N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

BrainMarshal · 2024-09-07T04:31:10+00:00

A woman with a high N count is an immense power differential compared to the man she's dating. It is an ever present reminder that he's just a number and could easily be discarded.

It's understandable that men don't want that Sword of Damocles over their head. Statistics bear out this fear as high partner counts coincide with relationship instability.

But the same is true of men with high N-counts.

SerpentCypher · 2024-09-06T08:57:20+00:00

"If men stopped shaming women about N count. We would be able to have more casual sex and more men would be able to get validation and it would make everybody a lot happier."

Just saw words to this affect in one of the main threads.

Lmao. No it would not make "everybody" happier. Chad having even more casual sex than he already is, does nothing for all the other men. Certainly not the men who care about N count.

Proudvow · 2024-09-06T03:32:52+00:00

Guy: "How to find casual sex?"

Women: "You have to be atttactive. You're not entitled to sex for existing."

Guy: "Oh well. So then how do I find non-casual sex having women to seriously date?"

Women: >:(

Ansuveren777 · 2024-09-04T01:03:43+00:00

I'm sick of the people around me. I have to develop a more socially successful and instrumental approach to my life so that I'm not bothered by the intensifying decay and social dysfunction that permeates through our society. I have made a blood donation a few months ago, but now I regret it. I need to get my health back in order, I've got a few kilos to lose.

Bandit174 · 2024-09-02T22:54:14+00:00

Just saw another post on r/Dating where a woman is posting about how she wants to lose her virginity to a fwbs who is a lot more experienced than her.

It highlights how full of shit ppd women are when they try to claim a guy needs to have a low n count in order to want/get a low n woman. If anything the promiscuous guys have the best odds of getting to date a virgin or low n woman.

abaxeron · 2024-09-02T06:53:48+00:00

As it's somewhat relevant to the thread's topic...

If this summer has taught me anything at all, it's that no tradwife sundress will ever look good with visible tattoos on a 30+ woman.

Higher_Standard548 · 2024-09-02T01:10:08+00:00

Honestly date whoever you want, as long as you re not hypocritical anyone who gets butthurt about it is just showing how much their insecurities got triggered.

Dating is inherently selfish and discriminatory and im sure all those who rash out of their ass about how problematic caring about n count is the moment it is brought wouldnt compromise on the things that they dont want, so why should you? Just look at how many women, including those ultra pro-gross-ive "the past is the past sexually liberated women can do with their bodies as they please" who have slept around, would reject a man just for being easy to get, having hired prostitutes or for having had same sex experiences in the past, specifically cuz they find the though of a man hooking up with another man gross and undesirable, lmao lets just throw their own shit back at them and call them homophobes, bigoted, regressive and sex negative for their preferences mkay?, if they dont bend over when they are the ones who have to compromise why should you?

saraimarsena · 2024-09-01T18:58:47+00:00

my relationship is a total n count mismatch , 11 and 2

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-09-01T16:49:12+00:00

Q4A: At what N count would you say someone (male man or female women let’s be equal here) has officially become a sloot?

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2024-09-01T15:28:51+00:00

Hi friends!

Can someone explain to me why worrying about n-count and considering intimacy a special activity is bad?

And also... Why is it bad to feel insecure and not want your partner to compare you to someone from his past?

Alfred-Adler · 2024-09-01T15:10:41+00:00

This is my opinion:

Body count is stupid.
Nothing good ever came out from a body count discussion in any type of relationship, especially if someone is looking for a serious relationship, and if it's not a serious relationship, it really doesn't matter.

So, don't ask don't tell is the best strategy IMO. It worked for me when I was single, and I am now happily married to a great woman.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-09-01T13:53:08+00:00

As a 22yo 0-N female woman with an unhealthy (<19) BMI, what tier of men should I aim for?

YouHateTheMost · 2024-09-01T07:36:10+00:00

Lads of PPD, is there a middle ground between pure, undefiled, devoted virgins and nasty, high count, cheating sluts?

Vernon_Mansae · 2024-09-01T02:49:40+00:00

It's true

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=jL1l9ZtGC2w

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-01T01:21:11+00:00

High bodycount women give me the ick 🤢

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2024-09-01T00:41:57+00:00

Maybe I should just mess around here for now but go overseas to find a wife when I'm ready, I doubt I'll find a virgin here and so I don't intend to ever settle down with the women I talk to.

Objective_Wing1229 · 2024-08-31T20:36:39+00:00

What’s the female equivalent ick to men getting the Ick about women with high n-counts ?

Parking_Skin4863 · 2024-08-31T19:49:03+00:00

I remember a while back, the phrase “men will fuck anything” was trending, and there are quite a tew women online that still love sharing the same views.

But for some reason, in the minds of these women, this universally observable phenomenon of men lowering their standards for casual sex only applies when men are having sex with other women, not them.

