live in an age where men no longer want hookups they want love and intimacy for a few days or weeks then pretend you’re fucking insane for wanting more. Or slimy men who lie about MyChart results who also love raw sex. Long story short we live in a day and age where hookups aren’t enough being upfront about wanting sex isn’t enough men’s newest and favourite game is find girl convince girl you aren’t like other men, sleep with girl, pretend girl is crazy for wanting more. Then finally onto the next prey!

Bitter_Performer_711 · 2025-07-25T06:01:24+00:00

Love to see that something for women scares the men so much😂

False-Photo6319 · 2025-07-25T07:35:19+00:00

They deleted the male version

THAHOLYSPLIFF · 2025-07-25T08:29:38+00:00

This app is straight up a slander platform. 0/10

Adept_Arachnid_3418 · 2025-07-25T08:31:20+00:00

Tea born app

Btice2398 · 2025-07-25T10:01:10+00:00

Facts we need a male version to level the playing. Who doesn’t have a dad😂🎙️🎙️🎙️. Who celebrates being a single mother

CosmicEntity101 · 2025-07-25T11:04:48+00:00

Teaborn by men is official. It's over for them

Medium-Ad-2636 · 2025-07-25T11:34:01+00:00

It's a civil defamation and libel lawsuit waiting for the company and its "anonymous" users. They're setting themselves up for legal recourse. I'd be surprised if there aren't active litigation cases already.

Bigbuttbeauty123 · 2025-07-25T11:42:26+00:00

Don’t worry those woman are gonna get hurt thefe already girls who got killed from it

XRTW123 · 2025-07-25T12:10:27+00:00

Is it only on iPhone?

Knighthonor · 2025-07-25T12:43:02+00:00

Heard men have an app called Tea Born App

SignatureOld4493 · 2025-07-25T13:21:09+00:00

i ( cis woman ) heard about this app today and knew men tea comments were coming to reddit soooo is this an incel reddit or men with empathy that actually dont like the app

SelectionSpiritual36 · 2025-07-25T13:22:24+00:00

so when does the male version come out?

pointofyou · 2025-07-25T13:58:36+00:00

Wasn't the creator Sean Cook let go from Salesforce for inappropriate behavior towards two women there? At leas that's what I heard....

PyroKid883 · 2025-07-25T14:01:39+00:00

Someone on 4chan discovered that the storage where all the driver's licenses are held is public facing and unencrypted. You can download all the information to look at.

Kyra92Hayes · 2025-07-25T14:26:05+00:00

I been seeing a lot on this and how there rape allegations. This gotta go

One-Huckleberry4745 · 2025-07-25T14:26:50+00:00

We must fight fire with fire. I’m currently making our version of the same

Kyra92Hayes · 2025-07-25T14:31:39+00:00

Can someone explain how this app works?

MadMax2910 · 2025-07-25T14:36:37+00:00

If you live in the EU, go and file a General Data Protection Regulation request against Tea App, Inc. File a deletion request while you are at it.

Gifted_Tee · 2025-07-25T15:40:16+00:00

It'll be all kinds of defamation lawsuits if a men version of the app existed. This is an absolutely disgusting app which would ultimately be used by scorn women to get back at their ex or person they were dating.

Otherwise_Writing_77 · 2025-07-25T15:58:23+00:00

What's the android version 🤔

Throwaway92929990 · 2025-07-25T15:59:16+00:00

This is some genuine evil shit

ShitsAndGigglesTHAWY · 2025-07-25T16:24:26+00:00

Has anyone found a way to infiltrate the app?

Affectionate_Ad5305 · 2025-07-25T18:08:00+00:00

Someone will have to sue the app and company who made it especially because females can’t easily lie on it

Shellknocker · 2025-07-25T18:15:52+00:00

How do you report it on iPhone?

Title	The Tea app must be deleted
Author	sumnervilleusa
Upvotes	1895
Comments	1295
Date	July 22, 2025 9:48 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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