I think this is something that really needs to be driven home for men. Especially younger men who don't have a lot of experience dealing with women. They need to understand that women's emotions are extremely fickle and can flip on a dime at any moment. So many inexperienced men get wrapped up in the perpetual hamster wheel of "pleasing women" only to find that this has just made them even more disappointed.

You see when you look at statistics it really shows how futile it is to keep up this rat race of trying to keep women from leaving. For one 70% of divorces are iniated by women. And what's even funnier is that even in same sex couples. Lesbians have a higher divorce rate then Gay Men do. So this isn't a "men problem" because even women can't keep women happy. Then look at SSRI usage. A 2015-2018 study showed usage of Antidepressants was 17.7% higher in women compared to men at 8.4%.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db377.htm

And I haven't even gotten to Online Dating and how the globalization of the dating market has made it so women have near limitless options now. Any guy in a relationship can go make a Tinder with his girlfriends pictures and see how many likes she gets. That's your competition. And you can cope and say "well that's not gonna happen to me!" But how long can you keep up this juggling act before you slip up and she gets "bored" oh wait I mean "grew apart" Lmao.

Guys you have to realize you're fighting an uphill battle. Most women have back up boyfriends waiting to fill your spot. Haven't you noticed women seem to end the majority of not just marriages but also relationships as well? Haven't you noticed that these women sometimes move on in less then a month. Sometimes in mere days after a break up? Why do you think that is? It isn't because women are masters of dating. They just have such a long list of options they don't have to wait long to replace you.

But this is my point. Men need to step back and start worrying about themselves. Stop falling on swords for women. Because no one is going to pull that sword out of you once you fall on it.