I don’t think l’ve actually seen a single one of these women who say these things acknowledge that if they’ve had casual sex that they likely were, a man’s best option at the time, not his first choice.

It’s why a lot of them will complain that they were used for sex, that they’re in a situationship, that the guy won’t commit etc. because the man is “dating down”.

into_devoid · 2024-08-31T18:32:36+00:00

I’ll post this here for reference.

A person who has had more casual sex is statistically more likely to continue seeking out that behavior after “settling” down. There are exceptions, but this only makes logical sense. People don’t easily change over time. Their choices ARE them, even if in the past. Divorce rate and n-count have been correlated in numerous studies (the validly of which I have not verified). Studies have found the link applies to both sexes equally.
Creative people have active imaginations and OCD is common in intelligent people. Combine the two and images of your partner being intimate with someone else can be a feeling similar to being cheated on daily. This is not necessarily a personality defect.
In terms of selected traits, you’re more likely to be here if your father was more selective of low n-count. This was beneficial enough to become an instinct. Lions kill foreign cubs, dogs will continue trying to have sex if there is competition that has already succeed. The strength of the sex drive itself might be linked to this. If you’re not selective with your partner, you risk not propagating your genetics.
Sex is a much larger risk for women in terms of pregnancy and disease. Men are 9x less likely to contract HIV for example. Casual sex can be viewed as a lack of judgment and self-control. Many times this points to alcohol and substance abuse since you’re more likely to engage in these acts under the influence.
The field of epigenetics is just beginning to be understood, much less so in humans. Research on flies shows that contact with sperm in juvenile flies passes on those traits even after conception by the genetic father. This was tested by mating not yet fertile females with larger flies, then mating them with smaller flies. The offspring were larger. This is unsettling, and hopefully doesn’t apply to humans. But it might. Male Y-chromosomes are found floating in the female bloodstream with origins unknown. The only link determined so far is being pregnant with a male fetus. X-chromosomes are likely doing the same, but have not been filtered from the mother by experiments yet. Sex is the key to existence as a human, for better or worse. Millions of years of evolution can devise some nasty tricks to pass on traits. We do not know or understand them all.
Sex is important, point blank. We have technology to hide this fact physically, but mentally it still applies. If you disconnect sex from the security of relationships, you’re more likely to be a sociopath or a hedonist. You can treat is as a fun activity, but 100 years ago you would have been pregnant with children. This doesn’t portend well to your ancestors having been the most fit, just the first. If/when the world begins to collapse, and our technology (condoms, medical facilities, etc..) is no longer produced due to extreme circumstances, your future extended family will be less likely to pass on their genes if they all inherit these less restrictive selection personalities. You might be sacrificing your future parentage for today’s fun. This may or may not matter to you, and maybe the world stops spinning when you’re dead, who knows..
Exclusive relationships are a mild form of possession at their core. A natural extension of that is n-count and retroactive jealousy. This is a natural human response.
It’s ok to have preferences. You can’t shame someone into accepting your past, not genuinely anyway. It’s ok to want to be the best someone has ever had and vice versa. This is not a relic of insecurity, just statistics. Are you more likely to be the best of 50 or 5? Meth addicts commonly state that the things they used to do on meth give them no joy any longer. Your exposure to intense experiences doesn’t necessarily make you more complete, but could make your emotions muted.

Men don’t necessarily walk around worrying about passing on their genes at the forefront of their thoughts. It is, however, an evolved feature. Call it selfish if you will, but wanting a small piece of what made you and your relationship special to continue on after you die is a beautiful thought. There is value in certainty.

attendquoi · 2024-08-31T18:24:02+00:00

Question for the men who don't like sluts: do you believe that if the sluts weren't sluts, they'd pick you?

cautious_hearts · 2024-08-31T17:55:53+00:00

I’m a virgin. ama?

attendquoi · 2024-08-31T16:55:19+00:00

Anyone else here an average/ above average looking man and look back and realise that if you hadn’t have been mentally ill, you’re body count would have been more than 1 at 24/ whatever age you are 💀

I had some some cool women show interest but I am so mentally ill ( ADHD/ depression/ anxiety/ body dismorphic disorder) that I very rarely have the headspace to be able to reciprocate interest

MoshiMoshi78 · 2024-08-31T16:45:03+00:00

I'm gonna be a little rude to all of you lovely PPD men but I will say this: if you want a low n-count woman be prepared to face the possible consequences: aka, low libido and not much adventurous sex. Of course, not all low n-count women are like that, but I have a feeling we have a different opinion on what "low" means. If you want a mid twenties virgin it's possible she is that way because of religious reasons or just little interest in sex in general.

It's quite rare you're gonna get a BDSM, anal nympho who loves to deepthroat your dick if she's a virgin 😂😂😂😂😂

FirmQuarter6623 · 2024-08-31T16:22:29+00:00

Women with 2 digit bodycount are trash and belong to streets.

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