Fat women are "plus sized" but fat men are "overweight"

nitzua · 2017-10-08T10:59:25+00:00

why can't an overweight guy date a a girl who works out 5 times a week? what an absolutely retarded premise to base an article on.

HeForeverBleeds · 2017-10-08T12:21:53+00:00

refusing to settle and date overweight men

So they admit that dating a fat person is "settling"? What about all the "'curves' are beautiful; bones are for dogs", implying that fat people are just as if not more beautiful?

Then again, I guess "curves" are only beautiful in women

I think fat women can refuse to date fat men if they want, just like a fat man can refuse to date fat women. But they shouldn't expect to have many options. Fat women refusing to date fat people, then demanding or expecting that most thin men ought to have any interest in them is just pure hypocrisy

What pisses me off with this isn't their preference, but how the article sympathizes with them, while men (even fit, healthy, thin men, let alone fat ones) who refuse to date fat women are condemned as misogynists

Mikkkkee · 2017-10-08T12:02:09+00:00

I work a lot with fat men and women who try to better their lives, and what i noticed is that men tend to be more direct about their situation, most will tell you directly "I'm sick of being a fat fuck", with girls it usally goes, "i just wanna have fun, train, MAYBE lose little weight" they always want to sugarcoat it.

saxophonefartmaster · 2017-10-08T11:24:59+00:00

They're both "overweight," end of story.

positivecontent · 2017-10-08T11:22:48+00:00

Here's some news. Men who aren't "overweight" don't want LAND WHALES either.

theegrimrobe · 2017-10-08T11:50:51+00:00

im a larger male and i find the double standard disgusting

i do however actually like larger women (not that its ever helped me date)

DarthCerebroX · 2017-10-08T11:13:48+00:00

Why not post link to the article so we can read it? Or archived link..

DaeusPater · 2017-10-08T11:32:18+00:00

The title should read 'fat women aren't attracted to fat men'. Fat is not a cuss word, there is nothing wrong with being fat (few health concerns maybe) and say the word fat. Fat is the new 'ni**er' eh?

And the article doesn't surprise me. Women tend to date/marry upwards with men out of their league (obviously #notallwomen). Women also tend to be more shallow in picking or choosing a mate compared to men. From my personal anecdotes, fat women (especially those with feminist leanings) tend to be pretty entitled. A (fat, feminist if it matters) woman once accused me of oppressing her for backing out on a date after she catfished me with photo-shopped images and turns out she lied about most others details too (like job, she was unemployed).

callmejohny · 2017-10-08T11:57:04+00:00

/r/ChoosingBeggars

junkeee999 · 2017-10-08T10:38:20+00:00

Garbage. We men need to stop having sex with women below our league.

Rizzpooch · 2017-10-08T14:08:45+00:00

Plus-sized is a term that grew out of clothing stores. The equivalent for men is "Big and Tall." That and everything else people have already ripped the article for makes this pretty dumb

Jinjrax · 2017-10-08T11:32:26+00:00

Shocker, most people are shallow superficial and stupid. The 'plus sized' blokes should have been interviewed too. They're probably in the same position. You cant help what you're attracted to. What matters is how entitled you are and whether you can be realistic and settle.

cmchunk · 2017-10-08T12:22:31+00:00

Even the article used the word settle when referring to dating an overweight man. I couldn’t imagine it saying that about an overweight woman.

irrelevant_usernam3 · 2017-10-08T12:33:27+00:00

Honestly, I don't see any problem with this. It's fine if you're overweight and attracted to people who aren't. It's only not fine when feel entitled to date them and don't respect that other people have a preference too.

AxeOfWyndham · 2017-10-08T12:56:00+00:00

I mean, go after what you want...

but understand that there are some caveats when you want these kinds of people and things:

1) Your expectations, while not impossible, are unrealistic. You are doing the relationship equivalent of looking for a house that is selling at half market value, and it's way more likely than not that when you finally get what you want it's not going to be the fairytale you want to live in. It's incredibly likely you are going to wind up with a guy who has lost any feeling of self worth, a guy who feels guilted into a relationship with you by feminist rhetoric or pity, or a guy who is just desperate for any kind of connection at all. The complete "man package" looking for a fat girl is going to be a needle in a haystack that you may never find. If you want a man who is confident, fit, intelligent, etc AND attracted to fat girls, the odds are you will die a dozen times over alone and smelling like cheese.

