This sub tends to regurgitate and rehash a lot of ideas but ultimately society would be a lot better off if both genders were to just acknowledge that a lot of men and women aren't exactly good relationship material.

Its obvious that cheaters, abusive partners etc aren't the kind of people you would want to date or marry, that's been the case for all of human history so lets ignore that and only focus on things that have disqualified men and women in the last 50 years or so.

Men :-

The financial emancipation of women and the creation of relatively safe societies made the traditional male, protector and provider roles, obsolete. For women, If they aren't living in some place like Africa, they're probably in a relatively safe society. They can also provide for themselves and the government has safety nets in case they fail. Women instinctively and evolutionary still want men to protect and provide which is why they chase tall strong men who make as much if not more than they do (Whatever rationale they may use to justify this, its still a basic appeal to that provider/protector dynamic) but they don't actively need these things.

Thus women choose to go for mates that they're genuinely attracted to. Men with whom they enjoy a high degree of physical or emotional or psycho-sexual chemistry. They no longer need a man and this prices the average and below average man out of the dating market cause these men bring nothing but a provider and protector ability. It may be unfair and cruel but it isn't necessarily wrong and these men aren't relationship material. These men are usually preyed on by only fans thots or sex workers.

Women :-

The kind of men that are relationship material, the ones that can elicit physical or emotional or psycho-sexual chemistry in women, now have a golden penis syndrome. They're getting a lot more options and are spoiled for choice when it comes to picking women. They are also driven by their own evolutionary instincts which is an attraction to youth and fertility and a natural aversion to promiscuity so as to prevent paternity fraud.

As such these men will typically chase younger, more attractive women that aren't whoring themselves out and that don't have high body counts. Older, fatter and sluttier women will typically be passed over by such men. It may be unfair and cruel but it isn't necessarily wrong and these women aren't relationship material. These women, should they wish to settle, are typically forced to choose from among the men that aren't relationship material which is why fat women often end up with fat men, not that ripped 6'6 basketball player and why the boyfriends and husbands of sex sellers are typically a lot less attractive than them and usually have some sort of streaming job that brings in no income.

Neither the aforementioned men, nor the aforementioned women are good relationship material. Rather than argue about their life choices or crib about the low quality of men on offer or the essential prostitution of only fans, its better to just ignore such men and women, they're no ones ideal.