Ok ladies, for a long time I balked at the “no casual sex” rule. I continued to have casual hook ups. While my partners I chose were always physically attractive and I was lucky enough to almost always experience orgasm, something about it always felt off after. Basically I need advice on how to quit this. I go on dates frequently and almost always end up sleeping with them. I hate how little self control I have, although I know it’s stopping me from meeting a proper man. The issue is that I really enjoy having sex and feel tempted. I think it’s mostly validation or FOMO maybe but I’m sick of it. I realized that I’ve been acting this way for 10 years, since I lost my virginity! I’ve had serious relationships throughout but have had many hook ups between. Neither the relationships or the hook ups are satisfying anymore. So i need to know, does anyone else have this problem? Anyone else been so brainwashed by sex posi culture that you can’t even comprehend making a man wait???