What would you objectively rate yourself?

prodopro · 2020-01-31T15:48:56+00:00

My looks: 8/10

My personality, social skills, status, looks and everything over all: 2/10

petrichordium · 2020-01-31T16:18:52+00:00

It’s hard because i am a genuinely handsome and attractive TWINK. High masculinity facial ratios with the pretty boy features, good body ratios and... 5’6” and 118 lbs.

This means a HIGHLY niche industry; most median attractiveness women will frequently pass me right by as an immediate primal sex appeal candidate. But i have dated nothing but extremely attractive and demanded women—in part bc i know i PERSONALLY will not be able to maintain conventional hetero attraction to women who are too large or not femme enough for my tiny ass self. Even objectively attractive women.

However if i had accepted a total 1-10 framework and forced myself to compete solely as a commodity, i would be dating some box shaped woman I wasn’t attracted to and might not be attracted to me. i never would have given myself the free reign to explore and FIND a more tailored and uniquely WON/BUILT sense of my value.

I’ll give myself an aggregate 6.9 but I’ve been failing upward through the SMP for decades now

PrincessRapBattles · 2020-01-31T15:49:28+00:00

I’m a 10 to my husband. That’s all that matters.

jacemano · 2020-01-31T15:50:50+00:00

I'm think I'm an 8 at least

anddd I will happily act like I'm the prize no matter what any woman tells me. My arrogance will not be beaten down by you women

It's alright though I get enough attention to back up my self rating.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-31T15:44:46+00:00

FuzzyBwa · 2020-01-31T15:40:22+00:00

I was definitely a fugly ass kid. As an adult I'd rate myself 6-7 in the normal world, 7-8 in my ethnic demographic.

philomexa · 2020-01-31T16:13:29+00:00

7/8 for my peers, 10 in you're into my type. I had odd facial proportions as a kid, puberty evened everything out. I've more or less always been treated as an attractive person, but I'm treated better by certain ethnicities because I fit an ideal or fetish. I've always known how to style and groom, so it was just a matter of my features settling in adult ratios for me to 'glow up'.

Eastuss · 2020-01-31T17:56:57+00:00

3/10

5'5, overweight, generally wide skeleton and some muscles, mixes of decent masculine traits and bellow average masculine traits.

software engineer, INTP, 30 year old

On paper, the classical incel.

In a LTR since a decade with a 6-7/10 gril.

I didn't change much, but getting older definitively improved women's appreciation, and men's base respect for me, even without knowing my age.

Dora_Bowl · 2020-01-31T15:47:48+00:00

NarniaFox · 2020-01-31T15:48:39+00:00

I'd like to get some scale, so I could navigate. The scores idea confuses me.

Edit: Thanks for the scale. I'd say I'm 6-7. I'm not into makeup and spending a lot of time in front of the mirror, so it's just what the mother (nature) gave me. My husband adores me and I can't ask for more. I was 5 as a kid and as teen. I was awkward and too thin. I still look like a teen a bit and some people think that I'm a student, not a teacher, but it doesn't bother me a lot.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-31T15:53:18+00:00

7 at the moment after all the holiday drinking.

8 when I get my summer body back.

wtknight · 2020-01-31T15:59:11+00:00

When I’m in shape I’m probably between a 6 and a 7. I have decent features but I don’t look very rugged. I get more attention from Asian women than ones from other races.

LandOfGreyAndPink · 2020-01-31T16:12:02+00:00

What would I objectively rate myself?

If I'm rating myself, then that's subjective, not objective.

Orange_Paisley · 2020-01-31T16:12:44+00:00

In my teens and 20s, probably a 7 or an 8. In my 30s, a 6 or 7. At 48 maybe a 5, but possibly a 6 or 6.5 strictly compared to other women my age.

2020-01-31T16:25:47+00:00

From ugly ducking to just above-average.

I'd say I used to be a 3 and bumped up to an average of 6 as I aged into a young adult and worked out.

