Dropping my nephew off at the soccer field, I overheard a few women claiming, "boys are easy to raise." Surprisingly, many agreed. But is it really so?

In reality, most families don't provide boys with the support they need. Raising a boy into a fully functional adult who is also appreciated and desired by females is not "easy."

First, let's consider genetics. Boys face a tougher battle due to the complexities of genetic recombination. The Sexual Market Value (SMV) differences between women of various physical traits are relatively minor and often subjective. A 4'10" woman can attract as many men, if not more, than a 5'7" woman. In contrast, boys have to meet much more stringent physical and social criteria.

Most women (80%) are considered attractive by default. What might hold them back is their attitude towards life, unhealthy body fat percentages, or premature aging due to poor lifestyle choices. Conversely, for boys to become desirable men, it requires a combination of good genetics, proper nutrition, and extensive resources.

Take nutrition, for example. Countries that consume more milk generally show better skeletal development in their populations compared to those that consume more meat. Yet, many boys don't drink enough milk during their formative years. Instead of a glass or two, they need to be drinking milk from a fire hydrant.

Many families fail to monitor their boys' development adequately, often leaving it to professionals who rely on average data skewed by socioeconomic and ethnic differences. A boy’s growth and development require meticulous attention, something most single mothers might struggle with, given their constraints.

The truth is, raising a boy into a desirable man demands the guidance of a strong male role model. A man who understands the complexities of life and relationships is better equipped to teach these skills. Expecting single mothers to fulfill this role, even if they had the DNA of a desirable father, is unrealistic.

Women can easily obtain genetic material from attractive men, but raising a child to capitalize on those genetics is an entirely different challenge. Her lifestyle, nutrition, and ability to provide stability all play crucial roles in her child’s development.

Today, women might criticize men for being unattractive or undateable, but they should consider the challenges their sons will face as they grow into men. The societal standards and expectations boys face require more than just basic parenting—they need comprehensive support and guidance.

Raising boys is far from easy. It demands a level of attention, resources, and guidance that most families currently fail to provide, leading to boys growing up unprepared for the challenges of adulthood. It's time to rethink our approach and give boys the support they truly need.