I know a whole range of couples. My parents hated each other from the day I was born. My grandparents are the sweetest pumpkins out there, truly love each other.

I know my friends parents who divorced over physical altercations from arguing, all the way to 50 year olds pinching each others asses and making out on couches after 20-30 years of marriage.

People who call marriage a scam clearly don't represent healthy marriages. When two people married because they're compatible and they love each others.

Sadly, most couples get married because of social pressures, had kids on accident, parental pressure, scared of being alone when old, etc. But those aren't ways to live healthy and grow up happy, in a loving partnership with someone. That's a recipe for disaster.

And any time someone says bad things about marriages, you already know they're scared of commitment from fear of failure, or can't find someone compatible, or already is married to the wrong individual.