Sexism on college campuses is unbelievable.

jeff_the_nurse · 2017-06-22T02:14:17+00:00

10 things you need to know about theft for white people:

Keep your personal belongings at all times.
If you see someone who might be a thief, report them immediately.

. . .

10 things you need to know about theft for black people:

Be aware that pickpocketing can constitute larceny.
Theft is punishable by jail, a fine, or both.

. . .

These are literally indistinguishable from the meme, and we should be e-mailing [email protected].

Edit: Gold?! Thank you so much, kind stranger!

tallwheel · 2017-06-22T05:00:07+00:00

According to some feminists, the "For Women" one is filled with victim blaming. 'A woman shouldn't have to worry about all those things. Teach men not to rape!'

majortom22 · 2017-06-22T00:27:41+00:00

What annoys me is #10 for the men. Its a sleight of hand to spike out of exactly what it still is -woman victim man bad. Then they can say "no we know they can be -see? Number ten right here" Its a copout.

We know what the piece is though. Some "oh yeah by the way" appended to the end of it doesn't change it.

PS if we go by the standards that are now given I was sexually assaulted by 3 women in college. What number do I call to report myself?

JestyerAverageJoe · 2017-06-22T02:29:19+00:00

It's infuriating how many people wouldn't even see what's wrong here.

HiredMind · 2017-06-22T00:44:52+00:00

Be aware that men can be victims of sexual assault. If you are, seek help immediately.

Yes, Seek help from the police, who will likely not take you seriously, or from your college, that will treat YOU as the rapist and expel you.

Draggonzz · 2017-06-22T03:33:14+00:00

hahaha

love how they just slip #10 in there for the men. Like, oh, by the way....

JackBond1234 · 2017-06-22T03:29:00+00:00

Women: Don't let men rape you

Men: Don't rape women

Also men can be raped I guess, but that's beyond the scope of this pamphlet.

Pillowed321 · 2017-06-22T00:59:36+00:00

What college is this? Is it recent?

rocelot7 · 2017-06-22T08:32:04+00:00

Number 7 for men is wrong. Sometimes "no" means harder, and "cauliflower" means no.

HoundDogs · 2017-06-22T01:28:31+00:00

Make another one with a top 10 list of reminding women not to do things like

-don't falsely accuse men of rape because their boyfriend back home would know they cheated.

-Dont falsely accuse men of rape because you need the credit in art class.

-Don't tell someone you're on the pill when your not.

2017-06-22T05:35:37+00:00

Men are born rapists and women are born victims! Thanks college!

alex_dlc · 2017-06-22T11:37:56+00:00

People need to stop treating sex like something a man does to a woman. Sex is something a man and a woman do together.

2017-06-22T05:20:36+00:00

There's no reason why both of those can't apply to both genders.

AddictedSupercrush · 2017-06-22T09:31:03+00:00

This is a very effective way to induce unnecessary fear in one sex, and completely shame and disregard the safety of another.

Because God knows our society isn't polarized enough as it is.

ZzardozZ · 2017-06-22T05:33:25+00:00

Why does this culture want to divide us and treat us as different species?

codaclouds · 2017-06-22T00:55:39+00:00

This should be shared elsewhere too, it's just preaching to the choir here.

Gambizzle · 2017-06-22T10:02:14+00:00

If you're a male victim of a sexual assault then seek help immediately.

Yeah from a psychologist... don't bother reporting it to the police or anything because you're statistically insignificant.

I hope this war of percentages ends one day so that we can all get told 'this is rape according to the law... if it happens then report it no matter who you are'. They didn't even get that part right! In the women's card point #1 they say sexual assault needs to involve touching. Point number 10 they then scare women into thinking men are gonna get off easily unless they follow strict reporting rules. What a farce...

