First, let me start by saying that I myself have been promiscuous in the past. Last two years I've been with around 10 women. So I'm not very judgy towards women who also do the same.
On the RedPill, people say that women and men are different in regards to promiscuity. That for men the correlation between amount of sexual partners and divorce rate is low/non-existent. For women there is a significant correlation. Basically, that promiscuous women, at least the ones that haven't changed their mentality in the past 5 years, find it difficult to have long ter relationships.
Speaking for myself, when I'm single I sleep with more women, but if I get to know one that I see myself in a relationship, I can easily switch into "good partner, boyfriend mode" and ignore other girls.
Two give my personal example, I'm seeing two girls right now. One I met on a dating app, really fun to be around, solid 7/10, we're sexually exclusive and getting to know each other but she says she doesn't even want to think about relationships right now, so a major red flag. Her las ex was 2 years ago and since then she's been having casual things. She's not very stable financially and probably not emotionally either.
The other girl I've just been grabing coffee with, isn't as pretty as the first one, 6/10, and we lack connection (less dates, so that's normal), but is very stable and solid, emotionally and financially. Really seems like the solid choice and my friends agree, but my heart says go for the first one... They're both 30.
I don't really have much experience with promiscuous women so I don't know if they can just as easily switch to LTR like I personally can. Anyone could give me their insight on this matter?
Thanks
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No, and neither are men. It takes a lot of soul-searching and really changing as a person to be able to recover from having done all of that so that you are functional in a relationship again. Usually people are promiscuous due to a psychological problem.
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The thing is, most civilized cultures have always upheld monogamy and/or sex only within marriage as an ideal for both sexes. And this is coincidentally how both men and women are at their happiest. Cultures that have not had reasonably strict rules about sexual behavior are usually ones that most people would not willingly choose to live in. You can attempt to reduce men to animals by pretending that promiscuous behavior "maximizes their sexual strategy", but I'd be willing to put money on the fact that there are probably not very many men out there who do that and feel genuinely happy and fulfilled. Because at the end of the day, we are not baboons or rabbits and we attach a lot more meaning to sex than we'd like to admit.
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Should people not perhaps learn how to control their body's instincts instead of giving into them, if it'll mean that they're happier in the long run? That is the biggest difference between us and animals. Since we are smart enough to attach meaning to sex, we are also smart enough to figure out when we should give into the impulse or not.
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Eh. I don't think I'm going to change your mind on any of this, and you won't change mine, since we are so... vastly different in our ways of thinking.
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No one said its not possible to be loyal, we're just saying its harder to be loyal. I'm sorry but there is no way you can convince me from a pre-relationship standpoint that someone who has an n-count of 20 compared to 1 that the 20 n-count would be more loyal.
Sex to the person with a n-count of 1 would be the more reliable choice, because it shows that sex is important to them and they do not take it lightly. Not saying the person with 20 can't be loyal, but it also has to be with the right person
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You're out of your mind. These correlations have been done AFTER accounting for literally everything else. More partners a woman has = more likelihood of relationship ending prematurely. End of story.
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That is not what an ecological fallacy is...Jesus Christ. But you keep doing you, I guess.
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Congratulations. You are...still wrong. Please don't use fancy terminology that you don't actually understand.
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