N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-02-22T04:50:28+00:00

Imagine thinking taking dick devalues women

And also expecting women to devalue ourselves for mediocrity

Only going after the top men is perfectly rational and logical if we're taking value hits either way 🤷🏿 tf would we raise our n-count for some average chud

Same goes for having kids honestly, why risk being a single mom for anyone but the top men? You're only good for P&D if things don't work out regardless of what caliber dude is

I don't think women are hypergamous enough tbh, if the manosphere framework is true

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-02-21T18:26:57+00:00

something that's stuck with me is when my internet friend talked about his dating life and said:

"when a girl gives up her butt on the first date, that's not a keeper"

discuss

Proudvow · 2025-02-19T17:38:38+00:00

Imagine being told you're bad, shallow, objectifying, and pornbrained for wanting hookups, but being expected to date women who had hookups.

TheGloriousEv0lution · 2025-02-19T17:27:51+00:00

Reposting what I said before, but made a few changes:

I’ll preface this by saying having a high N count as a man or woman doesn’t make you a bad person; I’m friends with hoes and they’re honestly some of the most chill people to hang with. Also, I know a lot of women might say “I have an N count of 120 and I found a loving man” and that’s great, but this is strictly speaking in a general sense

I’ve noticed women with high N counts almost always have warped views of men and relationships. I see people here rationalize it as “women now having standards” or “learning how men truly are” but the tiny subset of men having a lot of casual sex are not representative of most men. Same way those downtown LA/NY and OF girls that red pill podcasters bring on aren’t representative of most women

Women with high N counts are also more prone to mental illnesses. Whether the urge to sleep with a lot of different guys is the cause or its the effect behind it is irrelevant, it’s something you want to avoid. I’m speaking from the perspective of a man, but men that sleep around tend to have unfavorable traits too

Also, the national average N count is around 6, and normal people find their potential romantic partner hooking up with dozens of other people gross. I know we’re conditioned to believe it’s just a man thing but women are statistically more judgmental than men here. It’s seen as impulsive and that you don’t care about your body or catching diseases

Having a high N count doesn’t inherently make you a worse partner, but they have traits associated with them that you should usually avoid for a LTR

UnionOk8886 · 2025-02-19T10:28:18+00:00

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throwawayhhk485 · 2025-02-19T00:43:10+00:00

I want to make a point about women saying they commonly see women dating less attractive men and men saying they commonly see men dating less attractive women. Both sides like to use this point in whatever discussion they’re in about physical looks in dating. A woman, for instance, might notice a couple and think, “Her eyes and smile are so nice. She’s more attractive than her boyfriend.” There’s likely a disregard for something like weight if she’s plus-size, just as long as she dresses moderately well. A man might see the couple say, “He’s really fit and keeps himself in great shape. He’s more attractive than his girlfriend.” It’s simply a variation in how people rate others. One way isn’t better or worse, it’s just different. It’s so common for men and women to have the opinion that their gender is usually dating someone less attractive, mostly as a coping mechanism.

MistakeBusy347 · 2025-02-18T21:22:51+00:00

Meta question about this sub

How is that I am unable to downvote anything in this sub, but I still have negative votes on some comments? Do others have a downvote feature..?

Open_Somewhere_329 · 2025-02-18T15:15:09+00:00

I used to be a total white knight for sluts. To me, it was obviously a double standard, and only a bitter man with sour grapes would resent women for having safe, consensual sex with many different men.

Over time, I realized what a stupid belief this was, rooted in the fallacy that men and women are equal. Women prove through their actions, time and time again, that they will never be equal to men. Furthermore, being a slut shows a lack of agency, self-respect, and forethought for women that it doesn’t for men.

It’s obvious that one of the reasons women screeched like banshees when the Supreme Court took away their blank check for baby murder is that they’d gotten a little too comfortable with a life of zero consequences.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-18T03:41:39+00:00

Q4M: Which one is more promiscuous?