-redditardation- · 2017-06-22T10:16:35+00:00

All men -> EBIL RAPIZTZ

All women -> HELPLESS VICTIMS & ANGELS

EKWALUHTEE

Ultramegasaurus · 2017-06-22T04:10:38+00:00

Tell them you're triggered that they use purple for women and blue for men, supporting fixed gender roles

Gambizzle · 2017-06-22T09:50:49+00:00

Sexual assault doesn't require touching...

2017-06-22T10:35:39+00:00

Women: How to avoid being raped Men: how to avoid raping someone (oh and also you can be raped too I guess)

Byroms · 2017-06-22T10:44:42+00:00

Now make a copy, switch the texts and watch the campus burn down.

MagicTampon · 2017-06-22T05:35:12+00:00

dpistachio · 2017-06-22T10:22:30+00:00

Take out the genders and rename this to "20 things ysk" and its a pretty solid list lol

boredATwirk · 2017-06-22T12:38:36+00:00

As a mother of teen boys this disturbs me to no end.

SodaPalooza · 2017-06-22T14:53:07+00:00

I really wish colleges would put more effort into teaching women what consent actual is regardless of what their sorority sisters or Women's Studies professors tell them. Consent is agreeing to sex with the option to decline is available. A pamphlet like this for college women with points like these would be helpful:

If you consent to sex while drunk, and you wouldn't have consented while sober, you haven't been raped unless you were so drunk that you were unable to decline.
If you consent to sex and then change your mind, you haven't been raped if you never told your partner you were withdrawing your consent.
Consent can be granted verbally or non-verbally. If you go along with sex and then regret that decision later, you haven't been raped simply because you didn't verbalize a "yes"

etc.

AshenMacaroon · 2017-06-22T05:46:29+00:00

I went to orientation at my university recently. I was actually very encouraged that all discussion of sexual assault was gender neutral, and they discussed the statistics for both men and women.

Asteria32 · 2017-06-22T07:35:55+00:00

There is no way this is real, right?

Sir_Shitlord_focker · 2017-06-22T08:00:55+00:00

You should get a bunch of guys together, find a skeevy lawyer and sue class action for infliction of emotional harm.

nforne · 2017-06-22T11:45:47+00:00

Is this part of the teach men not to rape bullshit?

AshenMacaroon · 2017-06-22T13:41:49+00:00

"TEACH THEM NOT TO RAPE" meanwhile the real rapists just laugh and the honest men that never abused a woman are being attacked... what a beautiful society...

cdrgagfd · 2017-06-22T12:30:03+00:00

As a male who has been sexually assaulted by a close female friend, this is fucking disgusting.

Noisetorm_ · 2017-06-22T10:40:15+00:00

Is it me or is the women's one literally 10 times more helpful than whatever filler they put it in for the men's one?

PM_me_your_pastries · 2017-06-22T11:09:39+00:00

They forgot to add to number six "and if either party has been imbibing alcohol, consent is totally impossible and unachievable."

bastardstepchild · 2017-06-22T12:33:25+00:00

Men, remember: you're all dirty, filthy rapists.

Drezzzire · 2017-06-22T15:03:31+00:00

Smh I legitimately feel sorry for males going to college nowadays. Feminism has such a tight grip on campuses that men are literally looked at as rapists merely by existing.

The stupid cunts that are perpetuating this false ideology are seriously hurting both male and female experiences of college.

It's no longer this amazing place that everyone should experience early in life.

Now it's a hellish place males have to endure before being tossed into the real world.

Throwabanana69 · 2017-06-22T01:14:37+00:00

Feminism has always lobbied to not include female on male rape stats in the "rape culture epidemic". The reason is twofold, the time fatass amy schumer raped a drunk guy, and that feminists are all alcoholics and drug addicts.

loIwtf · 2017-06-22T00:59:49+00:00

Don't assume that your date wants to have sex - even if you have before.

Okay, I'll make them agree before the date. Got it.

