It is disturbing how many young beautiful women are working minimum wage jobs

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2022-12-12T15:56:30+00:00

Jesus what is wrong with you. These women want to be seen for more than their looks and you’re giving them a hard time for it?

purplish_possum · 2022-12-12T15:51:04+00:00

Just the opposite. I find it comforting to know that most women are not out and out prostitutes.

northernlights190 · 2022-12-12T15:53:32+00:00

Most women don’t want to do sex work on the Internet. Most women don’t want to sell feet pics to randos. Pretty girls aren’t all treated like a “princess” in their family and many families don’t have the resources to support an adult child, or the desire to do so if they did.

Beyond that, I find it bizarre that a young woman can have a totally normal job for a young person to have and you act like it’s a tragedy. It doesn’t need to be analyzed. Frankly, seems like pedestalizing women in a weird way.

GlidingGazelles · 2022-12-12T15:50:57+00:00

So unattractive women should be working them? Wow

baresquad · 2022-12-12T15:57:09+00:00

Extremely simplistic solutions for people who lives you have no idea about. The real world doesn’t work in terms of “sexual market value”, not everybody has family nor wants to live at the discretion of a man providing for them.

Do you know how much power a completely financial supportive boyfriend has? He could decide to stop supporting her mid semester, leaving her with all the studies and none of the money support.

Why should they give up the agency to support and be responsible for themselves? And also, people go from working minimum wage jobs to being nurses all the time.

manmadestool · 2022-12-12T15:52:54+00:00

I'd rather work a low wage job than sell sex. Also my family wouldn't just take care of me because I'm pretty. I never asked them for anything and every now and then my dad would help me out by buying me new tires or fixing my windshield when I didn't have the money but I'd never want to depend on my looks to take advantage of my family

The9thElement · 2022-12-12T16:01:20+00:00

Literally have no idea what life is like for the average young woman. No, being young and beautiful doesn’t mean you can easily find a rich boyfriend or that you want one, nor does it mean you are willing to sell feet pics (and selling feet pictures is not a sustainable income), or that your family treats you well. All the things you listed are basically just soft core sex work, and contrary to popular belief most women are not willing to go into that. Jesus H Christ what the fuck are you on???

The reason why young women work shitty jobs, is because they are just humans doing human things. Being attractive doesn’t make you a superhuman or a god or make you entitled to everything FFS

Digedag · 2022-12-12T15:43:19+00:00

I find it disturbing young women, having those rich opportunities to get up, are taking such low wage jobs.

Some people just prefer to preserve their dignity.

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-12-12T15:43:36+00:00

Hoeing comes wjth too many strings attached.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-12-12T15:56:24+00:00

Personally I like knowing I got through early adulthood with my dignity and agency intact. People are willing to offer the world to a young woman...for a price. (a price I find repugnant and not worth the labor).

I know y'all have trouble with the concept of dignity, since you're so willing to abandon it for a sniff of pussy, but some people hold it close to their identity and aren't wiling to part with it for a shitty ROI.

wub1234 · 2022-12-12T15:46:35+00:00

If you want to make money in any of the ways suggested (leaving aside any ethical or other objections that you might have), you need to be at the top. People focus on success of the top 1%, and assume that anyone similar can be in the top 1%. The reality is that it's not easy to be part of that group in any field. Anything worth doing or worth having involves a lot of competition, and it's not easy to stand out from the crowd. Being attractive is a good card to have in your hand, but it doesn't automatically confer success or wealth.

KayRay1994 · 2022-12-12T16:14:33+00:00

this has saudi “we treat our women like queens” while actively treating them like second class citizens energy

MarBitt · 2022-12-12T16:41:43+00:00

Are you serious? Disgusted with a woman who does an honest job and suggest that she should be a sex worker instead?

Prostitution, including various soft forms such as striptease, selling photos of your feet or finding a sugar daddy, does not harm only a small part of people with a specific internal setting. For many women, it destroys their self-esteem and healthy attitude towards sex and men.

YaKnowEstacado · 2022-12-12T16:30:46+00:00

I liked working these jobs in high school and college. I got to be active, work through my social anxiety and make friends. Plus I, you know, needed money to pay for stuff. Not everyone has a rich family or is cut out for sex work. And I certainly would have hated to miss out on an opportunity for real connection and love because I was with some "Patreon boyfriend" I was financially dependent on.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-12-12T16:34:06+00:00

Would you rather these young women get into sex work?

