It’s been said on this subreddit that most women aren’t on apps, and shouldn’t be asked out at gyms, or work, but where should guys be asking you (and specifically you) out?

Assume the *most respectful and genuine way of being approached, talked to, asked out (whatever that is to you) and you don’t obviously look busy.

School, college classes, work, bars, the library, church, small friend-group parties, large social parties, clubs, gym, gym classes, volunteer activities, neighbors, coed sports, grocery store, hobbyist classes, hobbyist meetups, hobbyist conventions, concerts/theatre performances, singles speed dating event, on public transport, malls, cafes, at a hotel/tourist attraction, out in nature (during the day), on a hiking trail, online gaming, online communities that are not dating apps (exclude Reddit).

If you don’t like any of them and want dating apps, say so. Otherwise pick as few or many from the list, or come up with your own, and rank/score/explain them.

For partnered people, imagine if you were single right now, at the age you are now for some reason.