N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

RoseyButterflies · 2025-02-08T12:45:18+00:00

Good men don't care about N count lol

leosandlattes · 2025-02-08T07:45:12+00:00

N-count doesn't really matter that much as a metric because it fails to consider age vs. experience. Having 10 bodies at 19 years-old is way different from having 10 bodies at 45 and you're newly divorced or something. What really counts is slut velocity:

v^(slut) = n-count / (current age - age at virginity loss)

Larger the end value = more of a slut

Smaller the end value = less of a slut

If you're going to care about this as a firm measurement, you might as well care about it in a more accurate way.

QuantityAcademic · 2025-02-08T03:18:36+00:00

In the future there shall be shrines where women and men can go to and pray to reduce their n-count.

NothingOrAllLife · 2025-02-08T00:00:24+00:00

I think it’s weird how some men devalue women so much that women having sex with other women doesn’t count as sex in their eyes.

Seems like a lot of guys would be happy with a woman who had only ever been with women. Even if she’s in the triple digits they wouldn’t count it as sex. It kinda shows that the whole spiel about being the best she’d ever had is nonsense.

TheGloriousEv0lution · 2025-02-07T20:10:35+00:00

I’ll preface this by saying having a high N count as a man or woman doesn’t make you a bad person; I’m friends with hoes and they’re honestly some of the most chill people to hang with. Also, I know a lot of women might say “I have an N count of 120 and I found a loving man” and that’s great, but this is strictly speaking in a general sense

I’ve noticed women with high N counts almost always have very warped views of men and relationships. I see people here rationalize it as “women now having standards” or “learning how men truly are” but a lot of times they’re just extremely toxic

Also, the national average N count is around 6, and normal people find their potential romantic partner hooking up with dozens of other people gross. It’s not a man thing either since women are statistically more judgmental than men here. It’s seen as impulsive and that you don’t care about your body or catching diseases

Having a high N count doesn’t inherently make you a worse partner, but they have traits associated with them that makes it that way

jay303x · 2025-02-07T19:11:53+00:00

Watching blue pillers hamster away men's preferences on n count is so funny

You're a spiteful virgin!!!

Nope, I've had plenty of sex and relationships. Still prefer low n women.

You must be from a religious/third world country!!!

Nope, US born and raised.

-----blue pill mental breakdown begins-----

Yeah well... you're obsessed with dicks!!! And you're a misogynist!!! Women are people too!!! You're just insecure!!! REEEEEE

Lol ok Becky

is it really so hard to admit you're a little upset about some men having standards that exclude you? Men have to deal with that everyday and you don't see us having episodes about it

Icy-Criticism-9722 · 2025-02-07T14:01:00+00:00

Any women with a n count higher than 10 is damaged goods.

ThatBitchA · 2025-02-06T15:31:59+00:00

It seems it really comes down to two things....

🍆 obsession with dick size

🍆 inability to see women as human with their own sexual desire

Those two things are why some men hate women with sexual experiences. They are more concerned about the sizes is previous dicks she's seen. And they don't believe women have their own sexual desire.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-02-06T00:44:07+00:00

hey this is off topic but i am hoping to get fired from my job due to the super irregular hours. can you sluts pls pray for me? if it works i will remove or add ns from your count. like memories and all. ty 🙏

attendquoi · 2025-02-04T23:06:29+00:00

men will talk about virgins/low-n women in good light as if they're saving for marriage or other righteous reasons, but the reality is that these women are just as much as w-words as high-n women are because the base desire for **** is inherent in women thus it's irrelevant how many times she's penetrated.

I've been at my dorm now for nearly 3 years so i've seen all the young kids come in and out over the years, every chick that was a virgin/low n and wanted sex slept with the male whores that other women fucked. every, single, one. the ones who are still waiting complain about guys 'not being my type'.

What makes a woman good and worthy of pursuing seriously for an LTR/marriage is not how many men she slept with, but 1) acceptance of female nature 2) good self-restraint from base desires to hop to ***\*

she needs to remind herself when she gets the tingles from other men in the LTR(happens to all men who aren't attractive) that it's a bug, not a feature and isn't worth ruining the relationship for.

washington_breadstix · 2025-02-04T08:42:23+00:00

Of all the guys who care about n-count, how many of them would stop caring entirely if their (hypothetical) girlfriends were giving them constant eyeroll-inducing orgasms and an overall "Let's tear up the sheets" bedroom experience?

Does the number actually matter? Or is it just another manifestation of the "other dudes" boogeyman that exists in the heads of many men? You don't want other dudes in her past to have been better than you are. And you especially don't want this comparison to result in a dead bedroom for you, while her past lovers had round-the-clock free use of every hole.

Is "n-count" really about "n-count"? Or is it more about sexual consistency across relationships?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-02-04T00:27:23+00:00

11……. Weeks till Easter!

Proudvow · 2025-02-03T22:30:53+00:00

People like saying "only neckbeards care about n-count" but it's just not the case. More of a self-serving delusion.

If the only people slut shaming were inexperienced men then nobody would actually care about it, since those men largely do not matter. Hard truth. It'd be like how nobody cares about inexperienced men wanting women to approach more/etc. Noise in the wind. The reality is that a ton of traditional men and manwhores also judge high-N women too, due to gendered social customs and/or innate male revulsion.

That's the whole reason it's called the slut-stud double standard; if only virgin men were doing it then it's not really a double standard lol, there's no hypocrisy on their part.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-03T18:47:56+00:00

I will never understand why a lot of men on this subreddit think only high-n women are bothered by a man asking for her n-count.

