I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.

Disclaimer: sorry for the long post, wanted to share all the details for those interested.

So as the title says, I just went on 10 dates in a row. Note: I count the 10th one as a date even though it was a virtual one (facetime date) because 10 sounds better than 9 and I would've been on an in-person date anyway if the original girl didn't flake so I'm counting it, deal with it lol.

All of those dates were from dating apps, mostly Bumble with a few Hinge, and 2 of them were 2nd dates meaning I went out with 8 different girls in total over those 10 days.

Out of those 10 dates, only 1 of the girls I didn't really like (she kinda catfished me, but I was also a bit too naive and hoped that she would look better in person - learned from that mistake), but of those other 7 that I did like, I was able to bring them home or go to theirs at the end of all the other dates (not including the virtual date of course).

Of those 8 dates in which she came to mine or I went to hers, I kiss-closed all of them and got touchy-feely in all except one of the dates. I also managed to get all of those that I got touchy-feely with except for one to at least take their tops off, with 4/6 getting completely nude.

In those 4 dates in which the girl got completely nude, I f-closed 3 of them (one didn't want to fuck, even though it was the 2nd date). 2 of those that I fucked were first date lays while 1 was a 2nd date lay (she was one of the ones that I fucked on the 1st date too).

At the end of all 10 dates, neither of us wanted to see each other again 3 times, I wanted to see her when she didn't want to see me again 1 time, she wanted to see me again when I didn't want to see her again 2 times, and we both wanted to see each other again 4 times.

6 of the dates involved going out for a drink (all 1st dates), 1 involved getting sushi and then exploring the city (1st date), 1 was a virtual date (1st date), 1 involved going to the beach (2nd date), 1 involved having a drink at hers (2nd date).

I also had to deal with 2 flakes over those 10 days. The first gave me 5 hours notice and I managed to get a replacement in time, but the second only gave me an hour's notice so the best I could do for a replacement was that virtual date.

Here are some of my learnings from this experience:

• Don't hope a girl looks better in person than on their dating app/IG profile, she most likely won't and you'll waste your time if you do actually meet her. I recommend doing a quick video call before making date plans if you're not 100% sure about the girl.
• If a girl isn't being super responsive before the day you're supposed to go on your date, there's a good chance she will flake (that's how the first flake happened. The second flake with an hour's notice was due to a valid reason - she had to stay later at work).
• If a girl doesn't have an expectation of something sexual happening on the first date, it's less likely that she will put out when it gets to that point. Girls like to know what to expect from a date so if you're looking to avoid LMR in your first dates, be more sexual in your pre-date interactions with her. I like to cast a wider net so I have more options in general since going sexual too early can scare some girls off + I also like to be surprised by the girls that do put out so I enjoy keeping it fun and flirty instead of overtly sexual.

And here is a quick summary of each date:

1. Went for a drink, hit it off, brought her back to mine and managed to get her into my bed, but she didn't want to take her clothes off at all. She let me touch her over her clothes and even spent the night in my bed with her clothes on lol, but apart from making out and cuddling, nothing happened. She seemed really into me though. She transited home the next morning.
2. Went for a drink, hit it off, brought her back to mine and managed to get her into my bed. Got her top off, but she wouldn't take her pants off because she didn't want to put out on the first date. More touching was involved, but that's it. Drove her home after and tried to schedule another date with her, but she lost interest and we never met again. It was a bit of a surprise because in person it really seemed like she was into me. Turns out she was essentially the female equivalent of a fuckboy lol.
3. Went for a drink, got a more reserved vibe from her, but still brought her back to mine. Made out on the couch, but that's as far as it went. I think we could both sense that we were on different levels and/or potentially looking for different things. She transited home after we made out for a bit and we never spoke again after that.
4. Could sense that she was already pretty into me from the start so I potentially could have invited her over directly, but I chose to go for the drink first anyway so we went for a drink, hit it off, brought her back to mine and managed to get her into my bed. No resistance to clothes coming off and it didn't take long for us to start banging. Drove her home after that.
5. My first 2nd date, this was with the girl from date #1. I picked her up in my car and we went to have some drinks at the beach. I thought we were going to go to hers after that because she lived closer to the beach and we had already gone to mine last time, but she said we couldn't go to hers so we went to mine again. Had some drinks on the patio and chilled there until it was getting late so we went inside to the bedroom. This time, she was okay with the clothes coming off, but still didn't want to have sex. She was telling me how she always gets attached when she has sex and because she knows I'm not in town for too long, she doesn't want to do that to herself. She went down on me and spent the night again, this time naked in my bed, but that's it. She transited home the next morning. I also decided I wouldn't see her again after that as it wouldn't make sense for either of us.
6. This is the girl that I should have known was going to be a catfish. Met up for sushi at lunch and then explored the city together. I kept it friendly, but even as friends, she wasn't really my vibe. She could sense that there was nothing there either so after we explored the city for a bit, we said our goodbyes and I went home.
7. I was supposed to meet with a different girl initially, but she flaked on me 5 hours before our date by saying she wasn't feeling well and was going to get a covid test done. I'm always a bit skeptical of this excuse as it's such a convenient excuse, but hey you never know. In general though, I was getting flakey vibes from her because she wasn't always too quick to respond anyway. Ended up meeting up with another girl I had on my list that I was saving for something like this. Got a drink together, brought her back to mine and managed to get her into my bed. Got her top off, but similar to date #2, she wouldn't take her pants off because she wasn't planning/expecting to be have sex tonight. We just made out and I could sense something changed after that because we chilled on the couch for a bit after making out on the bed and then I drove her home. We both knew we weren't going to see each other again.
8. Went for a drink, got along pretty well, brought her back to mine and managed to get her into my bed. Clothes came off and we fucked, but I wasn't super crazy about her so I haven't messaged her since. She hasn't either so I guess she wasn't too crazy about me either? Don't know and doesn't matter anyway.
9. The other 2nd date, this time with the girl from date #4. I went straight to her place this time to share some wine. We hung out on the couch for a bit because her roommate was still there, but once her roommate went to her room, we went to the other room and fucked. After I left hers, I actually met up with a friend of mine who loves to spend money and party because he had gotten a table at a club with like 6 girls lol. One of those girls ended up being a girl that I was chatting with on hinge like a week earlier, but never ended up connecting with. She was all over me that night, but didn't want to go home with me. We planned a date on Sunday though so no harm no foul.
10. And finally, this was initially supposed to be a date with another girl, but she flaked on me an hour before. She had a legitimate reason (that she had to stay late at work), but it was a bit too late notice for me to find another girl to go out with since it was already like 6pm. I did manage to have a facetime date with a girl I had matched with earlier that day though who actually suggested doing that anyway so I'm adding it here to make it 10 dates instead of 9 lol. Virtual date went well and we're planning an in-person one for next week.