To white women I am probably a 5.

To ethnic women I am probably a 7.

findingfemininity · 2020-01-31T16:34:55+00:00

I've had a couple of guys tell me I'm an 8/10. But I think you have to be into petite, "cute" looking women. Objectively...maybe a 6? Idk it's hard for me to tell. I regularly get compliments from men of all ethnicities BUT I also don't get "Stacy treatment" such as having guys randomly pay for my shit.

I was fugly and weird until my early 20s though 🤷

SpinPlates · 2020-01-31T17:22:13+00:00

6'1 white man. Published male model.

Looking around at the average Joe Schmoe at the Mall I can confidently say I'm a 7-8/10. I've slept with a lot of women, and many have rated me 8 or more. I definitely don't think I'm a 9 or 10.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-01-31T17:42:15+00:00

7-8, but short at 5'11 where I'm at. Most men here who aren't Hispanic are over 6'. Was a cute kid up until acne teenager years, then fortunately that went away.

aint_that_a_bitch_ · 2020-01-31T18:05:29+00:00

I honestly think I'm a 6. But my husband thinks I'm a 10, and that's good enough for me.

41013 · 2020-01-31T18:07:59+00:00

3 when I’m not trying at all

4 if I level up for human interaction/work

5 if I really try and also turn on the charm. That is exhausting, so I obvs don’t do it often

I’m not white, so I don’t know exactly how that affects it; too complicated to speculate.

J_Milton_Jr · 2020-01-31T18:37:27+00:00

8ish or smth

Gerealtor · 2020-01-31T19:15:11+00:00

Wow a disproportionately large part of this sub is quite a bit above average looking... Seems legit

FatmanO · 2020-01-31T18:40:27+00:00

Facially Im a 5, but my height, frame and shoulder width boost me highly.

This is me for anyone corious https://imgur.com/a/bqKjKaD

Edit: Here is another one I found just in case: https://imgur.com/yUfTPSj

TheJim66 · 2020-01-31T16:26:26+00:00

Low 7 probably .Will hit 8 when I get the body I want.

2020-01-31T17:13:50+00:00

8/10.

Feminine doll-like face with big blue eyes and long blonde hair.

Tight petite body, 24 inch waist, 0.7 WHR, with a great ass and perfect tits.

My flaws are chubby cheeks and short legs.

I get told I'm beautiful randomly all the time.

If you're Chinese, I'm a 10.

gimpgirl555 · 2020-01-31T17:14:14+00:00

I've always been attractive.

wub1234 · 2020-01-31T15:48:52+00:00

In my head, most of the time I would consider myself to be mediocre looking, although I will have occasional bad days where I allow negative feelings to cloud my judgement.

But when I go around looking at other people, I realise that I must be well above average for my age. I'm not sure I would feel that way in Miami, but in Britain I do feel that way.

The issue is that we generally compare both ourselves and others to images in the media, not reality.

Lady_Schmoobleydong · 2020-01-31T15:50:49+00:00

I was a cute kid, so so teen with lots of fat and an awkward phase. Still fat, but I look better now than I did in high school. Right now 6.5 seems fair, I have a nice face and a nice ass, but losing weight had been my saving grace. I’m not stupid, the more weight I lose the more that number will go up.

reluctantly_red · 2020-01-31T15:54:55+00:00

Lets assume a normal distribution with the median being 5 and 2s and 8s being two standard deviations below and above the median respectively (i.e. 5th and 95th percentile). If we define the population as all adult men 18 to 65 I'd say I'm about a 6. If we limit the population to only my cohort (i.e. men 50-60) I'm at least an 8.

CatchPhraze · 2020-01-31T16:03:04+00:00

I'm a seven probably. Maybe an eight when I've put the effort in.