Agent800 · 2017-06-22T12:31:11+00:00

I feel oppressed

iHeartCandicePatton · 2017-06-22T08:26:41+00:00

Well to be honest I didn't even expect them to have #10 on the men's card

Red_Raven · 2017-06-22T08:11:53+00:00

And people wonder why our suicide rate is so high. "How could this have happened? I have no idea......"

Griever114 · 2017-06-22T12:14:15+00:00

Could have shortened that to say:

Women: All men are rapists and out to rape you. No exceptions.

Men: Defer to Women's card.

legoryan717 · 2017-06-22T12:53:20+00:00

It's sickening that sexism on this scale is not only ignored but approves by the media

meatballpoking · 2017-06-22T10:59:01+00:00

Wow, So 19 points to prevent the rape of women but just one point alllllll the way at the bottom of the men's card; no shit men can get raped. We have holes too. The CDCs page about sexual assault Describes male rape as unwanted penile penetration. I'm really sick of seeing the way male rape victims are treated just by these implications alone.

I'll always feel for every rape victim.

GeriatricSerialPerv · 2017-06-22T13:03:59+00:00

I was really hoping they would be the exact same card. I guess not.

2017-06-22T13:27:55+00:00

The problem with being called a bigot every time you tried to defend yourself, your rights or your gender

bufedad · 2017-06-22T14:44:21+00:00

I'm assuming this is in the US... If so, Title IX complaint. Right there. That is clearly gender discrimination.

JJokerFaze · 2017-06-22T15:19:12+00:00

Do I have a corrupt world view if I feel this is "normal"? Male from Europe.

Lucius_Martius · 2017-06-22T16:34:52+00:00

"9. Remember that date rape is a crime that has serious consequences."

I thought we lived in a rape-culture where rape is not punished but encouraged? Could these people kindly make up their mind for once?

SabbathBl00dySabbath · 2017-06-22T20:45:49+00:00

Right there, Number #1 on "For Women" is bullshit.

Please don't bring your annoying group of friends along for the date.

That's totally a turn-off as it's happened to me several times before on a Tinder hookup.

ZombieP0ny · 2017-06-22T13:08:46+00:00

Well, at least they recognize that men can be victims of sexual assault too. Feminism truly is amazing. /s

LodgePoleMurphy · 2017-06-22T06:13:47+00:00

If today's college kids put up with this kind of bullshit then they deserve to have shitty basket weaving degrees and huge student loan debt.

Cloudy_Wealth · 2017-06-22T05:23:02+00:00

Holy crap guys this is the biggest post I have ever had. You guys are the best.

Thatomeglekid · 2017-06-22T07:53:25+00:00

What was on the flip side? Was it in Spanish? Or other information

pragmaticbastard · 2017-06-22T13:43:10+00:00

Get rid of the "for women" and "for men" parts (I assume this is front and back of a card) and these would be great. Don't remember if I saw specific "he" or "she" references.

PG2009 · 2017-06-22T14:06:40+00:00

The very fact that it has a separate list for each gender tells me how biased it will be.

ZenPyx · 2017-06-22T16:02:02+00:00

Notice how they tell men they can be sexually assaulted, but they don't tell women they can sexually assault. Even when they try to be progressive, they still blame men.

icorrectotherpeople · 2017-06-22T16:40:24+00:00

I didn't realize that it was this segregated.

2017-06-22T17:20:07+00:00

Where are the other genders?

scemcee · 2017-06-22T17:26:34+00:00

For women: "Don't Get Raped"
For men: "Stop Raping People"

Seems like sound advice all around.

DavidByron2 · 2017-06-22T20:19:52+00:00

Make a sexual harassment / sex discrimination comaplint against the college.

here_for_the_lols · 2017-06-22T13:36:03+00:00

More men are raped each year than women

candidly1 · 2017-06-22T14:54:56+00:00

Perhaps we can do away with procreation altogether; then in just a few decades all of our problems will be over.

2017-06-22T14:56:22+00:00

Wow. Just, fucking, wow.