2) Understand, you are inherently looking for a man who spends his time doing pretty much all the things you don't. Let's say you DO find the unicorn. Guess what? His hobbies probably do not overlap much with yours. He does not eat the same food. He's probably not the kind of guy who wants to go with you to every kitschy restaurant where you had that UNIQUE dish that was sooooooooooooooooo yummy (aka a mound of brightly-colored sugar with the energy density of a plutonium pellet). He probably goes to the gym to do ACTUAL work instead of walking the treadmill at 2mph for 20 minutes and then anemically bicep curling the second-smallest weight on the rack for another 10 because sweat makes you feel unpretty. And understand in general that, when it comes to doing stuff as a couple, you will be the one who holds HIM back in every situation. He'd be able to rock climb, go on longer hikes, walk to a lot more tourist spots, etc if he had a fit girlfriend. Ultimately, assuming it succeeds, your relationship has 3 outcomes: (a) you just end up as an almost platonic couple that agrees to spend a lot of time apart and mostly only does things together at home. Not the saccharine Disney fairytale romance so many girls are looking for, more like cohabitating best friends with benefits. (b) you have to get in shape to keep up with what he wants to do (c) he is going to get fat doing what you do.

3) Understand that your standards are kind of going to be seen as a joke, right up there with weebs who only want Japanese partners, conceited women demanding sugar daddies on dating sites, and men who will only have sex with virgin bikini models. It's kind of shallow to basically come out and admit you wouldn't date yourself when you are looking for a relationship, especially if you aren't working towards becoming someone you WOULD date. It's almost hypocritical to expect someone else to be for you what you aren't willing to be, and it strongly implies you don't want these people out of a common interest, but because you want some arm candy.

So take interest in what you must. Maybe you legitimately can't lower your expectations because you're just wired to fetishize a certain kind of person or relationship, in which case I guess I pity you? It's your own damn fault though if you can lower your expectations and don't want to.

tatostix · 2017-10-08T14:10:58+00:00

I mean there's plenty of overweight men who refuse to date overweight women. How is this a Men's rights issue?

2017-10-08T14:18:35+00:00

That's just put there to not use "plus-size" twice in the title. In the second sentence men are called "plus-sizes" as well.

Nothing to see here.

Puffy_Ghost · 2017-10-08T16:53:43+00:00

I honestly don't see how this is a men's rights issue. :\

elkazay · 2017-10-08T13:05:14+00:00

"Refusing to settle and date overweight men"

Lol maybe now they understand why not everyone wants them as wel

QueefofPolice · 2017-10-08T14:05:38+00:00

I feel like for every triggered female that exists, there is a male searching the internet, also looking for reasons to be pissed off. If you search for misandry or misogyny, you'll find it.

Redditor4287 · 2017-10-08T13:16:17+00:00

"Stigma of refusing to settle and date overweight men"
What the actual fuck... can somebody explain to me how is being obese and dating an overweight man is "settling"?

Snugglejitsu · 2017-10-08T13:11:54+00:00

This doesn't belong in mensrights, trollx or something would make more sense

Thotsakan · 2017-10-08T20:54:19+00:00

Guys will fuck anything. Girls can be picky because even the nastiest, biggest girl will have a line of idiots wanting some.

XHF · 2017-10-08T14:01:58+00:00

Quit complaining, the article also says "plus sized men" if you keep reading.

harbeas · 2017-10-08T12:30:37+00:00

Plus size=overweight

2017-10-08T12:58:36+00:00

You need to do something about all those notifications.

LukaCola · 2017-10-08T14:41:23+00:00

Once again, this has nothing to do with men's rights. Nor is a random ass article from who knows where meaningful or indicative of anything.

This is the kind of self-victimization that this sub uses way too much to be taken seriously.

