N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

RetiredGambler_ · 2024-10-06T03:34:23+00:00

Why are mods allowed to give their opinions on this subreddit?

It's a debate sub. Moderators should be neutral.

Key-Fault9075 · 2024-10-05T00:20:19+00:00

What kind of jobs/professions are less limiting for an extremely ugly/disfigured person?

asexualgolddigger · 2024-09-29T02:28:05+00:00

Being a woman is annoying. Every guy wants to fuck you! 🙄

LostWanderer88 · 2024-10-07T08:52:44+00:00

I just had a Nice Guy moment today

Me, trying to help everybody in a group. Trying to be nice for long. Sometimes on the spot and kinda a bit of a clown

Another man being a decent person from the beginning. Not a bad person, not very extroverted either

We both have been absent these days. Sometimes because the flu

Guess who receives more fulfilling concerns and interactions about wishing to get well and so on

I wish I could just hit a switch button and change my absurd personality forever

ThatBitchA · 2024-10-04T18:26:04+00:00

Men keep saying that a "promiscuous woman" brings down another man's value.

But how do you know?

These dudes make it sound like women wear scarlet letters.

They make it sound like they are out in the streets with a clipboard marking down every man with a promiscuous woman.

It's just hard for me to believe that a promiscuous woman brings down any man's "value".

GridReXX · 2024-10-04T12:45:23+00:00

A man being honest about his innate feels.

Men prefer promiscuous women for short term relationships but not for long term relationships. An evolved fear about paternity uncertainty is one of the reasons for that.

Then you have to look at the act of penetrative sex itself. In principle, you have one active partner doing the penetration and one passive partner receiving it. The active partner has agency but the passive partner is more like an object that’s being used. An object gets dirtied when being used and loses value.

That’s why men don’t like it when a woman had sex with many men but don’t care as much when she had sex with a lot of women. Lesbian sex doesn’t taint a woman the same way as sex with a man does.

Women also don’t like bisexual men, especially when they play the bottom role. Similar reason.

The English language reflects this viewpoint. ‘Being fucked/getting fucked’ when used in a nonsexual context has still a negative connotation.

Lastly, you have to look at the effect on social status. Men are in a constant competition with each other for higher social status.

Being in a LTR with a low value woman also drops your own status. That’s why men prefer women from a similar socioeconomic class for LTRs. It’s the same for a woman who’s low value because she’s heavily ‘used’.

A woman’s value also degrades with age. If another man used her younger self, he’s winning.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-10-03T20:59:31+00:00

Hoes are over represented in online dating because when presented with the chance to punch up, women fundamentally can't resist. However those men generally won't commit when punching that far down.

systematicdissonance · 2024-10-03T19:20:28+00:00

The only way for women to ascend and not be stained by the XY factor is to die virgins

penelopeofusa · 2024-10-03T15:57:28+00:00

I’m gonna add one to my massive n count tonight 🤤

Able_Meeting_7534 · 2024-10-03T10:59:44+00:00

If relationship history doesn't matter, have you noticed that 100% of divorced women were in a marriage at some point? Checkmate atheists.

ThatBitchA · 2024-10-03T00:33:51+00:00

Okay, so promiscuous women exist, some of you aren't interested in them.

What now? What should these promiscuous women do next if they aren't desired by some of the men here?

What do you expect to happen to promiscuous women?

If they are so easy to spot, why not avoid them?

Key-Fault9075 · 2024-10-02T18:27:56+00:00

Do you think prime Selena Gomez's face is ugly? Its interesting that we women find her gorgeous but men find her ugly

obviousredflag · 2024-10-02T16:22:28+00:00

We would have less discussions about n counts if people understood sociosexuality.

systematicdissonance · 2024-10-02T15:33:46+00:00

Me with a Valid reason for wanting a low N man: I'd like to be with a guy who has no experience as it reminds me of myself and I relate to him better and we can be on the same grounds when it comes to romantic prospects, it's not that I mind a different type of guy but I find this particular theme alluring in itself

Man who's been with 9999999+ women he trashed to the side: uhm uuuh I wamt low body woman because I objectify women, the word has lost sense This days because it gets used almost for everything but trust me what I'm doing is the purest form of objectification I don't even consider them human and I think me and other men have the power to downgrade them by just being with them, I derive pleasure while the women I've been with become dumpsters, virgin women are totally safe with me and should date/marry me