Got another date tonight and potentially one on Saturday. Meeting with the girl from the club on Sunday and another girl on Monday. It's looking like my streak will continue well into next week at this rate haha.

I know this post was long so all good if you didn't read it all. Hopefully someone found it interesting and/or learned something as well. Would love to hear any thoughts and I'm down to answer any questions too.

EDIT: All you girls hating on this post and calling me psychotic/manipulative are completely jaded lol. I'm literally just going on dates with girls I like and having a good time and then looking back at them and analyzing how they went + what I could do better next time. Everything that was done with these girls was completely consensual and I never gave any false promises to any of them. You girls just don't want to accept that guys do this sort of thing and would rather live in your fantasy romcom land imagining that guys are just naturally romantic when they want to be. Sorry honey, but what you see on TV isn't real. Guys talk about this stuff and work with each other often to get better at getting laid. If you can't fathom that idea, you're in the wrong subreddit.

EDIT 2: Anyone trying to claim that the only reason I am able to do this is because of my looks is a complete idiot lol. Yes I am 6 feet tall, but I am pretty average looking and fairly skinny. I have never had a girl tell me I was hot, the best I've gotten is cute, and I've been rejected fairly often for my slim stature. I've looked pretty much the exact same since I was 17, but I never learned how to maximize my attractiveness until I started working on my game when I turned 18. It took several years of work facing constant rejection and learning how to be more social, confident, and charismatic to get to the level I'm at now at the age of 28. This is not something I've been able to do my whole life, it's something I had to work on. We all have our strengths and our flaws and what matters most is how we make the most of the strengths that we do have + work on the flaws that can be controlled (weight, style, personality, confidence, etc) to be the best man we can be. If you can't see this and continue blaming your failures on the fact that you're not a chad, then you will never have success with girls. Women can sense your insecurity from a mile away and that's the reason you fail, not because you're not white or tall or a model. Take your incel mentality elsewhere.

EDIT 3: Oh and if you're trying to claim this post is just to brag, why the fuck would I include details about how I got catfished or flaked on or only kiss-closed. This was literally just me sharing my experience going on 10 dates in 10 days, including both the good and the bad, and talking about what I learned from it in an effort to give back to the community that helped me get to where I am today. Lots of people have found this post super useful (just read 90% of the comments) so just because it's not useful to you doesn't mean it's not useful to others. We're supposed to be supportive of each other, not trying to bring each other down, so put less energy into talking shit and put more into your own dating life.

EDIT 4: And for those of you on the other side telling me my game is shit because I didn't f-close 10/10 dates, get lost. Everyone has different goals when it comes to dating. Yours may be to treat women like sex dolls and manipulate them into fucking you as soon as possible, but mine aren't. In my experience, the sex is better when you've connected with the person and sometimes that takes more than one date. I'm very happy with my level of game and I'm not looking for your shitty advice on how to trick girls into sex. If you think you have better advice to give, then make your own post.

EDIT 4: My streak is now currently at 16 in 16, expecting to reach 18 in 18 by the end of the week. Not sure how long the streak will go on, but I've really clicked with 2 girls that I met after writing this post so I might be focusing on them moreso going forward, meaning my streak might end as a result of not wanting to meet any other girls, we'll see.