Cheeky title, but seriously. I think escorting should be seen as something entirely unique that has positives that simply do not exist out in the "real world". It's not a ​​replacement of the "real deal"​, it's simply ​something else​​.

It's validating in the most literal sense. You can live out being a sexual creature with a woman who accepts you as such with close to no stakes or having to prove anything.

It's a good practice of​ detaching your self-worth from sex-having. It's quite literally what it is.

It's honest - it acknowledges that women are the more desirable gender​ and you are on the backfoot as a male, and it settles that with a simple monetary exchange. It affirms and resolves men's position in the heterosexual dynamic, which is something the vast majority of women can't and don't want to do in any (conscious) way.

It's in a way very "​blue pilled" to be able to genuinely appreciate sex work for these reasons. It's just ​a far more interesting way of going "yea, maybe I actually do not NEED a relationship and I can just chill out about this topic". You CAN fulfil emotional needs in other ways. You can also just have sex.

It's drama free. Hopefully.

About worries of the worker being coerced, look for reputable ​sites where escorts advertise themselves independently​, you can even just ask for advice on the askanescort subreddit.

Be respectful, try not to have​ huge expectations, but understand these upsides, and it can make your soul feel a little lighter.