StonerSour · 2017-06-22T16:06:09+00:00

I give up on every trying to get laid again

2017-06-22T17:03:17+00:00

It's sucks that the people who make these fail to acknowledge the HUGE (yuge for those of you reading in 2017) grey area that is a drunken college party. You're taking teenagers with hormones running wild in their system, adding total freedom for the first time (for most kids forming is the first time living without parents) AND alcohol which lowers inhibitions. Navigating that is NOT easy for either sex involved

Ninjetik · 2017-06-22T17:26:06+00:00

The 10th thing for men should be maybe... a number to call or the place to GO TO to get support and help for becoming a sexual assault victim? Not just a clearly transparent, 'oops I guess we'll be accused of being sexist if we don't admit men can be victims, lets throw this line in here so we're not accused!'

2017-06-22T17:45:03+00:00

Complete and utter misandry. Men should avoid these places like a plague. Go to trade schools, better yourselves individually.
Only go to college if you want to get a STEM degree or as a basis for a higher education (i.e. law school). Although I would recommend against law school in this day and age due to the outrageous cost. In any event, college campuses deny men due process, don't believe men can be raped, and will discriminate against men at any cost (particularly if you are white).

Pyromed · 2017-06-22T18:39:37+00:00

After all the socialisation of only telling boys not to victimise others. I wonder even if we began telling girls not to victimise others whether it would have any impact at all.

Edit: spelling

skywreckdemon · 2017-06-22T19:06:50+00:00

Both sexes should be given both pamphlets.

manifesto18 · 2017-06-22T19:42:07+00:00

No means yes and yes means anal

notyourmomslover · 2017-06-22T20:05:29+00:00

This entire sub needs to get put into a work camp.

haveacigar4200 · 2017-06-22T20:59:55+00:00

So are men as vulnerable to sexual assault and rape as women?

Gawernator · 2017-06-22T21:00:03+00:00

Pure sexism. This is lawsuit material

Foregen_Is_Life · 2017-06-22T23:18:05+00:00

Well, having sex with a circumcised man is very dry, unpleasant, and even painful for women. It makes sense that American women are afraid of rape when American men are all walking around with dried out desert dicks.

mymonster8u · 2017-06-22T23:29:10+00:00

But ... but you guys are always whining that men get raped too and its on the card like that so u got acknowledged like u always say u want so stfu

2017-06-23T01:46:59+00:00

Love how they have that one throw-away line at the bottom about how men can get raped too, yet not only offer none of the advice to male victims that are given to women in their own pamphlet, but don't ever once say that women can be aggressors.

2017-06-23T03:25:05+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you too, and thank you for the offer. Same goes for you, I'd be glad to be here if you need someone to listen

splodgenessabounds · 2017-06-23T08:26:43+00:00

AFAICT there's nothing on the left-hand card that could not apply to blokes. Especially #7.

aptpupil79 · 2017-06-22T02:53:08+00:00

I don't see this one as that big a deal, tbh.

shutupstacey · 2017-06-22T13:27:11+00:00

I do understand how this can be interrupted as sexist discrimination. However, empirical statistical evidence does show a significant higher average for male offenders of sexual assault on college campuses and that age demographic.

Yes, it's blatantly obvious what they are doing, but there is a reason.

dangerine_ · 2017-06-22T13:18:00+00:00

This is so crazy! It's almost like they're assuming that women are more often the victim of sexual assault! Ridiculous.

asillyduck_ · 2017-06-22T06:29:53+00:00

If you can't assume a date wants sex with you. Then they should have no expectations on you at all. Dating and marriage IS all about sex.

willofgood · 2017-06-22T13:20:21+00:00

You guys gotta be the biggest pussies on the internet. Pussies do get raped. And it is a problem. Men should have no problem with these pamphlets. Women have an issue..because...vaginas, u know. But sadly some guys grew up to be vaginas. Maybe it's your parents fault, who knows. But don't hold on to it. Don't embellish it. This is why we have men in pop culture wearing purses and acting like little girls. Man up. Fuk. Men's rights are not in jeopardy.

