In my last thread I asked what made a man attractive enough on a purely sexual level. I went in thinking it had to do with how he looked. But I learned that there were a lot of other factors too. Granted, a lot of people clarified that they were only speaking for themselves. But if you can...

1. Be charismatic.
2. Be confident.
3. Be flirtatious.
4. Be playful.
5. Be interesting.
6. Be exciting.
7. Be safe.
8. Be funny, but play it safe. Don't tell any offensive/political jokes. Unless she likes that.
9. Be decisive.
10. Be sociable. Sociable with your friends, sociable with her friends, sociable with the bartender, sociable with everyone.
11. Be smart.
12. Be hardworking.
13. Be conscientious.
14. Be in control of your emotions.
15. Be emotionally mature.
16. Be gentlemanly.
17. Be kind.
18. Be respectful.
19. Be good natured.
20. Be artistic.
21. Be amiable.
22. Be fit.
23. Be conventionally masculine.
24. Be well dressed.
25. Be well groomed but not extremely well groomed.
26. Be good at sex, and "appear" good at sex.
27. Don't be clingy/needy.
28. Have common sense.
29. Have conversational chemistry (Have quick banter, joke with her like an old friend, share your life passions, avoid awkward silences).
30. Have money.
31. Utilize "game."
32. Utilize body language.
33. Do the approaching.
34. Do the "escalating." It's your job as the man to awaken her horniness.
35. Pay attention to her/show interest, but don't ask too many questions about her.
36. Treat her well.
37. Make her feel comfortable.
38. Make her feel sexy, but also don't put her on a pedestal. Try making her feel sexy with your body language.
39. Smile.
40. Lean in.
41. Touch her arm.
42. Hold her hand.
43. Don't ask to fuck before you've at least had a kiss.
44. Insist on the kiss (risky tactic, not all women, etc).
45. Don't be pushy (risky tactic, not all women, etc).
46. Use condoms.
47. Understand womens' needs.
48. Be ATTRACTIVE.
49. Be around when she's "in the mood."

...then her oyster is your oyster. Some things, like being attractive, there's not much the average man can do about that. He's stuck the way he looks, most he can do is work on his style/grooming/physique. So right now I'm interested in the "personality" stuff, the building blocks to a man's "character archetype." So I'm gonna work through as many of these as I can to better understand them.

Starting with what I think is probably the most powerful and complex of these: "Being exciting." Maybe a close but distinct cousin to "being interesting," even if a woman won't have sex with you, if there's nothing else to it there's a helping of Ego Waffles in it for you if a woman thinks you're "exciting." I mean, I'd like to be "exciting."

But what is "exciting?" You might be tempted to say "There is no checklist." A lot of people said that last time. But what you can do is name examples of times men were exciting and talk about what made them so exciting. From that we can at least know some ways to be exciting.

You might now be tempted to say "You can't be all things to all people. Just be yourself, there's a woman out there that's into whatever you are." But that's a cold comfort, and a little unfair. Maybe it's true that very few women have tastes alike. But that just makes a man's quest for a nut even harder. The "unrealistic beauty standards" supposedly put upon women, they can be rough. But IF you can achieve them, there's very few men you can't win over. A majority of men seem to be in agreement on what they like. But as a man, if I get redpilled up and "pursue" women like Henry Cavill likes to do, that might appeal to one or two women out of billions that I might never see in my life. So yes, boys kinda have to be all things to all people if they want girls to like them.