1. Every person on Earth would be pansexual/sapiosexual. While certain traits are more common in one gender than the other, there are no personality traits solely exclusive to one gender. Therefore, if personality was actually the determining factor in dating, everyone would be open to dating anyone so long as that person possessed the other person’s ideal personality. But the fact of the matter is, that isn’t the case at all. For the vast majority of us, it has to be someone exclusively from the gender we’re attracted to. Which is proof that personality comes second to physical appearance for most people. If personality mattered over everything else, humans wouldn’t even be capable of having individual sexual orientations.

  2. There wouldn’t be so many people with toxic/abusive ex’s. In fact you could even argue that breakups in general would be rare because everyone would initially pick someone who was mentally compatible with them to begin with. The fact that breakups are not only common, but many occur with the first few weeks/months of the relationship should tell you that a lot of people fuck and date people that they have no actual mental compatibility with.

  3. Neither cheating nor casual sex would exist. You simply can’t get to know someone’s actual personality within only a few days or weeks of meeting. So the fact that people are perfectly capable of hooking up (and even entering relationships) with people they don’t really even know should tell you how much personality matters in reality. The same applies to infidelity in a relationship. There are many cases where the infidelity-partner is someone that literally only entered the cheating spouse’s life days or weeks before the infidelity occurs.

3B. Also to expand on the previous point, the friendzone wouldn’t even exist. In fact, it’d be the opposite. Befriending someone would be the only way to get them to enter a relationship with you. The fact that a simp who’s been in the friendzone for two years gets constantly skipped over for the “new guy she met at the bar last weekend “ is perfect evidence that the bluepill is just fucking delusional.😂

  1. People wouldn’t agree to romantic dates or have interest in people that they’ve just recently met. Like I alluded to before… it can take weeks, months, or even years in some cases to really know somebody’s actual personality. The fact that people can develop crushes or convince themselves that it was “love at first sight” says it all. Keep in mind, I believe “love at first sight” is really just a delusion. It’s really more “lust at first sight” than anything else. But that still only drives home the point of this post even more in a way…

  2. Criminals like Ted Bundy wouldn’t be able to do what they do. And I know… This is the part where you say “but he was still pretending to have a normal personality”. Right, but that only further drives home the point that women’s personality-detectors are so weak and unreliable that they can easily be fooled by handsome-creeps anyways. (The same probably goes for men as well.) This directly lines up perfectly with points made in the 3rd and 4th entries on the list. People don’t actually wait until they “know” a person’s personality before engaging with them romantically. That’s just a delusion that society feeds itself. (Aka a bluepill)

  3. Abusers like Chris Brown would become inc3l after the incidents with Rihanna and his other girlfriends. The fact that he has had no issue finding new romantic partners despite all of that is evidence that the average bluepiller’s idea of personality being the determining factor in dating is just naivety at best.

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And the final reason that the “personality” meme is a myth is simply a case of deductive reasoning and understanding evolutionary psychology..

Think about it. Why would personality ever beat out genetics, when a good personality can be mostly “learned” by anyone anyways? A person with good genes can “learn” to have a decent personality, but a person with a decent personality can never learn how to have better genes. And then there’s the issue of a “good personality” being a vague social construct that can literally change overnight anyways. Meanwhile what’s viewed as good genes will be a lot more consistent and most likely benefit you all throughout life. When you consider all of this, it makes perfect sense that genetics beat “personality “ in almost every case realistically.

Lastly, some of you may wonder why I’m making this post. Is this some bl@ckpill shit? No. Is this post meant to complain about life or criticize anyone? No. (I’m actually decently attractive myself so this post isn’t even about me personally). The point of the post was just to express what I believe is the truth about the “personality” meme that bluepillers push. While certain aspects of Redpill might not be the 100% certified truth, there definitely aspects of the bluepill that are also just flat out bullshit as well. That is all…