Ideal dating location

AntifaSuperSwoledier · 2021-07-15T19:27:52+00:00

I live in Western Europe and have lived in Eastern Europe. If you're having trouble dating in the USA it won't be easier for you in Europe. Fewer obese people means greater competition. Depending on where you are people are taller on average. Men who are angry about promiscuity, feminism, egalitarianism are going to be very disappointed that they are more normalized here.

Since RP stuff covaries with being a USA style conservative be aware that everywhere except for rural areas you'll be viewed negatively for your political beliefs, even by moderate-right leaning people. People, especially young people, will immediately dip out on you if a phrase line "traditional gender roles" comes out of your mouth.

Language is a barrier that will hinder you. Especially if you rely on "game."

There is still in-group and familiarity bias that will be strong enough in some people that they just won't want to date a foreigner, or will prefer to date locally all things being equal. In an large urban area this is why expats/immigrants cluster up together. Your actual dating pool may end up like that.

milkyymochii · 2021-07-15T19:59:37+00:00

Somewhere with less white men and more asian men

Puzzleheaded_Bet7294 · 2021-07-15T19:05:43+00:00

Somewhere Mediterranean, Spain-France-Italy maybe also some places in the Balkans, Greece. Quite a few decent looking dudes, people don't bitch about smoking, nice wine, seaside

GYN-k4H-Q3z-75B · 2021-07-15T19:04:34+00:00

Western Europe

not as wack as dating in the US

Yeah... about that... I think you'd be disappointed. It may not be quite as crazy just yet, but it's not far behind.

TheDevilPutD · 2021-07-15T18:55:08+00:00

NYC - more single women than men, aggressive, hot girls and new hot girls move in literally every day.

Anantha1996 · 2021-07-15T18:42:09+00:00

Western Europe is great for casual dating but if you are looking for something long term, you are at a sub optimal place.

reluctantly_red · 2021-07-15T19:01:26+00:00

I'm in Las Vegas for the next few days. I'm surrounded by scantily clothed fat women. Doesn't get any better than this!

souredskittles · 2021-07-15T18:41:20+00:00

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DisastrousSundae · 2021-07-15T19:08:51+00:00

I'm a dark-skinned black woman, and I've received much more attention from men in Italy and other places in Europe. In the U.S. I am basically invisible to all men unless I go to black neighborhoods. Dark-skinned black women are universally undesirable in the US, so I've considered going back to Europe to look for a mate if I ever change my mind about being in a relationship again. They seem more traditional than what I'm used to, but depending on the man and his family not being racist, I could compromise.

MrShitPost123 · 2021-07-15T18:39:06+00:00

Eastern Europe and it's not even close:
1) women outnumber men
2) local purchasing power is low so you can instantly become wealthy just by moving which will dramatically increase your chances

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2021-07-16T00:36:10+00:00

I've been all over the USA and out of the country multiple times. I'd still pick the East Coast of USA. 😎🤘 Wouldn't live anywhere else. Plus I need change of seasons. Couldn't give up Winter/Fall fashion.

SoMuchForLongevity · 2021-07-15T18:26:03+00:00

I think you'd just be looking for somewhere that doesn't have an adversarial culture where people are at each others' throats all the time.

Australia and New Zealand seem like good candidates from where I'm sitting.

Bandit174 · 2021-07-15T19:17:00+00:00

I love these questions. Whenever someone goes "I think women from country a are better for x reason" or "dating in country b would be easier for men because x,y,z" someone always chimes in and says "dude, you're delusional if you think women from that country are x" or "the women from there are even worse than western women..." ect 🤣

The consensus seems to be that dating sucks everywhere.🤔

TomorrowsWar · 2021-07-15T20:03:55+00:00

The ideal dating location for me is in the gym lollll

But more seriously I am a sucker for guys on the east coast who lean left and aren’t religious. I like guys from Canada a lot especially hockey players. men from Greece are fun to hang out with but they move so fast and are politically complicated lol but they’re extremely passionate. If you don’t do something with him the first night you’ll prob never see him again lol. I’m gonna cave to a Greek guy one day probably. French guys are fun but very in it for the sex too. New zealand has some hotties but it far away and they like to live there so you’d have to move. California has a nice selection too

Dating in Paris and Amsterdam sounds like a lot of fun based on what my friends have told me. They’re just as diverse as American cities so you’ll find a lot of different cultures and different kind of guys.

The south and most of the Midwest is for the birds and reserved for religious friendly people

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-07-15T19:14:22+00:00

The Pacific Northwest. Vibe way better with the people here than any other place.

peachycreaam · 2021-07-15T19:42:00+00:00

I guess California or Texas. It’s naturally beautiful and warm there but is a first world country and there are lots of fine Mexican guys and cute blond white men in those parts.

LowCreddit · 2021-07-15T20:01:11+00:00

Anywhere partner dancing still exists. Right now that is the South as well as Central and South America. The replacement of partner dancing with rap's dry humping and edm's solo dancing killed dating at least as hard as OLD.

simeneta_two · 2021-07-15T20:32:32+00:00

I love living in the PNW but if I moved I'd go with Australia or NZ. Both those countries seem to have a lot of really hot men

SnooSprouts1580 · 2021-07-15T21:41:45+00:00

Any city with an Ikea. Then do the 1st date at Ikea

Notsonewguy7 · 2021-07-15T21:49:53+00:00

If I was more Religious I would say Israel. But for now I like where I'm at so NYC, New Jersey, Long Island.