A) A woman who lost her virginity at 16 to her boyfriend; she’s been in 4 relationships since then (she is now 26 and engaged to her fiance)

B) A woman who waited to lose her virginity until 24, but she’s had 2 hookups and 2 FWBs in the span of a year

systematicdissonance · 2025-02-17T05:14:08+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/psychology/s/AWECe9E8Fm

Some women experience guilt after sexual activity, even in consensual or committed relationships, due to learned beliefs that sex is inappropriate or “wrong.” Sexual shame reduces sexual arousal and desire, leading to poorer sexual functioning.

Except that it's not just nurture or learned beliefs that are at play here. It's primal much like men looking down on women that have a high Ncount, which is an inevitable conclusion stemming from the sexual and anatomical discrepancy between men and women

Both genders have subconscious reactions to this fact. One of them being the Madonna whore "complex"

Logos1789 · 2025-02-16T14:41:10+00:00

If N count didn’t matter, it wouldn’t have been discussed ad nauseam and motivated the mods to create a weekly thread about it.

Mouslimanoktonos · 2025-02-16T13:21:35+00:00

My ideal bodycount both for myself and my partner would be 5 (2+3); two longterm relationships and three casual ones.

PPD_DailyPoster · 2025-02-16T11:12:05+00:00

Weekly reminder that n counts matter because older women don't date men with n=0. This is also why lying and cheating is okay if men do it but not if women do it.

Technical-Minute2140 · 2025-02-16T08:38:05+00:00

It’s really as simple as this for me - I have little to no experience whatsoever, so I want someone that has little to no experience too. Otherwise things will feel unbalanced. My first kiss is going to be important to me because it’s my first kiss ever. It won’t matter as much to her if it’s her fiftieth. Same with V Day, my first Valentines day with her will be more important to me because it’s my first in a relationship, while it might be her tenth. Same with sex. I’m going to be losing my virginity, having sex for the first time. That’s gonna be exciting and important to me. But if she’s had a lot of sex before, it won’t be nearly as exciting or important for her. In addition to previous relationship baggage they’ll have that I won’t, them potentially being jaded after failed relationships whereas I’ve never had that experience, etc.

Not to mention on some level I might be jealous or even resentful. I spent my life from 16-24, now, being single, lonely and sad about that. Idk if I want to be with somebody that went through those ages having their fun with multiple partners while I was being miserable.

Reasonable_Style8214 · 2025-02-16T06:53:53+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a guy who has erectile dysfunction?

I've noticed some women in this sub are obsessed with telling men they care more about dick than women do, that it doesn't matter yadayada, so I thought it'd be interesting to see if women would be willing to date a guy like that assuming he ticks all other boxes.

MightyPrinceAli · 2025-02-16T01:23:37+00:00

I could never commit to a women who’s slept around despite sleeping around myself.

Women can sleep around far more easily and by men far more conventionally attractive than themselves. Why on Earth would I enable a culture that values women far more sexually. I had to put in effort while she merely existed. Itd just fill me with envy and anger. Not only that — it also disgusts me.

I guess it’s my way of taking power back.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-15T20:36:30+00:00

Here’s the perfected n-count/sluttiness measure, donated by the PPD Discord: Parallelized Slut Conductivity

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Where f(i) is the approximate number of times you fucked a specific sexual partner,

You do a summation of each N you have,

And T is length of time since loss of virginity.

The final unit of measurement of sluttiness is semen/yr. Lol.

TermAggravating8043 · 2025-02-15T17:29:20+00:00

Is it just me, or are the majority of woman here partnered up but the majority of men are single?

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GloomyGloomette · 2025-02-15T19:55:52+00:00

Another thing men claim women unfairly judge them on: dick size. But I feel like both genders have beauty standards for the genitals of the opposite sex. Men aren’t shy about their general preference for bubblegum pink coloured vaginas and small labias, which a lot of women don’t have. I don’t see why penis’ should be exempt from said genital beauty standards.

Reasonable_Style8214 · 2025-02-16T05:59:32+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a guy who had his penis amputated?

I've noticed some women in this sub are obsessed with telling men they care more about it than men do, that it doesn't matter yadayada, so I thought it'd be interesting to see if women would be willing to date a guy like that assuming he ticks all other boxes.

MistakeBusy347 · 2025-02-18T20:57:33+00:00

Meta question about this sub.

How is it that I have no downvote button but a negative score on some comments?

Do other people on this sub have a downvote feature that I lack?

Title	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD
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