I took my kid to the doctor today and called my soon to be ex to update her on what he said.

As usual, all she wanted to do was push her opinion on me and try to argue.

I didn’t argue.

But it made me think just how much better I am now that she is gone.

I have lost 115 lbs, gotten more muscular, enjoy spending time with people and even alone sometimes.

I had my own issues during the marriage as well, but the person I was with her around to who I am now is completely different.

I have seen many dudes here express the same sentiment.

I’m in no way saying they don’t exist, but

I believe there are VERY FEW woman that do not stunt a man’s potential and drag him down.

It’s no wonder why many men have given up on dating.

A helpful woman, it seems, truly is a unicorn.