I mean the thought alone Is already foreign to them of stepping into a man's shoes because they are usually risk averse and usually don't believe in taking risks under almost no circumstances.

But most men aren't women. They don't have the options to be patient. Because women are EXTREMELY fickle and picky.

They want men to take things slow and bide his time when because that's how things always works for her. Things just work out for her because if one guy messes up another guy will pick up the pieces next week. It's like a job looking for workers. they may struggle one week and be back on game the next.

Most women's dating advice for men is centered towards advice that sounds good on paper and not what works on reality.

IE. Be a simp, be a patient, buy her flowers, take her on a fancy dinner date, be 100 honest all times, text her first and always be patient if she's flakey or emotional unavailable.

but the reality is guys can't waste too much time with women because they can afford to wait. A guy will miss many opportunities waiting on her because he doesn't have her options.