Demasii · 2022-12-12T16:43:54+00:00

A young woman can easily get a patreon boyfriend

Well why didn't you offer yourself?

RocinanteCoffee · 2022-12-12T19:26:10+00:00

A young woman can easily get a patreon boyfriend for a couple of years to pay for her, while studying a professional career; young women have no need to work low wage jobs.

Most people a) do not want to do that work and b) don't make enough to survive off it

Many young women do need to work low wage jobs until their career launches. I know multiple women with graduate degrees who have been sending out a multitude of customized applications every week, going to job fairs, and active on Linked In and still have not been hired yet. They work low wage jobs so they can keep their small apartment or share it with roommates which is much more preferable to them than relying on a man even if that were an option.

Most people who sell feet pictures don't make enough money on it per month to do more than pay their Netflix bill. The market is saturated. Only the top 5% of OF accounts make enough to afford rent, much less other bills/food.

Better let younger men have them, who also need them the most as they are less likely to study and become professionals.

Lmao, you're asking women to leave the work force to the men? Hell no. Everyone needs to eat and pay rent. Sex work isn't lucrative for most people and many are unwilling to do it.

Those younger women working minimum wage jobs are just exposing themselves to abuse from Karens and Pervs.

Women experience abuse from pervs and Karens regardless of where they work or even before they are of working age.

They can trade some of their high sexual market value to get far better opportunities and privileges than delivering pizzas.

Again not lucrative enough quickly enough in most cases to pay many bills, and a lot of people don't want to do sex work.

Maybe the reason is that they have a romantic idea about working hard?

Most people who work hard do it by necessity not fantasy.

Even if they do want a man eventually (not the priority for many), they also will not find good men in those low wage jobs.

You underestimate how many people working in things like the restaurant business have relationships that start with their coworkers. Some of them part ways, some turn into marriages. Plenty of good men and women working these jobs.

MistyMaisel · 2022-12-12T20:19:06+00:00

O_O What if, and this is just a guess, she values her body as more than a way to get money from men. And doesn't wish to sexualize it simply because it would offer more money and be easier work. Crazy, I know. But there's some girls like that out there. Some of them, apparently, deliver pizza too. *shudders*.

SmilesLikeMardiGras · 2022-12-12T21:36:21+00:00

how out of touch with reality are all of you that you dont realize 99% of young women do not want to be sugar babies and sex workers nor ar emost of them desirous of and able to get some boyfriend to pay for their whole life? what on the internet has convinced you all that literally all young women are amenable to prostitution. do none of you realize you live in porned out internet induced male solipsism fever dreams?

FairyMachine · 2022-12-12T16:40:18+00:00

You ought to say this to the guy who made a thread here recently, complaining about how women these days don't want to work and just want a man to take care of them.

feanoric · 2022-12-12T16:48:06+00:00

It's 'disturbing" that a woman isn't prostituting herself?

sadbitch55 · 2022-12-12T16:50:00+00:00

Being an attractive woman has more downsides than upsides. Women actively try to put you down, and good luck with pervert men.

Doinpromo · 2022-12-12T17:09:16+00:00

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8306259/amp/Subway-worker-earning-200-week-quits-job-makes-2-000-one-day-OnlyFans.html

athlete2biz · 2022-12-12T17:31:15+00:00

If you are talking about being a server or something, the really hot girls are making bank. I know some girls clearing over 100k a year doing serving jobs.

Everything's free if you are a truly beautiful young woman.

maybe you just have low standards and think these woman are beautiful when in reality the top tier guys think she is mid

Fancy-Respect8729 · 2022-12-12T17:45:54+00:00

Where I live it's nearly all Asian men delivering food. Women might work in shops, some are part time and studying and others are older. Never thought about it tbh. Seems legit way to make money.

gofigure62 · 2022-12-12T18:04:07+00:00

Most people can't "looks" their way out of poverty. It's delusional to believe that every woman you consider beautiful can have their live subsidsed by a man.

Nothing in life is free and most women don't want to be bothered with men sexually in order to make a living.

