We need more kink shaming

nonchalant77 · 2021-05-03T21:07:34+00:00

Yep and EVERY SINGLE TIME I have shamed a pedophile on Reddit in ANY capacity I have men in my DMs defending them...sick AF

fancy_tetrahedron · 2021-05-03T20:57:53+00:00

When I was a teenager I was talking to this guy and he told me that he liked seeing women being in discomfort for his pleasure. And the worst thing is that I thought it was a normal thing to say because of all the "sEx pOsItIvItY" libfems are brainwashing young girls with. That should've been the first red flag. Luckily he showed some other red flags too so I was smart enough to ditch him before we got too close.

ucompost · 2021-05-03T22:53:20+00:00

My father also watched these type of porn categories.

Turns out he was taking photos of me and my kid sister sleeping and various angles and passing them around to men at his work while also getting his mistress to send him naked photos of her toddlers.

Fantasies soon grow so hungry that they scratch and sniff to become reality.

burritogirl101 · 2021-05-03T19:35:38+00:00

I'm so fucking tired of people squawking "dOn'T KiNkShAmE". I saw something the other day about someone's boyfriend paying for cannibalism fetish porn and the replies were a pile of pathetic garbage.

Damn right I'm gonna kinkshame this shit because guess what? Your kinks are fucking weird and gross. It is always women who pay the price for their fucked up partner's kinks. These men have been so brainwashed by their daily porn use and completely out of touch with reality.

splendieindependie · 2021-05-03T21:58:29+00:00

The weirdest thing about kinksters is the way they tend to heavily kinkshame shit fetishists.

Is sex involving poo disgusting? YES. Is sex involving poo more disgusting than sex involving violence, namecalling, restraints, control? NO.

How on earth is "attraction to physical/emotional violence" more socially acceptable than "attraction to bodily waste"?

Neither is healthy, but only one of them kills people on a regular basis.

give_mefries · 2021-05-03T19:30:33+00:00

This is disgusting.🤮 On another note, I was browsing a sub and just came across this guy asking for tips about how to hire an escort. Heavily upvoted. Most men throwing around advise on how to go about it. There was just one person who asked this guy why did he want to do it. His reply was this his gf won’t participate in his kinks that’s why.🤡🤮 how demented are they?!? He said he can hire someone to fuck but not to love. If you really love your gf wtf are you doing paying for sex in the middle of a fucking pandemic just to play out your kinks. I am disgusted by these scrotes. I’m pretty sure I’m turning into a celibate day by day.

PBJellyNutella · 2021-05-03T19:25:23+00:00

There’s always shitty comments like this gaslighting people. If this young girl believes that her father’s porn habits are normal, she’ll continue to have this behaviour with any friends/ romantic relationships she’ll have. Maybe getting into a gross relationship with some older man who calls her ‘’mature for her age’’ or some BDSM psycho. LibFems, pickmes and misogynists are literally destroying society.

Ntop__ · 2021-05-03T19:39:19+00:00

The "just a fantasy" argument is so non-sensical.

It's a fantasy in your brain... That gets coupled with physical stimulation.... That results in pleasant sensations in your body... That trigger an overly ecstatic chemical reaction.... In your brain.

That's not a fantasy. That's a very real mind-body feedback loop. That builds very real neural connections. That is conditioning your body to respond in a certain way to specific things your brain sees.

FFS how are they missing the point that a fantasy resides only in the head. As soon as it includes sexual stimulation, it's not fantasy, it's condition training.

anotherdamnloser · 2021-05-03T22:13:48+00:00

If you fantasize about raping teens that is not some normal persons fantasy.

lunarfulminate · 2021-05-03T20:10:41+00:00

This girl's father is training himself to get sexually aroused and gratified by the idea of raping his own daughter, and scrotes and pickmes see nothing wrong with it. Disgusting.

SlightlyCapsized · 2021-05-04T00:18:12+00:00

I've mentioned this before...watch serial killer crime shows. Every other "kink" is a thing these murderers did to to their victims.

Many people lack empathy and only understand why something is dangerous or wrong if they can imagine it happening to them.

Have the person arguing with you imagine if they would like to be one of the victims and they'll change their minds.

modernmedusaa · 2021-05-04T02:32:36+00:00

I honestly hate this generation of corny sex addicted internet freaks. You just have no idea what you’re meeting off a dating app these days. Could appear Mr Nice but have a history full of rape porn 🤮 or be the town bike pick up artist...and Pickmeisha is inviting this man into her home around her kids.

Like these men just spend all their waking hours cheating & frothing over teen porn whilst crying about the ‘fall of traditional western women’ on Reddit. How pathetic & ironic . How did we allow society to become so pathetic?

Because men are in charge and they have no intention to do what’s best for society & come down on the porn industry. Men are too ruled by their porn fried dicks to lead in 2021. They don’t care about the safety of girls, women & mothers- or protecting us. So why should we show them respect? Why should we lower our safety threshold to give them a chance?

