CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kids

For all the men out there that do not want children or do not want anymore children, the HVW who best fits our lifestyles would be the childfree woman and not that idealistic fence sitter type. A real childfree woman who walks the walk and talks the talk, they often have been sterilized or are very careful with their birth control and as a bonus they tend to be very pro-choice and will even ask your input on the matter. I am personally a childfree man and have never wanted children, I don’t feel any emotional or primitive need to reproduce, I actually don’t even like children and think they’re nothing more than detrimental money pits that ruin relationships and ruin the body and mental health of your partner but you’re supposed to find this endearing and not repulsive. Throughout my entire adult life I’ve sought out women who didn’t want children and if I was really in need of a fuck I’d made sure I wore a rubber I personally brought with me, lucky for me I’ve only had six accidents but that was all taken care of in the end. Society is still not used to the idea of people not wanting children so we shame men and women who do not want kids, as a species were supposed to want to reproduce and spread our genes far and wide so this is a deviation for the norm. We’re still hard wired to shame those who do it and will not reproduce but in doing this we’re setting up men and women for failure, HVM and a HVW who don’t want children and who compliment one another and are best suited for each other will in turn settle for those who are not compatible with them. This leads to broken homes, broken men, broken women and broken children and this adds to the cycle of failed relationships we see women and men struggling with now. If we didn’t shame childfree men and men we would see a rise in harmonious relationships and a rise in compatible couples. Men and women who want children will find each other, and men and women who don’t want children will find each other. Shaming doesn’t help and all it’s doing is making it harder for men to find partners who bring value to their lives.