“You dont think women can do that too?”

As someone who has known unhinged women all her life, their man hating and wokeness comes from serious trauma.  With the unhinged guys, mainly LGBT ones who deal with crazy family. With unhinged straight men, however, I noticed it’s mainly been mundane stuff driving them to the arms of anti-feminists.

The common one, that I was even told by other men is common, is “my highschool/middle school ex was awful” and they make that their whole personality well into their 30s. I hope I don’t need to explain why that’s bad. The vast majority of people do not stay with their child sweetheart.

Another one is “oh he never had social skills because everyone rejected him”. So the solution to rejection is doing things that will get you even more rejected? When does the rejection start being your fault when people keep giving you chances and you deliberately fuck them up because you’re so focused on the first few people in your life rejecting you? 

Last but not least is bullying.  Okay? Bullying isnt a unique experience. I would say its rare for me to find people who weren’t bullied. I have a friend who was bullied in middle school almost to the point of suicide (even learnt how to tie a noose to do it). Guess what? By highschool, he got better, made friends, and got a boyfriend. This isnt even including THE OTHER traumas that emerged, but I digress.

“Lillith hates straight men! She admits it!”

No, I hate victim complexes, especially ones where people have never actually been victims. It’s so insane to me. How many men will talk shit about, yet dont try to find any other way to deal with their clearly unresolved problems in a healthy manner.