I will elaborate, wanting a super-rich handsome guy to marry isn't ridiculous it's nature and has worked fine up until this point, the issue is how is a man supposed to even get his foot in the door to even prove himself? How does a man inject himself into a female friendgroup?

Here are women's standards, to marry a man on the spot: Attractive in every way, wealthy, shares all of same values, same race as herself, other bullshit idk.

Okay, so obviously not every man will fit those standards, so a man has to court her to prove he cares for her and is willing to expend time for her and for the woman to get accustomed to the man and know that despite his deficiencies from her ideal, she has someone to rely on.

Okay so, is this happening? Are young men even around young women enough for this to happen easily? The life of the average young woman and the young man are in so many different places that this cannot happen easily.

EDIT: I will add more to this, most women will see talking to a man for an extended period, swiping right on him or going on a date with him for an extended period as some sort of commitment in it of itself, so they won't even bother giving any man who won't fit their marry on the spot standards any chances.

EDIT #2: I will add more to this, alot of the men women reject aren't even horrible. Women will gladly reject alot of men who are employed, aren't deformed, aren't too young or too old, aren't criminals. Keep in mind, this is them rejecting the chance to even go on a date with them.