what preferences are women allowed to have?

wtknight · 2026-07-19T20:20:00+00:00

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Bernouttheday · 2026-07-19T02:07:05+00:00

You can have any preference you want. Just remember that you exist in an observable state and people are going to make observations.

If you’re a hypocrite, you’re likely to get called out for it.

Just like any feeling is valid by virtue of the fact that you feel it, you’re allowed a large variety of preferences. We just exist in a world where a lot of people might have something to say.

Gold_Sheepherder6569 · 2026-07-19T02:11:30+00:00

You can have any preference you want even if it is unrealistic. What men typically complain about is women downplaying or denying the standards/preference that they have or saying men are shallow for their preference but their own preferences are fine.

TalkativeComic · 2026-07-19T02:18:55+00:00

Anyone can have any preference they want and it's 100% valid and encouraged for all I care. What isn't cool is mocking or belittling others because they don't meet your requirements.

Barely-moral · 2026-07-19T02:19:08+00:00

Women are allowed to have any preference.

They will get criticism anyways because being allowed to do something and being free of criticism are two different things that have nothing to do with each other.

NotUsedUsernameYet · 2026-07-19T02:15:10+00:00

Women are allowed to have any preferences they want. My only ask is to please be honest about your preferences and don’t say that you date for “personality” if in reality it’s something else.

owthathurted · 2026-07-19T03:13:37+00:00

Ironically, it's men who aren't allowed to have any preferences or standards. Anything, like saying you'd prefer if your girlfriend wasn't in a mini skirt, drunk at a club, is seen as "insecure and controlling".

Men are not permitted to have any preferences or standards. You have it completely backwards.

Gravel_Roads · 2026-07-19T02:15:02+00:00

Same answer as for men: any preferences or standards are fine, but that doesn’t mean people aren’t allowed to have opinions, especially if you are going around declaring your preferences on the internet. (Or looking for the opinions of people who might be referring to something you do.)

nightcall379 · 2026-07-19T02:30:26+00:00

What preferences are women allowed to have?

Any you want, just don't lie about them

Nidken · 2026-07-19T04:51:57+00:00

The frustration comes from women conflating preferences and standards.

It's the difference between: "I'd prefer she had D-cups, but any sort of tits are nice", versus "Any woman who doesn't have natural D-cups is not a real woman, I can't help that I'm only attracted to actual good mothers who can properly nourish my children".

Sensitive_Housing_85 · 2026-07-19T06:21:05+00:00

You can have any preference, you arent just entitled to men meeting them, you look for the man you want and then appeal to him, if you can't then that's on you

SeemedGood · 2026-07-19T04:32:24+00:00

Women are “allowed” to have whatever preferences you wish. Just take responsibility for them and their effects on yourselves, men, and broader society and don’t play the victim game when you get criticized for them.

BCRE8TVE · 2026-07-19T03:04:49+00:00

Women are allowed to have whatever preferences they want.

They're just not entitled to not being judged a shallow and superficial, if they have shallow and superficial preferences, that's all.

Women can have whatever preferences they want, they just have to accept the judgement that comes with their preferences.

Don't want to be judged as shallow and superficial? Don't have shallow and superficial preferences.

It's that simple.

woman has a preference for a man who’s rich or just financially stable, who has confidence: bad because she doesn’t love him for who he is

She's allowed to have that preference, she just has to accept being called a gold digger if that'S what she is.

woman has a preference for a tall man: bad because you can’t control height

She's allowed to have that preference, she just has to accept being called shallow for her shallow preference.

woman has a preference for a guy with big muscles: bad because men don’t like being loved for something they worked towards

She's allowed to have that preference, she just has to accept being called shallow for her shallow preference.

You know, the exact same way we call men shallow for having a preference for women with big breasts or wide hips.

This is what equality looks like. Welcome to accountability, ladies.

statsfodder · 2026-07-19T03:40:41+00:00

Man doesn't preference a woman with means, he is wanting financial power imbalance.

Man prefers younger it is creepy and he wants an age power imbalance.

