I don’t believe this has ever been asked in this context here (meaning the women were asked) so looks like I’m taking the plunge. Often times I think people are afraid to ask questions here, the notion that they’re being rude by asking certain questions, asking certain questions to certain people, social pressure etc.

Let’s say for example your sex life consists of having sex with your husband or boyfriend three times, three days in a week and you’ve always done this since you’ve been with him. I’ll be a bit liberal and add a few more “couplings” in the days for the more high strung of you. But, say some tragedy should befall him such as an injury of some sort, some other form of physical or mental trauma, traumatic passing or loss of a loved one, testosterone level plunges for an unknown reason. Would you stay by his side or will you begin to consider separation, opening the relationship up so to speak, seek physical intimacy elsewhere?

As usual keep it civil but get your two cents in on what your stance would be.