BrokeMyCrayon · 2017-10-08T17:26:09+00:00

If you read past the BIG BOLD LETTERS IN THE HEADLINE, they use the term "plus-sized men" in literally the second sentence.

wellshire · 2017-10-08T18:03:42+00:00

It says plus-sized in the next line. I really don't think we need to fight this battle

Slaide · 2017-10-08T18:15:09+00:00

Women being hypocrites? I am shocked.

CuckSmacker9000 · 2017-10-08T19:33:48+00:00

Is that why they’re always dating ghetto black guys???

climbingbuoys · 2017-10-08T20:59:12+00:00

"Refusing to settle and date overweight men."

RandyJurkovv · 2017-10-08T13:23:02+00:00

Bring back fatpeoplehate

RedPill_Swinger · 2017-10-08T11:16:34+00:00

I tend to think in terms of complicity rather than stupidity, surely there are brainwashed people who don't understand literally anything about what's going on in their lives but this is just another clear example people's passive aggressive failure to spot double standards.

theotherxanthus · 2017-10-08T13:28:56+00:00

Been fat for 26 years. Dated lots of fatties. Have accepted my life for what it is. /s I love my gf.

vooffle · 2017-10-08T14:12:22+00:00

Is this article by anyone relevant? No matter what society's standards on attractiveness are, every individual has their own and they can be as far from confirming as imaginable.

semiauto227 · 2017-10-08T14:54:02+00:00

News flash: fat people are unattractive to everybody.

Electroverted · 2017-10-08T15:45:54+00:00

They're the neckbeards of the female gender.

thedastardlyone · 2017-10-08T16:49:50+00:00

Yeah, aren't overweight people in general generally unattractive?

I get the hypocrisy, but all sexes have unrealistic expectations of who they "should" date.

z3anon · 2017-10-08T17:32:19+00:00

There's a difference between being obese and being overweight though.

knightsofrnew · 2017-10-08T18:06:10+00:00

Sotp being fat. Just stop.

Put down the fork.

Don't buy any food that comes in boxes (aka processed food)

And start jogging.

How hard is it?

swapsrox · 2017-10-08T18:42:48+00:00

Plus sized men aren't attracted to overwreight women either.

Death_is_real · 2017-10-08T19:08:12+00:00

Reminds me of all the "chubby" (absolute unhealthy overweight) woman on dating apps....only looking for a real men atleast 185cm and a body like a young god :)

BloodRainOnTheSnow · 2017-10-08T19:46:05+00:00

Honestly, with the exception of a very small minority (that oddly appears to be mostly black), very few men find overweight women attractive either. Have you ever noticed that in those "brave HAES plus-sized female model" posts that the only people saying that she is brave or beautiful are other, mostly fat, women?

Trav2016 · 2017-10-08T21:09:38+00:00

This is what I have been saying. I'm an overweight guy and I don't want to be with an overweight women it just doesn't work for me. I'm tired of being clumped together and told we fit together based solely on appearance and eating habits. Its 1000x harder for an overweight man to get a woman than a overweight woman to get s man. This is the one biggest reasons male suicide is so much higher than female suicide.

2017-10-08T22:04:33+00:00

'refusing to settle'. Hmm...

Let's hear fit men use the word 'settle' to describe dating overweight women and see how that goes over in body-positive 'feminist' circles.

PotatoDonki · 2017-10-08T22:54:42+00:00

The stigma?

You mean the stigma of being an absolute hypocrite?

exlude · 2017-10-08T13:50:07+00:00

71% upvoted

Why? What is wrong with this post? What justifies downvoting it.

Reddit, why do you hate men discussing their problems, but give women who claim to have been called a bitch online by some 12 year old 3 gold?

mearry · 2017-10-08T13:13:17+00:00

... you guys are upset because the article used the word overweight. A synonym for plus-sized.

What a bunch of fucking losers.

EDIT:

IT EVEN USES THE WORDS “PLUS-SIZED MEN” IN THE ARTICLE.

YOU ARE ALL SO WEAK.

Lupin_The_Fourth · 2017-10-08T13:42:30+00:00

News flash fatties Men aren't attracted to land whales. Butt hurt feminists.

eDgEIN708 · 2017-10-08T11:59:28+00:00

How much do you want to bet that these same ladybeasts would be insulted if a man rejected them because they're not attracted to lazy lardasses?

