A lot of women seem to have a laundry list of "rules" they attempt to follow when it comes to dating. And the reason I say attempt is because most of the time these rules will be completely abandoned if the guy is attractive enough. So this begs the question are these even really rules if women aren't following them?

Like for one Men should initiate when it comes to asking women out and planning dates. Yet we have seen that if a man is attractive enough women will ask them out and they will plan the dates. Or men shouldn't ask women out in places like gyms or at work or pretty much any place women deem unacceptable. Yet once again we have seen this play out completely different if the man is attractive. So it makes me wonder if women are really creeped out because a man has entered her physical space or is it because an ugly man has entered her physical space?

We have even seen experiments run where guys will make dating app profiles with Male Models and write in their bios that they are former women beaters and rapists. Yet women will still message these guys wanting to date or hookup. So are these things still bad now? Or is it only bad if ugly men do it? Obviously it is bad but you get my point. And yet Women will still complain about men being assholes and abusive and still reward these same men with sex if they're hot. So how do you think these men are going to change if there isn't any reprocussions?

So then it comes to a point of why should a guy waste his time taking girls out on lavish and expensive dates? And be kind and respectful? When if he isn't attractive enough that gets him literally nowhere. He should spend his time hitting the gym and pretty much getting as attractive as possible. And then he can just skip all these "rules". Because it seems to me that these rules are just for loser men who don't have enough options to disobey them. Because when a 6' 7" Male Model walks into a room suddenly gender roles seem to disappear. And he's getting approached and bought drinks and even in some cases financially rewarded as well as sexually rewarded.

And this just round robins back to my whole point if you make these rules. But then only enforce them for average and unattractive men. Well then I would just get as attractive as possible and not have to deal with these rules entirely. And I think that's what you're seeing now. Men can just go online and watch videos of women completely disregarding these rules if the man is hot. So they're thinking the same thing I said before. And thus it seems we have a new generation of men who understand the actual "rules" which is they only apply to ugly men. And if you're attractive you can essentially do whatever you want because women aren't going to enforce these rules anyway.