SuburbanStoner · 2017-06-22T10:45:17+00:00

Putting date rape drugs in your date's drink when she uses the bathroom is not legal.
Make sure you get written, signed and audio recorded permission from the receiving party.
Although women can't physically sexual assault a man, be careful in gay clubs or in liberal friendly bars

skeeter1234 · 2017-06-22T13:12:41+00:00

There's certainly plenty of hysteria and hypocrisy in our society when it comes certain gender issues, but this is a really bad example of it.

I don't see anything wrong here, and it actually seems to be pretty good advice.

starkillerrx · 2017-06-22T08:09:19+00:00

Cry more

kodebreaka · 2017-06-22T15:33:41+00:00

I don't really think we can equate this to issues of race.... The top comment in particular is pretty juvenile. These cards aren't infringing on your rights or even discriminating against you, they're just good things to keep in mind. "Don't assume that your date wants to have sex even if you have before" is pretty good advice for a horny young college guy. Stop taking this like you're being persecuted. Everybody experiences some judgment based on the unchangeable facts of who they are and how they look, we can try to fight prejudice and actual discrimination but judgment can only be expected and talked about.

2017-06-22T15:46:48+00:00

This is all under the mindset that men want sex more than women. And with the abundance of evidence for its validity, I don't see how anyone can refute.

Mike_Fu · 2017-06-22T13:00:48+00:00

I feel I'm pretty based but I don't have a problem with these cards. Good advice for everyone.

decadentegalitarian · 2017-06-22T11:38:04+00:00

Why, one might almost think that one group commits more sexual assault than the other!

...nah. It's probably just that men are oppressed.

Aeponix · 2017-06-22T16:34:32+00:00

I'm going to play devil's advocate and point out that a lot of those things are useful to know, and, in my opinion, some of the women's list is just fear mongering, and doesn't apply to us.

The men's list reads more like a "how to avoid crazy women that will falsely accuse you of rape" list imo. Or how to avoid the timid women who have no agency and report you after their friend later convinces them it was rape.

There should be equality, but men and women are different. We experience different hardships. Our lists for avoiding sexual assault SHOULD be different, because predators of male and female persuasion approach it differently.

So I'm not against unique lists for each gender. I'm only against the presupposition that men are likely to be predators, and that's not what I'm getting from this list. What I'm getting is that men need a clear understanding of where a woman may feel consent was not given, and, to be honest, knowing how to protect myself by being aware of her affirmative consent is important.

It's important for women too, though, so a lot of the suggestions on these pages could really be given to the other sex too. I guess I'll just end by pointing out that they acknowledge males can be victims, and they only had ten bullet points to use for their awareness campaign. It could have been worse.

OdysseanTimeliness · 2017-06-22T14:50:38+00:00

I'd be willing to bet that most of the guys on here are willing to cite black on black crime as a reason that police brutality isn't such an issue but absolutely can't help themselves from getting into a frenzy when males being sexually assaulted isn't regarded as as big of a deal as women being sexually assaulted.

iFonePhag · 2017-06-22T05:04:07+00:00

I'm not a fairy snowflake, but this seems legit. Men do tend to penetrate women and I've never been raped by a woman no matter how hard I've tried. JK

the_lowcast · 2017-06-22T13:12:41+00:00

r/justneckbeardthings/

SECTION	CONTENT
Title	Woman tries to rape man in broad daylight light in New York street
Length	0:00:48

Sexism on college campuses is unbelievable.

Comments

All men -> EBIL RAPIZTZ

All women -> HELPLESS VICTIMS & ANGELS

EKWALUHTEE

1-9. MEN NEED TO STOP BEING RAPISTS! IF YOU'RE A DUDE, DON'T RAPE!

Title	Sexism on college campuses is unbelievable.
Author	Cloudy_Wealth
Upvotes	5350
Comments	364
Date	June 21, 2017 11:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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