Theslootwhisperer · 2017-10-08T13:24:34+00:00

I have been told that any and all girls can refuse me for whatever reason, but I can't refuse any girl under any pretext. Like, an ugly, overweight, annoying girl hits on me at a bar, I have to accept her advances because it would fat shaming. Nevermind finding her unattractive and annoying. Same girl told me I am not allowed to date girls who aren't white because colonialism. So it seems to me like I have zero choice when it comes to my choice of date.

Fortunately, not many SJW round these parts and I'm happily married!

zeusdescartes · 2017-10-08T14:08:30+00:00

I work out five days a week, I'm not dating an overweight woman.

mrsperritt · 2017-10-08T14:25:32+00:00

I don’t get it. Why do people care who other people are attracted to? I’m a big girl and I’ve dated all shapes of dudes. I never got upset when a skinny or muscular man turned me down because of my size. Everyone has their right to like what they like. However, you don’t have the right to hate on people for not liking your body type. A lot of the “curvy” or “Plus size” women get all butt hurt about a man not liking them because of how they look. I ended up marrying a heavy set man and we both decided to get healthy for our daughter.

I guess what I’m trying to say is, no one made you fat but yourself so shut up complaining when a dude turns you down because they don’t like fat girls and vise/versa.

YRuafraid · 2017-10-08T15:05:15+00:00

To be fair, I partly blame guys who put all women on a pedestal, even overweight women and especially in online dating. They have no shortage of guys chasing their tail... maybe not the guys they want but they get plenty of attention nonetheless. It conditions them to believe they are the prize, and these double standards become a part of life.

RedSyringe · 2017-10-08T12:40:14+00:00

She's not even close to being overweight. Her BMI is at least 35 or 40. Cat 2 or 3 obese.

2017-10-08T13:51:16+00:00

r/choosingbeggars

chris1096 · 2017-10-08T14:11:58+00:00

Actually you're all just gross fat fucks. Fat fatty McFattersons

William__F0ster · 2017-10-08T10:38:52+00:00

They both mean fat so I don't see the problem here exactly.

Fuuuujiiiiiii · 2017-10-08T13:33:57+00:00

Jesus, get a hobby, fellas.

pbrentr · 2017-10-08T13:53:29+00:00

But healthy in shape men are supposed to settle on you pigs because why? You might have a swell personality? Such hypocrites.

2017-10-08T14:00:39+00:00

settle with dating overweight men

What? Are they fucking scum that you say it this way?

squeevey · 2017-10-08T14:19:04+00:00

Can we just label clothes in real measurements instead of the fake numbers. Men's clothing is doing this too.

FlamingCurry · 2017-10-08T14:20:41+00:00

Fat women are "plus sized" but fat men are "big and tall"

muceagalore · 2017-10-08T14:41:25+00:00

Best response ever

2017-10-08T14:53:09+00:00

If the fat dudes got money he can date pretty much any woman he wants

kickya72 · 2017-10-08T14:54:44+00:00

Fat people ruin furniture. I think that's one thing we can all agree upon.

shaolin_cowboy · 2017-10-08T15:01:09+00:00

This is ridiculous. I would add that the other hypocrisy that bothers me is women who are against body shaming and yet won't date short men. This one really bothers me. Also, all the short women only want to date tall men. We really live in a messed up world these days.

dsquard · 2017-10-08T15:06:01+00:00

/r/choosingbeggars

crypticfreak · 2017-10-08T15:26:03+00:00

Appears to be an oversight. The article even calls them plus sized men. That aside though, holy fuck what trash tabloid journalism.

This just in, people attracted to attractive people. More at 11.

Ed98208 · 2017-10-08T15:30:17+00:00

I understand that we're all attracted to some people and not others, but why literally hate the ones you're not attracted to?

_Tabless_ · 2017-10-08T15:43:23+00:00

Call me crazy but I think people who have physical relationships should pursue partners they are actually interested in with the caveat that they should accept that certain preferences will limit their pool of prospective "fish in the sea".

