N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

4SSh01e · 2023-11-04T15:42:32+00:00

How is years and years of casual sex not a training in disassociating sex from emotions? And how is such a person a good candidate to form long term relationships with?

Trowaway4da8 · 2023-11-02T21:09:29+00:00

My post was removed for breaking the n count rule, sorry but anyway.

Do any of you guys also go out with women you find unattractive while being an attractive man yourself ? I do it, it's easier and immediate, less of a hassle basically. Some of my friends and family say I'm wasting my youth and looks but I avoid headaches doing this

Proudvow · 2023-10-31T19:51:08+00:00

If you think about it, being a guy who never got to have casual sex and then dating a formerly promiscuous woman is basically being told by her, "yeah I used to have casual sex, but you don't get to."

Yes that's just a natural result of how relationships function but it's gonna be embittering to some. Some are gonna wonder why their supposedly loving girlfriend didn't hop into bed as fast as she used to.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-31T16:11:40+00:00

I think it is the conditions of promiscuity that matter most. In the past, given the prevailing social architecture and the danger of pregnancy, it was pretty hard to construct 'good conditions'. Even today, most of the conditions are poor.

You need some sort of supporting structure for promiscuity to help set expectations and handle emotions and the biochemical soup that sex can produce. You get situations where maybe the sex creates tender feelings for either partner, but if you indulge them it would create even more emotional confusion. This makes us colder as humans. That isn't good.

Also, evolutionarily speaking, various forms of rejection are seriously negative emotions. So without the proper supporting architecture, promiscuity tends to create feelings of rejection a lot. Emotional damage.

But in theory you might be able to create a higher promiscuity sexual environment where a lot of these drawbacks are mitigated.

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-10-31T07:17:02+00:00

With my first girlfriend (may she rest in peace) i "waited" like a year, and i say between quotations waited cuz i wasnt really waiting, it all just happened naturally when we both felt comfortable with it, i enjoyed my time with her regardless of wether there was sex or not, it wasnt an expectation or a demand, and i made her the happiest woman in earth of that im sure, but of course there were up and downs like in any relationship, ups and downs that were easily solved thx to me.

And yes, it became a frequent occurrence after the first time cuz we both loved it but most importantly loved each other, she was a virgin and she didnt have any of the negative first experiences these poor damaged thots scaremonger with.

Before you throw prejudice at me, i dont like porn nor the idea of sleeping around entinces me in any way

So im pretty much entitled at least to look for a girl in the low range withouth so much damn slander and accusations.

GGMcThroway · 2023-10-31T00:48:33+00:00

At what point of AI development will Replika (and its analogs) be considered a part of your N-count?

saraimarsena · 2023-10-30T21:14:31+00:00

what’s promiscuous to you?

i’m curious if my bf would be thought of as “promiscuous” by sub standards

Twinseo09 · 2023-10-30T19:01:45+00:00

How do some of you go about still having the energy to talk about N count every month. This conversation is getting tiring asf!! If you want to date women who have a low n count. Then go ahead and have your preferences. Just don’t go around getting mad at others for not sharing your subjective values and not being able to get it.

sine120 · 2023-10-30T15:40:53+00:00

And people say it's hard to find out n-count

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-30T12:36:17+00:00

The most people I ever had ex with in a month is 6, that was the best month of my dating “career”, but I knew dudes in college who were pulling 4-6 a month with regularity. They were banging a new a girl A week

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-10-30T07:22:43+00:00

Men who dont watch porn are allowed to care about the past.

Specialist-Olive7828 · 2023-10-30T01:24:20+00:00

Any females here with a new account? Lurkers that never commented? Well message me before making your first comment so I can be your first upvote and take your "reddit virginity" le thanks 😅

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-30T00:36:18+00:00

Okay okay okay I know I promised myself I'd try to avoid this topic but... what's the deal with polyamorous people? I've met some and jfc. Like holy shit. What's wrong with them???

princedune · 2023-10-29T15:01:00+00:00

the same people that believed in trickle down economics believed that sex positivity would trickle down to the average guy

im so shocked 😲

AnthemJavelin · 2023-10-29T03:13:34+00:00

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Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-10-29T00:51:35+00:00

I proudly can say i never abused a woman, tried to manipulate her, push her or pressure her for sex, lied with second intentions, i dont watch porn, i dont see sex as an act of service a woman does for me, i know how to please my lover, i can wait as much as needed cuz im not really waiting as i enjoy spending quality time with my loved one withouth sex being an expectation or an obligation, can "wait" even until marriage even though im not a virgin and i love to give princess treatment. I pretty much deserve a woman who at least no degenerate got her consent to be touched.

_Ad_Astra_Abyssosque · 2023-10-29T00:29:36+00:00

Fact: Sex doesn't count if you pray afterward. I'm still a virgin.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-28T21:21:10+00:00

A man getting head is not a body. A woman giving head is a body.

Ainsleygz · 2023-10-28T20:19:05+00:00

In what sex position did you lose your virginity?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-28T20:16:34+00:00

20 and 30 something year old women: I need feminism because I should be able to have an astronomically high body count without suffering any consequences for my degenerate behavior

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-28T20:08:32+00:00

What are your thoughts on ass eating?

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-28T20:01:23+00:00

Finally got my body count to 68! I’m just looking for someone special to be #69. It better last, or I’ll have to wait until 419! Ugh!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-28T18:35:04+00:00

If the women you know are high n count and fucking losers, then the issue is you.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-10-28T18:34:23+00:00

Body count of a dozen; never been asked for it by any guy I’ve dated; marrying a good Catholic boy

Reddit is not real life

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-28T18:25:35+00:00

If you want a virgin partner you should be prepared to wait for marriage

macone235 · 2023-10-28T18:21:16+00:00

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StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-28T18:17:48+00:00

Guys who think they deserve a hall pass are stupid. Just break up with her and get your number up. Guys are so desperate that they think they have to accept any woman who gives them the slightest bit of attention.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-28T17:48:48+00:00

I didn’t tell the guy it was my first time. He would have never known, but our mutual friend spilled the beans afterwards. If I were single now, I would probably lie and say my number is bigger than it actually is.

tiddermacss · 2023-10-28T17:43:08+00:00

here we go

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-10-28T17:20:17+00:00

Guess what’s back?!

2023-10-28T16:26:25+00:00

Not again

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