So, I've mentioned numerous times how I've been dating this Amazing guy. He's had all the HVM traits we search for when we vet and is exceptionally great. We've been together from almost 2 years now officially and I've known him all my adult life.

He cheated on me.

He's been cheating on me since almost two months now, I.e. apparently made her his girlfriend two months ago. And is on and off cheating on me with the same girl since almost a year. We've been staying in different countries from the last six months and he's supposed to be coming back for his brother's wedding. I called him today, heard this girl's voice in the background. She knew we've been together from years and I considered her a good friend. Anyway, he told me everything. Asked not to mention anything to our friends and family. Told me how I've been with him through thick and thin and he considers me a really great person and wants to stay friends. Lmao yea, not happening. The shittiest part is the language he used told me he took no responsibility for it.

'I don't know how this happened' 'She came onto me' 'She told people she's my girlfriend' 'I was feeling lonely'

He even bought up trust issues that he has. Like sir, you effing cheated on me and you have trust issues. I've been on a break from my uni and I was going to shift to a uni close to him because he didn't want to spend too much money flying to and back (His idea, not mine) and I almost gave in.

I feel like an idiot. And this guy had every single HVM trait we look for, every single one. I've always been someone who continuously vets out people, relationship or no relationship. And he did this or maybe I was too happy to notice any red flags that he may have had displayed or maybe it was the different countries.

I've already blocked and deleted him. I'm not going to be going to his brother's wedding, while I adore his family. I don't think I'm at a mental capacity to do this. I don't know why I'm writing this here but I need to rant.