I wont name names, but I was literally lectured on this sub how men approaching a women in public venues feels predatory by a person who then described how they attend BDSMesque parties where you get armbands with inscriptions "anal only" "fisting" or "spanking" where they can select and fuck complete randos in a seedy back room and how it "felt safer" than a regular bar. These people are among us, posting and moralizing about "sexual objectification" while having kinks so depraved they reduce people to masturbatory props for a one night stand (their accounts are almost always NSFW, whats up with that?) proving it was never about "shallow" vs. "deep meaningful" attraction, but a annoyance that they can't control the environment they're in. They often complain about feeling betrayed by a "nice guy" friend for confessing attraction, but engage in hookups with a "no kissing" arrangement. All this neuroticism is simply is an expression of a atomized society that needs to contractualize everything to avoid even the slightest discomfort.