How is a man with a history of rape teen porn capable of seeing you as a full human or becoming a respectful father? 🤮🤮🤮🤮 and they have the audacity to act like some prize. LOL bye!!

allergictoscrotes · 2021-05-04T04:04:49+00:00

It’s even worse than that. She shared on one tik tok that she was raped by a black man relatively recently, and among her dad’s search results she found many specifically looking for videos of black men raping white girls. He’s literally jacking himself off to the thought out his fifteen years old daughter’s rape, and people really wanna act like calling that disgusting behavior out is “kink shaming.” Luckily she fully understands that it’s wrong and told him she never wants to see him again.

esthermaniii · 2021-05-04T01:32:46+00:00

I saw this TikTok and I just wanted to vomit. Our society is getting worse by the day because of porn. There’s absolutely nothing normal about a father doing that & he probably wanted her to find his search history. Men usually act on their fantasies so this very scary!!! I would cut my father off and never speak to him again if I were her.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-05-03T21:56:22+00:00

I remember as a teenager I tried to see if my dad watched anything like that and thankfully he didnt. Its so beyond disgusting and I wouldve been beyond traumatized knowing my dad watched that and wouldve done anything to avoid him after that.

AngryBees88 · 2021-05-04T03:05:27+00:00

Truth. Men's "kinks" today are yesterday's serial killer files. People used to be horrified by sexual torture, imagine that. I will shame any man who gets off on hurting a woman. It's pathological and twisted and hateful.

liberty_5-30000 · 2021-05-03T23:01:28+00:00

From my son and husband. That is NOT normal in fact it crossing the line into sickness.

Who ever think this is an ok fantasy is just as sick as those looking it up.

Maingurl · 2021-05-04T04:32:04+00:00

It's a beautiful day to kink shame! Am I right ladies?

ThrowawayKITTY777 · 2021-05-04T01:50:06+00:00

Yes PLEASE

Although I wish we could call it ABUSEshaming instead because that's what people who question kink are doing. They aren't shaming others who have been abused, they're pointing out to others that they ARE being abused and mistreated. They are intending to shame the people who ABUSE others and cover it up by calling it "kink", not the victims of the abuse.

I'm not "shaming" anybody when I ask them to be honest, do they really LIKE being choked and slapped or do they only do it out of coercion and fear?

The answer I always get is people eventually (after some pushing) will end up admitting that choking, hitting and other "kink" sexual activities makes them uncomfortable, hurts them or scares them, brings them NO pleasure.... but they're afraid their partner will be angry or leave them if they don't comply.

( I've heard this from men as well as women )

I'm not shaming, but I am putting a spotlight on the fact that no matter what trendy term the abuser labels their behavior as... it IS abuse.

I'm sickened by how normalized kink has become. Being on the sidelines of the BDSM scene for 17+ years I've seen it go from secret private parties, to public event nights to.... now it's right out in the open and EVERYWHERE. And that's a BAD thing.

The Oxford dictionary defines kink as : a person's unusual sexual preference.

Key word UNUSUAL

This is NOT normal, and it should not be as common as it is.

slayeroftruth · 2021-05-04T01:58:08+00:00

Porn is not fantasy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLWgGdFEC-8

bringtwizzlers · 2021-05-04T07:38:05+00:00

Combination of porn addiction + oversexualization in our culture + numbness that comes from it. In other words, men are needing more and more vile, deranged things in order to get off because everything has become so normalized, and in their mind, "boring."

I legitimately have no hope for men. It's just going to get worse with every generation living more and more online.

Intelligent_Cut7135 · 2021-05-04T04:35:34+00:00

Kink shaming is my kink

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-05-04T01:29:35+00:00

She's scarred for life. Doubly so if she doesn't even know she's been scarred.

Jingoboi · 2021-05-04T02:05:48+00:00

If it's "only a fantasy" then by that same logic isn't it only a fantasy to watch beastiality, CP and rape porn?

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-04T09:07:16+00:00

I saw that one. Only light is: Those commentors got banned. The most upvoted comments all kinkshamed, and I am here for it. Let us bring kinkshaming back. All these sick men deserve to be kinkshamed to straight to hell.

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-05-04T13:20:56+00:00

Wow, they really try to groom a young girl and instill "daddy issues" in her mind, don't they?

bpdweep · 2021-05-04T06:25:55+00:00

I’m disturbed her own father is watching this shit, it just proves how he views his daughter. I hope she’s safe and moves out asap because her father is a pervert and I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s done things to groom her or wants to.

ALISHAISHERE123 · 2021-05-03T22:42:53+00:00

Dr Todd Grandes new vid just defended kinksters as harmless. This guy makes perfectly sensible vids describing how dangerous sadistic personality disorders( describing their sick sexualities as well), NPD( involving how their sexual fantasies are often of dominance and dehumanisation), psychopathy(again talks of their sick sexual desires of hurting people) are, but apparently it's something different when BDSM practitioners harbour the desires and traits? No red flags when a dude gets off to beating ,enslaving, torturing women and children???

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worriedrenterTW · 2021-05-04T22:54:53+00:00

If it makes you guys feel better, she's moved away from him, so she's safe.

Title	We need more kink shaming
Author	Sober4good
Upvotes	1226
Comments	107
Date	May 3, 2021 6:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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