New-Western-4819 · 2024-10-01T16:55:21+00:00

i just wanted to tell ya'll that none of you actually know what retroactive jealousy is. finding out your girlfriend was in gangbang porn and feeling grossed out is not retroactive jealousy. retroactive jealousy is an abnormal preoccupation with your current partner's ex, it's actual jealousy and not just disgust, it takes over your life, and most of the people on the retroactive jealousy subreddit are women obsessed with their boyfriend's ex gf. it's more common among people with obsessive compulsive disorder, it's not what you guys think it is. it's like an actual mental health problem where you are abnormally preoccupied with shit that is not actually important, it's not about "i settled for a slutty woman and resent the shit out of her" like. tf. that's not jealousy

ColbyXXXX · 2024-10-01T13:11:32+00:00

Body count matters 100%. The person I was before casual sex and after is vastly different. I don’t care about so many things since I started having sex casually. My girl wants to not have sex with me? I don’t care because I know I could get sex as good or better just by messaging someone. When I think about how much easier this thinking is for women I know that the mindset of a woman who has had lots of casual sex and one who hasn’t is different.

I don’t think women with body counts are bad people or disgusting but people should definitely be aware of the differences in dating someone who has been out here vs someone who hasn’t.

systematicdissonance · 2024-10-01T09:05:45+00:00

I don't think I could possibly explain the visceral disgust I have towards men who demand women with little or no N count, while not being of the same calibre. But I'll try

They will say "men and women are different" and that "it's not hypocrisy". But it's not about that

For starters, the men doing that are self-reporting, they indirectly admit to their vile behavior, that they look down on the women they are with, that they defile them and that women associating with them equals getting dirtied. Why would you want to be with someone like that?

Secondly it's purposeless, there's no reason for a virgin woman to be with someone like that, a woman like that has a completely different approach to relationships, something she can't have with someone who downgrades others and strips them of their value, then turns around and seeks that sort of women as nothing more than a status symbol after his nefarious indulgence.

At least incels, low count men can pull the lifestyles/mindset card

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-30T16:12:35+00:00

The competition with other men before is really odd.

Like if I had a casual hookup with Tony and a relationship with Bucky and a casual hookup turned relationship with Steve.

Some men seem to want to exact same treatment as Tony but the same outcome as Steve.

If you want the same casual hookup experience, you'll get that. And just that. Nothing more, just the sex.

Truly though, I think most men here want a relationship, but they'll settle sex and continue to be unfulfilled.

one_ball_policy · 2024-09-29T20:06:38+00:00

I think the only rational answer to the N count “debate” is everyone is allowed to have their preferences, but it is shitty to shame people. You you ESPECIALLY shouldn’t be shaming peoples who are not involved with you.

Hot take: That includes language that shames men’s sexuality. If you get upset at the term slut but use the word i*cel you’re not a serious person.

waffleznstuff30 · 2024-09-29T18:00:40+00:00

Body count doesn't matter.

It starts to matter less the older you get too. Sex isn't some devaluing experience with someone that you lose your worth and meaning. You don't start squeaky clean and get more tarnished the more you have it. Its just a part of being human sex happens and is part of that whole experience.

If you meet someone wholesome and nice but they still like to fuck does that make them any less wholesome and nice?

It's just one part of the whole picture of someone.

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-29T16:04:01+00:00

I think the funniest thing for me is all the attempted shaming and insulting of promiscuous women.

And then demanding sex from women immediately.

The hypocrisy is so rampant.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-09-29T15:50:32+00:00

Another week, another N-count thread where everyone talks about “numbers” without actually ever using real numbers.

PPD!

Quiet_Firefighter_65 · 2024-09-29T07:32:20+00:00

I think it comes down to fundamentally different preferences. I couldn't imagine having my wedding, looking at the woman I love and will spend the rest of my life with, and know that another man has been inside her.

On the other hand, some of friends can't even fathom why it would be a big deal. I don't think people on the opposite ends of this will ever understand each other.

I mean, I feel the same way about my friend being into particular types of women, what he finds attractive is just fundamentally different.

guys_rock · 2024-09-29T03:35:04+00:00

This whole "n count doesn't matter at all" thing is only something I see on reddit. Most people I know irl have a number that will ick them, men and women.

For me that number is pretty high, I usually prefer high libido experienced women. But reddit is so hostile to n count preferences, it's kind of funny.

Even if the man is being pretty respectful about it, people on reddit will jump down his throat. I guess because of what it implies? I just don't see the difference between that and women not wanting virgin men. It's a compatibility issue for these people.

Vernon_Mansae · 2024-09-29T02:33:51+00:00

For fiftypounds who blocks and runs

Here you go. From a marriage counselor who has spent decades dealing with married couples.