But there's nothing wrong with someone who likes to dye their hair red preferring a partner who has "natural" hair or someone who never works out preferring muscular partners.

koontang77 · 2017-10-08T15:50:22+00:00

You gunna get your mind blown but hold on.... fat dudes wanna screw fit people too.... boooooom.... it’s like they don’t wanna screw fat ladies either... truth is if our not happy with being fat put down the emotional eating food and start walking. I am no skinny person... I know why I am over weight. I know what I need to do to fix it... I am to much of a procrastinator to do it right now. Start small... start swapping water for sodas... get the side salad instead of fries.. I hope you all have a great day... may some level of happiness find you... peace out ✌️

DoughNutsGoNutz · 2017-10-08T15:54:33+00:00

Maybe being a selfish cunt is what keeps men away and not their waistline.

ImALoneWolfBaby · 2017-10-08T16:22:26+00:00

Same applies to some fat men though, I think its just shitty personalities. Bottom line is why would anyone who commits to taking care of themselves want to be with someone who can't put any effort in their own health let alone a relationship.

gleaped · 2017-10-08T16:40:06+00:00

A distinction without a difference. They both die Young after short unnecessarily miserable lives.

Eat better and lift, it ain't that hars

jakeryan91 · 2017-10-08T16:50:05+00:00

Fat women are obese, not overweight

wiseprogressivethink · 2017-10-08T16:52:18+00:00

These SJWs have apparently been immunized against cognitive dissonance.

lewdite · 2017-10-08T16:52:47+00:00

Plus, you know... physics

redgrin_grumble · 2017-10-08T16:56:18+00:00

Just start saying you're a plus sized man.

electricalnoise · 2017-10-08T17:21:23+00:00

Meanwhile, any man that isn't into ~~"plus size"~~ fat women is just intimidated or couldn't handle a "real" woman.

GonnaThrowItAwayMan · 2017-10-08T17:30:35+00:00

In all fairness I'm not attracted to overweight men either

aged_monkey · 2017-10-08T17:44:27+00:00

Fat guys are attracted to fit women and fit women are attracted to fit men. It's not rocket science. Y'all blow everything out of proportion.

Pollyjuice22 · 2017-10-08T17:48:44+00:00

It's an article written for fat women, of course it's going to pander to its target market.

WadeTheWilson · 2017-10-08T18:33:23+00:00

Well of course fat girls don't wanna date fat guys. Fat guys also don't wanna date fat girls. That should give these fat acceptance people a friggin clue... And I say this as a former obese man.

godofleet · 2017-10-08T18:36:07+00:00

Pretty sure their all THICC

2017-10-08T18:39:38+00:00

As an overweight woman myself, wtf?

JackBond1234 · 2017-10-08T18:49:34+00:00

I'm an overweight man, and I'm attracted to overweight men. What's not to be attracted to?

TooManyDonuts84 · 2017-10-08T18:51:32+00:00

Well, I'm overweight and even "plus-sized" women want nothing to do with me.

JaggedSuplex · 2017-10-08T19:07:21+00:00

I think "have your cake and eat it too" is applicable in a few ways here

Rubberlemons · 2017-10-08T19:07:30+00:00

There is no reason to get upset by this. These fat women live in a self affirming fantasy land, and their ignorance only hurts themselves.

Ewan_Robertson · 2017-10-08T19:13:06+00:00

Overweight?? she looks morbidly obese lmfao.

livinglitch · 2017-10-08T19:14:21+00:00

Both need to stop being fat. Put some effort into yourself, count calories, by a few weights, and workout instead of complaining.

DownGoOnMe · 2017-10-08T19:35:36+00:00

In my opinion, obese women just bought a one way ticket to virginity city.