2022-12-12T18:23:29+00:00

I don't find it disturbing because I don't care.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2022-12-12T18:23:41+00:00

Thank you for reminding me that men can be just as solipsistic. It’s been a while since I saw such a horrible take. Really, props. I couldn’t have written better satire.

But in the spirit of the flair, a few questions:

She may even just sell feet pictures (no need to show face) and make enough to live for a while while she gets a good professional job.

Have you considered that maybe this kind of OF gig isn’t as lucrative as many men assume, especially if you’re not willing to show your face? Some time ago a man asked why more women didn’t jump at the opportunity to do sex work, and I mentioned that I had once considered selling panties but didn’t need the money and didn’t want to interact with my customers at all whatsoever. Multiple men told me i would never have an audience if I wasn’t willing to show my customers whose panties they were sniffing. That’s fair, but it doesn’t make me want to go through with it. It makes me say “thanks, but no thanks”. I would guess that anything like this would be someone’s side gig at best.
Most employers hiring above minimum wage retail/ food service or roofing want to see a resume. Hers will either be blank or say “selling feet pics.” Not a good look.

Maybe they have not realized their potential and default social status?

Maybe you only see one kind of potential from them and overestimate their default social status because the grass is always greener?

Bonus:

Better let younger men have them, as they are less likely to study and become professionals.

Sounds simultaneously like charity, and like the old-fashioned “why are you taking this job from a man who needs to feed his family?”

januaryphilosopher · 2022-12-12T18:50:23+00:00

Um, it's not easy to get a man to pay for you. Especiaply if you aren't doing things for him like looking after him and/or his children. Hence why beautiful young women have to work like everyone else. These opportunities you assume exist simply don't come up in real life.

Ok-Championship-4317 · 2022-12-12T18:50:32+00:00

I’m a conventionally attractive young woman who has worked low wage jobs since I was 15, and now make good money in the service industry in my 20s. Payed my tuition and living expenses myself (and with loans) and working towards a professional career in the future.

First of all, i would be embarrassed to be an adult in my twenties and need the financial support from my parents. I’ve never been treated as a princess and I would find it quite infantilizing if I was.

Second, sex work doesn’t appeal to me because it is usually traumatizing. I am friends with sex workers, some of them them tolerate it, but many hate it.

I respect sex workers but it is difficult work. Even something as simple as having a Patreon boyfriend or sugar daddy who pays your bills, is not entirely pleasant. When you engage in a transactional relationship, you are playing the draining role of being someone’s fantasy and suppressing your actual opinions and desires. This is never a genuine relationship, you are playing pretend. I would rather explore real intimacy with a person who doesn’t need to pay me to like them.

Third, I want to develop skills that are outside of my looks and sexuality. I want to be a person with achievements, and that means also having to struggle

chalkandapples · 2022-12-12T19:57:41+00:00

A young woman can easily get a patreon boyfriend for a couple of years to pay for her,

That's not a nice thing to do to use a guy for money like that, some women don't want to take advantage of people. And also, not everyone enjoys a professional job, or want one.

Also, if you can't deal with the annoyances of a low paying job, you probably don't have the tenacity to do most professional jobs either. My first professional job interviewer loved that I had some fast food experience, since they know I can deal with at least some type of pressure. Obviously be safe, but learning to deal with troublesome people and situations is a part of growing up and being a competent person.

dumbbitchcas · 2022-12-12T21:20:37+00:00

So, when women rely on a man for money she’s a gold digging slag with no worth who you’ll call ever name in the book, and when she does SW or OF she’s a whore and used up or some shit, and when she works that’s a problem too?

Women DONT have these fake opportunities of a patreon boyfriend. YK what I’ve experienced from half the guys I’ve dated? Crying and complaining abt a $30 check I didn’t even ask them To pay. And if a woman gets an actually sugar daddy you have a problem with that too.

It doesn’t exist. Most families can’t afford to support their college aged children. I’ve been financially fucked since I was 16. Most of my friends as well.

You have no idea what the real world is like homie.

Ray1975 · 2022-12-12T21:59:11+00:00

Younger men don't need to take low wage jobs. You also don't need to study to become successful. People delivering pizza also make far more than minimum wage after tips.