Low-n and virgin women are put off by this because 1) it’s socially inept and therefore unattractive, and 2) it comes off as a perverse gross fetishization of our purity. Like he doesn’t like me, he just hates sluts.

Modest/chaste women do not like being hounded for this information either. Please stop acting like women who don’t like being asked must be high-n.

PPD_DailyPoster · 2025-02-03T17:45:10+00:00

Weekly reminder that n-counts matter because 30+ men with n-count = 0 are unwanted.

Motor-Buy-6991 · 2025-02-03T10:43:11+00:00

Never ask a woman her count cause 99% of the time she will lie. Even a woman with a relatively low body count will lie unless she’s a virgin which is a very low population of American women in their 20s. It’s completely reasonable to assume a gen z woman around my age(25) has a count of 20+ unless she was in a long term relationship.

leosandlattes · 2025-02-03T08:56:30+00:00

Q4M: Do you consider receiving blowjobs as part of your n-count?

Follow up question for those who answered no:

If a man has gotten 30 women to blow him, but they all rejected having penetrative sex with him, is he an incel because his n-count is effectively 0?

Or is he a Chad because he got 30 women to agree to a sex act where they derived zero sexual pleasure and only gave him sexual pleasure?

pentatonicartichoke · 2025-02-02T19:17:25+00:00

I have the impression that N count matters less to sexually and romantically experienced people. Quality of experience outweighing quantity.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-02-02T16:30:34+00:00

7……. Days till the Superbowl!

JetproTC23 · 2025-02-02T04:39:53+00:00

Straight women (like straight men) absolutely judge their dating prospects based on his sexual past. It is clear as daylight when you see straight women's extreme aversion to bisexual men.

Most, more than 90% of modern, straight women will not date bisexual men, especially is if the man is "receiver". As a bi man, you can see their outlook change entirely when you reveal your bisexuality.

Yes, some of them will fetishize you, but that's rare and also not a very good thing.

I already know what kind of excuses women give (instead of admitting that they also care about a partner's past). These excuses are similar to the one they use in manosphere while discussing about N count.

"He won't be fully attracted to me, he will be always thinking about other men" vs. "high N women are gonna settle for you while fantasizing about their Chad ex"

"Bi men are serial cheaters" vs "high N women will cheat on you sooner or later cause pair bonding"

"STD fear" vs "STD fear"

"I just can't imagine him sucking so many dicks" vs. "I just can't imagine her sucking so many dicks"

"bi men are full of drama" vs. "you are gonna constantly meet her exes"

I am not even going to bring up bottoms. If you ever got penetrated by a man, you immediately become undesirable to 99.99% of the women.

But they will lie to you, saying they don't care about their partner's past as long as they are satisfied. Even under this post they are going to say "just don't date high N women if you don't want to" while overlooking the fact that men are ostracized for having any sort of standard regarding women's past partners.

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2025-02-02T02:36:34+00:00

Marriage isn't even really worth it for me unless it's with a virgin. Might aswell keep my options open at that point.

wanpieserino · 2025-02-01T23:36:41+00:00

Hot people have more sex

leosandlattes · 2025-02-01T22:45:46+00:00

Men engage in a dual mating strategy in where they are sexually attracted to women that show signs of sexual openness and promiscuity (regardless of whether she is actually high-n or not), but they desire to marry a woman who is chaste and sexually restricted.

As a result, men are ok with pumping and dumping women whose bodies and aesthetics they objectify, denigrating them and calling them sluts and whores (but still want to sleep with them). And then when they marry a chaste and modest woman, they resent her for being frigid, sexually closed off from him, and especially that she requires special treatment in order for her to want sex (dates, "being a dancing monkey," etc.).

There is a reason Instagram models and Only Fans girls get the most attention and thirsting from men. These are the women that are sexually attractive to men, even in spite of their promiscuity. The girls who wear turtle necks and long skirts, the girls who don't seduce men, are effectively invisible.

This is the Madonna/Whore mating strategy, at its finest, which seldom gets talked about as much as Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks.

It is possible to find a "Sexy Madonna/Virtuous Whore" but there are not enough of these women to go around for all men (similar to how there are not enough "Soft Alphas/Greater Betas" for all the women who want to get married).

These women, the ones who are sexually unrestricted but have maintained low-n, are likely the ones who would have become "sluts" had she not been locked down early. They are the type that sleep with men early but have vetted men well enough that these casual sex encounters ended up being relationships.

This affirms my belief that men LOVE "slutty" women - they just want to be between 1st-4th in line and be the one to LTR/marry her. They don't want to be 30th in line.

MalePsychopath · 2025-02-01T21:10:40+00:00

real women are virgins

ThatBitchA · 2025-02-01T20:31:42+00:00

N count insecurities is just another manifestation of men being obsessed with dick size.

Logos1789 · 2025-02-01T20:02:37+00:00

People understand the concept of one’s diminished appreciation for inferior experiences after experiencing better ones.

It’s only when it comes to choosing a partner for life that this concept is willingly ignored.

Actually, even in relationships, it’s acknowledged when it comes to lifestyle, like a woman who grew up rich not wanting to settle for a poor man.

When it comes to sex though, sure it totally doesn’t matter to your wife that she will never be as attracted to you or orgasm as intensely, frequently, and easily as she was with multiple former partners.

FunPoltergeist · 2025-02-01T19:18:36+00:00

You should probably get with at least a few people before you pick one.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-02-01T17:13:37+00:00

31……days till Mardi Gras!

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