LittyKitsune · 2020-01-31T16:08:46+00:00

Not putting out makes me -5 by default so let's go with 1 or 2. 3 when I really try. Mainly for performances. I don't have time for that everyday lol.

yasee · 2020-01-31T16:09:59+00:00

today I will say 6. it swings by like 3 points depending on the day

Karmanger · 2020-01-31T16:52:08+00:00

At my healthiest 8.5/10 I've been told I'm handsome and good looking all my life by my male friends and platonic by Women. Right now it's 6/10 because I'm recovering from an illness that made me lose 40 pounds from 200 so everyone is calling me stick stickly now lol

the-red_woman · 2020-01-31T16:53:15+00:00

Solid 8-8.5 with potential to be a 9 if I were to put in consistent effort.

brokegradstudent_93 · 2020-01-31T17:08:25+00:00

I’m a 7.5-8

RF111164 · 2020-01-31T17:13:01+00:00

lol probably a 7 or an 8 ?

and does this matter? lol

shockedpikachu123 · 2020-01-31T17:46:13+00:00

I’m a 7 I’d say. Symmetrical face. Petite, curvy, 26 inch waist. I look very young. I’m in my late 20s looking like I’m about to turn 20.

I went from ugly and awkward to attractive and awkward.

badgersonice · 2020-01-31T17:46:19+00:00

A 5. Am plain. Even at 20, being thin and wearing cute clothes and makeup didn’t make me a Stacy. At no point have I ever had guys falling all over themselves to tell me I’m beautiful. So I’m obviously not, and never have been, a 7+. But not fat, so 5 is probably right.

nosynobody · 2020-01-31T18:19:19+00:00

Well i would be be a around 7in my ethnic group plus i have an 8 body. Also i am well qualified, articulate etc.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-01-31T18:24:27+00:00

8-9/10 with a little makeup, 7/10 without any makeup. My body is pretty good I think. I only ever got complaints from exes who said they wished I was thicker. I have no desire to be thick. I like being lean— like Melania Trump in her modeling days.

Rufus_Reddit · 2020-01-31T18:43:09+00:00

Can't objectively rate myself.

Barely-moral · 2020-01-31T18:45:32+00:00

Looks 4 if I don't put any effort, 6 if I put every effort. I try to put every effort everyday because there are consequences if I don't.

Personality wise... If I don't put any effort I am closely related to one of those tiny cactuses that some people put as decoration near the windows. If I put any effort I am whatever I need to be because I am used to putting any mask or persona as the situation demmands.

GibsonL6 · 2020-01-31T18:46:07+00:00

2 because I'm obese. If I lost the weight and cleaned up I think I have the potential to be a 5-6 but holy fuck I'm such a lazy loser.

Good personality though because if you're fat and wanna get laid you have to be charming. N-count of 4 tells me I'm doing okay in that regard, although it would be easy mode if I looked better.

NockerJoe · 2020-01-31T19:25:49+00:00

Probably like a 4, 5-6 on a good day. I think I let myself go in the last couple of months. I could probably be like an 8 by summer if I cut and bought some new clothes.

StopTheIncels · 2020-01-31T19:41:42+00:00

I'm hard on myself. A 6. I've been told an 8 a few time, but based off dating maybe a 7 at best.

Kwint86 · 2020-01-31T20:17:27+00:00

At my best? 6-7.

At worst 4-5. Maybe less.

buartha · 2020-01-31T20:25:10+00:00

4-6 depending on how you feel about small, pale Irish men. I'm fairly sure most people would regard me as bland looking but I fit a niche for some and it's not like I need more than one husband so that's fine by me.

QueenCousland86 · 2020-01-31T23:21:27+00:00

I'd give myself a six. I'm cute, not hot, which gives me limited and specific appeal.

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Texastentialism · 2020-01-31T16:08:57+00:00

5-6

Yes I went from ugly to attractive to less attractive now that I'm in my 30s. In my prime I was probably a 7.

kandyapplez · 2020-01-31T17:46:41+00:00

on a global scale im like a 9.999999999

in new york im an 8 lol

Title	What would you objectively rate yourself?
Author	FuzzyBwa
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Date	January 31, 2020 3:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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