Man prefers older, he wants to be a gold digger.

Man prefers fit and not obese, he is shallow.

Man prefers obese, he is wanting a looks power imbalance.

Women's preferences are questioned because women ask "where are all the good men" while passing up good man after good man because he isn't a rich, 6ft+ Adonis with a 9inch cock that cums chocolate.

classicslayer · 2026-07-19T02:21:22+00:00

Women can have whatever preferences they want whether or not they can get it is another thing and its not a mans fault if they cant.

fucksiclepizza · 2026-07-19T03:49:32+00:00

Whatever they like.

LysanderAegis · 2026-07-19T08:16:53+00:00

All of they want.

AlarmingToe8503 · 2026-07-19T13:56:15+00:00

As a well off, financially stable and somewhat tall dude who was very short until suddenly getting taller at the tail the end of highschool, it just feels really shitty to know with near certainty that women despise my personality and interests but tolerate me because of my wallet and my skeleton. I'm sure attractive women feel the same way. What's unreasonable about this?

LetItAllGo33 · 2026-07-19T02:39:41+00:00

Have all the preferences, but you can't then CREDIBLY burden others with a sob story about being lonely. There are good, honest, integrous, funny people out there of both sexes, but if you're holding out for prosperous and tall, you might not also get honest and good, and if you hold out for perfect, aka "never settle ladies," you'll be waiting forever.

weenieandthebutt · 2026-07-19T02:30:06+00:00

Women can have any preferences they want. I once was happy and thanked a girl in a club after she rejected me because it was refreshing to hear her reasons. All I ask is just that you lot be honest about it other than spout these trite "muh personality" mantra.

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Melodic_Structure928 · 2026-07-19T02:28:11+00:00

Any and all. Just don’t be surprised if the people you want many have preferences that don’t include you. Which doesn’t make them evil btw, just like your preferences don’t make you evil.

then afterwards don’t lie in order to virtue signal that your the “good guys” unlike evil men as well, most of you are shallow as well and it’s ok.

also criticism will always be around like with most things.

brassbuffalo · 2026-07-19T03:51:33+00:00

You can have any preference. Preferences for money and looks are shallow. No one is stopping you from having those preferences, you just want to believe that you're not shallow. Being called shallow won't kill you.

just_a_place · 2026-07-19T03:51:36+00:00

There is no actual entity who is doing the allowing. Your preferences are either good or bad based on their own merit and how well they conform to reality. If anything, it's reality who is your judge here, not men.

woman has a preference for a man who’s rich or just financially stable, who has confidence: bad because she doesn’t love him for who he is.

That's correct, women love what is being provided, not the provider.

woman has a preference for a tall man: bad because you can’t control height.

Nobody cares about this one actually.

woman has a preference for a guy with big muscles: bad because men don’t like being loved for something they worked towards.

This one is also not a thing that men actually think.

growframe · 2026-07-19T09:14:02+00:00

You can have whstever preferences you want

captaindestucto · 2026-07-19T09:54:15+00:00

Any preferences they choose.

Storage-Express · 2026-07-19T10:08:51+00:00

you're allowed to have whatever preferences you want (as long as they're legal of course). if someone thinks you're shallow or you simply can't attract the type of people who would meet your standards, that's life.

plenty of women would throw insults at me for some of my preferences but it's not really an issue because i don't go around telling everyone about my 'list' and i don't care about their opinion to begin with. i also don't make posts on social media blaming women when i can't find someone who fits my preferences.

Pathosgrim · 2026-07-19T13:31:55+00:00

You can have whatever you want. You're the selector 😂

Livid-Log7463 · 2026-07-19T19:23:55+00:00

Women are socially allowed any preference they want, even the ones you use as examples have criticisms that pale in comparison to men having any form of preference/standard.

DecisionPlastic9740 · 2026-07-19T07:25:14+00:00

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Title	what preferences are women allowed to have?
Author	raffaelloenthusiast
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Date	July 19, 2026 2:03 AM UTC (3 days ago)
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