Alot Jewish🌹, Black 🏵️, and Hispanic 🌷 people to date. In high concentration not overly spread out.

Kosher soul food with plantains.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-07-15T21:56:33+00:00

I live in Chicago, great dating City, my favorite City just for hooking up as far as America goes is definitely Miami though like hot damn , if you got your shit together after a week there you're damn near going to be tired of using your dick😂😂😂, and while I do speak German I've never been in Germany long-term enough to actually scope the true dating scene

YMaedchen · 2021-07-15T22:06:29+00:00

I like the Mediterranean look on men the most.

goneaway2thewind · 2021-07-15T23:21:16+00:00

I'm going to do my masters in England once the pandemic blows over. If I'm gonna put up with bitching and shit tests it'll at least be in a elegant accent.

anglophobe44 · 2021-07-16T12:04:12+00:00

Southern Europe, the Balkans, Central Europe are all good. Russia was probably my favourite place to date. Women generally don't put out before dating for at least a couple of months (obviously there are exceptions) and the concept of having to have a "talk about whether we're exclusive" would be unthinkable to most Russian women and men.

Women are also highly educated and more likely to have STEM degrees in my experience, especially in the Baltic countries.

Good sense of group identity, without seeming completely racially alien to me like East Asians are, and I don't want the hassle of having mixed children (no offense).

poppy_blu · 2021-07-16T21:08:02+00:00

I’ve said this before but if you’re a professional black woman in the Us looking to date professional balck men, there are only 3 cities you should live in: DC, Atlanta or NY. Nowhere else.

Elevatedheart · 2021-07-15T19:14:49+00:00

Are you talking about bringing a European woman over to America or moving to Europe yourself?

TrueCenterRealist · 2021-07-15T18:43:40+00:00

Whoever still normalizes dudes with 8 wives

Soon-to-be-Catlady · 2021-07-15T20:06:43+00:00

I liked dating in Germany and I was very close to move back soon just for that. But now I found myself a Scottish man (after almost three years of living here).

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-07-15T18:26:04+00:00

California for me, tons of hotties out there...

yungthrowaway97 · 2021-07-15T20:14:19+00:00

For dating Bali, Korea, Shanghai beautiful dark hair and eyes women. More skinny body types. Generally faces look way more feminine. Physically most attractive 100 percent.

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TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-15T19:46:45+00:00

Depends on what type of guys/girls you like:

White, Black, Latin, Asian.

skunkbear444 · 2021-07-15T20:48:59+00:00

For sex:

Tons of money (mansion, pool, estate, dope cars) - Hollywood Hills

Ton of money - Manhattan

Nice money - Miami

Normal money - Bogota / Medellin Colombia, somewhere in Poland

For relationships:

Probably a city in the Midwest or somewhere in North Carolina where people have that kind down to earth feeling.

Mexico tends to have a lot of relationship and family oriented girls. Somewhere in Sinaloa or Guadalajara.

Women I find consistently go with a handful of places: Australia, South European men (Spain, Italy, France, Greece), California, Texas. Pretty much places with men that are usually tall or normal height on average, athletic, stylish, and aggressively hit on women. There is a handful of women really into English guys for their accent or German guys for the tall blonde blue eyed (including lots of Latinas from Latin America) look.

Historical-Agency334 · 2021-07-15T21:00:01+00:00

probably south Asia or Africa because im tall and I would tower over everyone there and being light skinned is looked upon favorably in those parts of the world so basically women would be more interested in me than they are in my home country

Cedo_Alteram · 2021-07-16T00:36:17+00:00

Are we assuming we're omnilingual? If so, probably Japan. If not, I'm going to be restricted to commonwealth countries so probably UK or Australia?

mimblezimble · 2021-07-16T03:07:10+00:00

I left the EU and moved to SE Asia.

Women who look for hedonistic fun are completely different beasts from women who basically want a provider.

Women who believe that religious law actually matters, are completely different beasts from woke feminists who are essentially atheists, even if they often pay lip service to superficial elements of Christianity.

Guess who is the most likely to have a triple-digit body count? Do you really want to date there?

BruddaMSK · 2021-07-16T11:48:33+00:00

Probably Combodia. I've recently seen yet another penis size map and it was the last in the rating. Maybe my thingy won't be so small there. Still below average but not so much.

AbaloneSilent5810 · 2021-07-18T19:14:01+00:00

if you are white come to India or similar south asian countries..

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-07-15T23:43:29+00:00

Shit, aint nowhere I'd rather be than the land of the free and home of the brave, no matter how many flaws we have, the best, highest producing, freest country in the world.

The fact that someone's allowed to shit on the country shows how amazing it is

AtaCome7821 · 2021-07-15T19:28:43+00:00

Southern Africa, where I'm at. Hot women that outnumber men(they really do outnumber men here not just at old ages)

Title	Ideal dating location
Author	kundalinxi
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Date	July 15, 2021 6:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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