TotalBeefcall · 2022-12-12T22:00:13+00:00

The women you describe seem to have integrity. I find that admirable.

modidlee · 2022-12-12T23:50:49+00:00

These posts get weirder and weirder. This one comes across as some creepy guy who sees himself as "high value" that's mad that the hot pizza delivery girl who he sees as a brokey still won't give him the time of day even though he offered to tip her extra for the large anchovie pizza she just delivered to him

bottleblank · 2022-12-13T00:10:48+00:00

Even if that were true, which I would question, why should it be aspired to? Why would we want women to all decide that the way to earn money is to become quasi-prostitutes?

I have no problem with sex work, but suggesting that it should be the default or aspirational "career" for any attractive young woman is... problematic. Not least for relations between men and women, but also for women's mental health.

There's nothing wrong with a woman getting a perfectly reasonable, respectable, responsible job, just like any other man. In fact, in this era of claimed equality, that's what they should be doing. I don't doubt that a lot of this push for women to be career women is driven by corporations who are hungry for larger workforces to exploit, but that's already true for men, so women doing the same is equality - for better or worse.

I would expect a woman who claims to want an equal partner, equal treatment, equal respect to work a normal everyday job, just like we have to. Otherwise it's not equal, is it? Especially if the replacement for that is "exploit male sexuality to get their money instead of contributing to more useful services in broader society".

ETA: One extra note to end on: if she thinks pizza pranks are acceptable then she can get in the sea. I have no reason to suspect the specific girl you mentioned does think that's OK, but evidently some do, and I consider that indecent exposure just as it would be if a man did it. It's not right, it's not acceptable, and if she does that then she should be fired and arrested, because that's the law.

Correction: I am an idiot and got that last paragraph the wrong way around. It's still unacceptable, but it wouldn't be her doing the nakedness in that scenario.

M3taBuster · 2022-12-13T00:51:01+00:00

What are you talking about? These are the women that have dignity. I find it far, far more disturbing when so many young women turn to sex work rather than working minimum wage. You're right about pizza delivery being dangerous for women, but that's why they should be strapped, and also why it's so fucked up that the law forbids them from doing so on account of their age.

CSGOSucksMajorDick · 2022-12-13T01:56:07+00:00

As a male pizza driver, I find this offensive. The money is damn good. And the women I work with bust ass to keep the store running efficiently.

We're just trying to make a damn living. Stop talking down about my profession.

Birb-brained · 2022-12-12T17:45:43+00:00

This is…just..bizarre. I can’t even. Not today. Gosh some of you guys are exhausting.

Filmguy000 · 2022-12-12T18:51:39+00:00

I actually love it when I see a young, pretty girl working shitty, low paying jobs. It shows that despite their looks, they are willing to actually "work" for their money. So many, especially nowadays, will run to porn, Onlyfans, Instagram and other online "occupations" and live off their looks. Or they become status chasers and target high status men for a free ride in life.

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cast-away-ramadi06 · 2022-12-12T17:19:27+00:00

You can only tell a wise man from a fool when he opens his mouth.

2022-12-12T17:27:10+00:00

I’m gonna go back to work sooner just to make you cry

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-12-12T18:17:47+00:00

They rather work then fk for money.

This is why money is overrated for attracting women.

ReaITylerDurden · 2022-12-12T18:46:51+00:00

Lol. What living in the west does to ur values n morals

RegionalPolice · 2022-12-12T20:00:59+00:00

Your complaint is that young hot women... are treated as normal people?

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-12T21:10:45+00:00

Maybe women would like to make their own way in the world and not rely on a man? Jeez what a concept lmao?

Just because you'd sell dick pics if you could doesn't mean women want to

BensonInFL · 2022-12-12T22:06:47+00:00

I find it disturbing young women, having those rich opportunities to get up, are taking such low wage jobs.

Perhaps you should approach them, let them know how disturbed you are, and offer them some of those rich opportunities haha...

-B

Siegfried66 · 2022-12-13T00:39:28+00:00

Holy crap, I'm glad to know I'm sane. Posts like these really show how far people can go off the deep end.

AndrewPotato34 · 2022-12-13T06:58:50+00:00

Most average women should work like the average man minimum wage jobs

SoIlikeMangos · 2022-12-13T11:35:30+00:00

Start valuing women on something more than their looks ffs

Title	It is disturbing how many young beautiful women are working minimum wage jobs
Author	feanoric
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Date	December 12, 2022 3:39 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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