Im curious to understand womens financial desires more.

Ive been told nearly my whole life, "you dont make enough money" I make 70k a year but its still "not enough" what is the threshold for it being enough? And where and how do women decide these thresholds?

I dont own a home yet, ive been told that is a big one. I was saving for a down payment but then I got injured and have had to go into my savings to well, survive and pay rent. Going into my savings makes me feel now women will decide I have less of a networth and therefore I am not "allowed" to date due to lack of financial security. Like every time I have to go into my savings, it makes me go "well looks like ill have to wait even longer to be allowed to date".

I have a crappy car, but its paid off, but i have had women say my car "isnt good enough" as in its not flashy enough or something, but wouldnt a fancy car just make someone even more of a financial liability?

I think tons of men just lie about how much they have, I was told the 10k i managed to save was "pennies" compared to other men. Even though they revealed they make less money than me.

So im curious, is it actually cash value in his accounts that makes women desire a man? Is it his networth as in his home and investments like in bitcoin? Or is it something as simple as his job title, such as a technician would be ew, while an engineer would be "ohhhh hello lets have random hook up sex!"