MEN

it's like when they have this you know these early orgasmic experiences it's like their psyche goes whoa what was that and it starts taking pictures you know this is because I want to remember they want her and they imprint off of this and that's why a lot of guys they get stuck here as why a lot of men are constantly even in their marriages are trying to recreate a lust environment

WOMEN

when women have sex outside of marriage nothing happens after sex there's no connection there's no follow-up they imprint on that sex equals nothing sex means nothing that's why so many when married women have such negative attitudes about sex what I was talking about last night how this is such a key thing they don't even comprehend it because they have learned falsely that sex means nothing

Side note: The biggest problem with American women is they can't admit that they are ever wrong.

And for the women complaining about muh hypocrisy. It's not at all hypocrisy. You do not care about buzzing. You care about status, resources, height, and money. Promiscous Women, especially after marriage and children in GENERAL are not interested in consistent sex. Men usually are interested in consistent sex.

And we get that life happens and stressors occurs and inb4 a Blue starts yapping. CONSENT is Everything

But promiscuous women will lie and say they don't want it, after they get the ring and the kid, and use every excuse under the sun. That's why the joke is women's libido killer is wedding cake.

I would love to date a millionaire even though I'm not one.

Women just like being upset because it gives them those emotional Rollercoasters that they need to get through their lives, because we all know women sleep around, date around, and have way more options than the avg guy, and those few guys that do sleep around usually cheat and women actually like those guys in general.

Goonerlouie · 2024-09-29T01:35:12+00:00

Why does n count matter if you’re labelled the best and most meaningful and that they’ve never loved anyone as much as you?

Is it because you don’t believe them? Like statistically what are the chances you’re the best right? Is it the picturing them with someone else that discounts what they’re saying?

I’ve noticed single people treat it as “just sex” and the emotional connection always trumps it. I think you need to be desensitized to casual sex for it to be “just sex” and for those of us not and with low body counts, it’s so much more than “just sex”

Redpill-mind · 2024-09-28T23:40:11+00:00

Thank God for side chicks

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-28T22:35:39+00:00

Hoes: "You're just insecure that you don't measure up or bad at sex"

Also hoes: "We aren't comparing partners"

Lmfaooooo can't even make this shit up. Insane tier gaslighting

Muscletov · 2024-09-28T20:58:07+00:00

Ladies, please.

It's just a preference

prolixdreams · 2024-09-28T18:49:26+00:00

Lukewarm take: its not as attractive as men think for them to have a high count. Makes me think they don’t have very high standards and will just get with anyone who’s willing, so then being into any woman in particular is not much of a compliment to her.

Involved_Currently · 2024-09-28T18:39:43+00:00

At what number would you start lying? At what number would you stop lying?

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-28T18:17:27+00:00

Making hoes mad is my favorite hobby

Bubbly_Pension4020 · 2024-09-28T18:02:06+00:00

This sub is just people raging out at the opposite sex for having standards.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-28T17:59:07+00:00

We need to bring back "Painted whore" as a regular phrase. Some of yall are actually clowns and mimes and shit, this needs to be normalized.

Cunnin_Linguists · 2024-09-28T17:19:28+00:00

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Never marry a hoe

Unless you like flipping a coin to get divorced that is

leosandlattes · 2024-09-28T17:12:44+00:00

Functionally n-count means very little. It’s impossible to know it for sure - sluttiness is more akin to a vibe, always has been and always will be.

ThatBitchA · 2024-09-28T17:00:48+00:00

N counts don't matter.

Men in the real world with actual experience don't care. Most adults presume you've had sex prior to meeting them.

For the men who do care, they only seem to care because they themselves have little to no experience. Or they are entitled hypocrite.

Nobody wants a long-term relationship with a hypocrite.

Some people are willing to teach others with little experience. But that person should be open and willingly without judging the other more experienced person.

Lastly, nobody is comparing past sex partners to current sex partners. Well, maybe the men with little to no experience. Generally, though, people are enjoying the sex they currently have not reminiscing about sex ghosts of the past.

ChromeBadge · 2024-09-28T16:56:18+00:00

No one cares. Everyone lies anyway.

GridReXX · 2024-09-28T16:11:37+00:00

If you’re a man obsessed with n count and virginity:

Step 1: don’t be an unattractive weirdo in high school
Step 2: get a girlfriend in 9th/10th grade
Step 3: marry her at 19

If you’re 29 and missed these steps, it’s over for you. Women aren’t maintaining their “virginity” throughout her 20s just so unattractive men who are obsessed with n count can feel like he won.

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