CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020

applestorm · 2020-08-01T14:07:40+00:00

Men will always tell on themselves, you just need to pay attention to their "jokes".

Pahapan · 2020-08-01T16:22:21+00:00

My ex was upfront with me the first night we met, said he had two outstanding warrants. One of them was for popping checks and the other was for holding someone at knife point. But he assured me that life was behind him!

He later confessed to me while drunk that he'd killed two men when he was a gangbanger, guys from rival gangs. He told me it ate away at him, knowing he'd robbed them of their lives and crushed their family members. I actually felt sorry for him. Poor little murderer!

But then he later confessed that stabbing one of them to death had been a practically erotic experience for him. He said it'd made him hard. The feeling of each stab stealing a piece of that man's life made him feel indescribably powerful.

In short, he's a psychopath. But women seriously need to stop giving criminals a chance. Who gives a shit if they claim they've changed? It's not worth the risk to yourself. Background check everyone and if they'll admit upfront about a criminal record go ahead and take that as your cue to leave. Even if they're "honest" with you, they probably have more skeletons in their closet.

OrchidLion · 2020-08-01T14:30:34+00:00

This is why I take male "jokes" seriously

VioletRomantic · 2020-08-01T14:47:55+00:00

Can someone give me good reccomendations for how to check people out? I always year about people looking up shady dudes and finding some pretty scary stuff, but i honestly have no idea what sites are legitimate to use and what ones are just going to lead nowhere or are scammy.

waddamelone · 2020-08-01T16:28:26+00:00

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painmakesyoustronger · 2020-08-01T13:50:37+00:00

Always background check!

I do truthfinder. Let me know if you know of a better one.

uselesssdata · 2020-08-01T19:18:47+00:00

Always take those little "jokes" seriously. Always.

It is NEVER just a joke.

nyan_birb · 2020-08-01T14:14:39+00:00

Holy hell... that’s scary af

winky_and_friends · 2020-08-01T15:19:12+00:00

That escalated quickly. 0-murderer within two sentences.

pharmazootical · 2020-08-01T17:01:33+00:00

Ladies! Use an app called “Mr.Number”, you can search their number and it’ll tell you the name it’s registered to, but it also has a comment section— so if that guy gets around, and is a weirdo, you’ll see it pop up as soon as you search.

juliannawackenhat · 2020-08-02T00:28:30+00:00

I showed up on a date once and had only told the guy my first name and my occupation. After the date went decently well, he said, “your last name is wackenhat?” And at first I was freaked out, but he explained that he searched first name + occupation + city in LinkedIn just to make sure nothing crazy came up.

Surprisingly, he was one of the most “normal” men I ever dated. The point is, they do it too.

shrimpcakewithcrust · 2020-08-01T18:33:33+00:00

The RSO sub is sad because when they go on tinder people find out theyre a SO and block them. How sad.

rachallred · 2020-08-01T15:56:44+00:00

I once went out with a guy and he was being shady about his ex so I decided to google him and find out what he was hiding and holy hell the first result was his mugshot. He was caught in a raid during super bowl in Houston soliciting male prostitutes. A good looking seemingly straight guy. Unreal.

happytoll · 2020-08-02T02:56:17+00:00

After coming forward about a serial rapist, a girl who went out with him told me she joked and asked him whether he was going to put something in her drink. He liked the joke a little too much :/ At first it sounded too weird to be true but they do actually enjoy the irony and playing with fire

AotearoaCanuck · 2020-08-02T05:34:46+00:00

I work in justice and A LOT of men “jokingly” tell me not to look them up. 🚩

Chumptopia · 2020-08-01T19:58:20+00:00

An old boyfriend who I hadn't seen in 20 years found me on Facebook. He was pretty much an asshole back in the day and we didn't end on good terms. Fast forward and he tells me he never quit thinking of me and how beautiful and sexy I am, blah blah blah. I google him. Come to find out he had just gotten out of prison on a three year sentence for attempted strangulation on a domestic partner. Pffftt Delete and block.

shhhnunya · 2020-08-02T01:07:14+00:00

Yeah I put in a guys name once and he was a sex offender. I found this out after I already went out with him. 😨

Loveyouguysbut · 2020-08-02T00:49:14+00:00

Gonna post this again - if you’re looking for the original post -it was posted on 9 Jan 2020 - also - some dude tried to blame Emily for getting matched to his murdering comrade. I dunno. If I murdered someone, I wouldn’t go on tinder to advertise myself. Unless it’s self defence. Even then. Nah, even then. It’s not a pro or and enticing attribute.

Invisiblescars_123 · 2020-08-02T09:00:27+00:00

Jesus...I used to think my mom was paranoid by asking me for my date’s phone number and photo. I can now see that it was just an additional layer of security since dating really is dangerous for women. Especially when you have psychos like this running amok on OLD sites.

avakadava · 2020-08-01T18:12:29+00:00

Do you ladies ask for surname before meeting a guy?

BrooklynBabe33 · 2020-08-01T22:09:08+00:00

😳

Thatgl · 2020-08-02T13:04:51+00:00

I once met this guy who I found out (through looking him up) that he was convicted of kidnapping a 14 yo he met online, and in a separate incident was caught buying CP with his crecit card.

Seriously, look people up!

breadvice · 2020-08-01T17:17:23+00:00

Yep. Was talking to this one guy on Hinge who said he was sober. I’m a social drinker but that’s not a deal-breaker in and of itself. Seemed really weird about it though, so I googled him and found multiple DUIs. Oof.

throwitallawaydude_1 · 2020-08-01T19:19:36+00:00

Wouldn’t he be in prison?

giggirltra · 2020-08-02T05:14:47+00:00

Oh shit! I didn’t see that coming!

starry_eyes222 · 2020-08-02T07:50:26+00:00

At least he was honest....all jokes aside, scary and good you found out so you could run.

peanut-butter-vibes · 2020-08-03T07:27:03+00:00

Back in my 🤡 days, the morning after I slept with a dude I decided to google his full name (he told me his last name the night before). Turns out he lied about his age and he had two mugshots on Google!

karebearkilla79 · 2020-08-01T22:17:14+00:00

😂😂

thenew-supreme · 2020-08-01T23:41:50+00:00

😱

YanksyR · 2020-08-02T10:52:25+00:00

Yes girl

afgh1301 · 2020-08-10T02:04:43+00:00

I met a guy on a dating app and eventually met him in person and I told him i didn't want to rush into things but the way he sounded like you could hear it in his voice that he was manipulative and eventually got me to give into going to his house the second time meeting in person and we played video games and had takeout, ended up watching a movie and having sex. The first round he wrote a condom, the second round he didn't and I feel violated....

AphoticEnigma_ · 2022-03-31T00:35:13+00:00

Okay so this thread made me recall a similar “joke” a scrote I was formerly friends with said to me once

Well I took it as a joke at the time because I thought no way is he serious

He asked me “hey ever thought of committing the perfect murder and getting away with it?”

I was like “no lol, have you?”

He replies “yeah i know exactly how id do it and where id bury the body”

sisterofnarcissus · 2020-08-02T10:48:33+00:00

Kinda sounds like something that belongs to r/thathappened

Title	CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020
Author	pascalines
Upvotes	5500
Comments	156
Date	August 1, 2020 1:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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