GimmeDatThroat · 2017-10-08T19:35:41+00:00

I'm not for fat shaming, but this is fucked. Put that bitch on blast, what a load of trash.

live3orfry · 2017-10-08T19:47:03+00:00

They are both overweight. Women are plus sized and men go to the big and tall store

B_P_G · 2017-10-08T19:54:14+00:00

I'm not surprised they're not attracted to overweight men. I mean I doubt many women are. But it's not like any men are attracted to overweight women so these fatties can refuse to settle all they want but that will likely leave them single for a long time. Either that or they're going to have to make some serious compromises in other areas.

hoaobrook73 · 2017-10-08T20:08:13+00:00

If you read past the title, about 2 or 3 sentences in, they use the term "plus sized men" after prior calling them "overweight" men. This equates the two within the article making the title choice nothing but a proper variety of adjectives and not the misandry it's being made out to be.

We can put away the pitchforks now.

2017-10-08T20:18:04+00:00

Yet another reason why modern feminists have overstayed their welcome and why we need men's rights.

--Edog-- · 2017-10-09T03:57:51+00:00

"Refusing to settle" = these women are alone.

Gradytron · 2017-10-09T06:59:16+00:00

So, most people don’t want to date fatties... even other fatties... what a revelation.

zerofuxstillhungry · 2017-10-08T13:38:44+00:00

Fatty wants to have her cake, EAT her cake... then eat yours too.

While she is eating all the cake, you better go hit the gym to keep her attracted to you. /s

KingRobotPrince · 2017-10-08T13:58:08+00:00

refusing to settle and date overweight men.

Could you imagine the shit storm if a guy wrote an article about refusing to settle and date fat women?

It's sad when either gender overestimates their attractiveness and is unwilling to "settle" (date within their limits). I think it has to do with marketing and everyone chasing some sort of unobtainable ideal.

zagthepimp · 2017-10-08T21:24:56+00:00

The irony is no one is attracted to plus size women

Blarty97 · 2017-10-08T11:00:58+00:00

Fortunately I think you'll find they are "portly" "chunky" or "cuddly". or may be XXXL

Y______ · 2017-10-08T13:18:30+00:00

wtf's this lol.

cruisinbyonawhim · 2017-10-08T13:55:21+00:00

This is just /r/ChoosingBeggars material. It's just sad.

photogenic_penis · 2017-10-08T14:09:07+00:00

Fat people are fat.

Fat is unattractive (and unhealthy).

Stop being fat.

MyOtherTagsGood · 2017-10-08T14:12:57+00:00

Has nothing to do with Men's rights. Please just post this shit on TIA, where you already did.

2017-10-08T14:27:58+00:00

Ah who gives a fuck. My overweight was went and found me a plus sized girlfriend. We jiggle all over the place

thefrdeal · 2017-10-08T14:28:55+00:00

I get what you're trying to say, but this really isn't much of an issue. Men being fat is okay. Men aren't expected to be tiny thin sex objects, and they therefore get tenfold less fatphobia. Men don't have a plus section, because being overweight is normal/okay. The general men's section usually carries up to 2x or 3x, meanwhile average sized women have to shop in a separate plus sized section. I get that you're trying to be good feminists by focusing on the issues of all sexes, but having your priorities be this one-sided really screams sexism. Just try not to judge before you step in a fat woman's shoes, okay?♥️

2017-10-08T14:28:56+00:00

"YOU HAVE TO BE ATTRACTED TO ME YOU SIZEIST SEXIST PIG."

"Lol I don't wanna smash ur fat."

Have all the preferences you want, just don't be salty when someone doesn't find you attractive.

butch123 · 2017-10-08T13:00:44+00:00

HUSKY.

crnext · 2017-10-08T13:36:04+00:00

The double standards with this one are astounding.

This society today is bizarre

Books_N_Coffee · 2017-10-08T13:37:38+00:00

“I don’t want to lower my standards but I expect you men to lower yours” that’s what I got out of it lol

yosoyellogan · 2017-10-08T14:59:51+00:00

"I'm not fat, I'm beautiful. But you, ew you're fat, get away" -Fat SJWs

I'm literally shaking

Florist_Gump · 2017-10-08T15:06:35+00:00

I'm a regular joe with a preference for dating wealthy supermodels.

Preferences are fine. Then, there is reality.

Taivas_Varjele · 2017-10-08T16:28:21+00:00

It's pretty fucking comical that instead of addressing genuine issues where men are unfairly treated, like in divorce situations with child support and visitation allocation, that this kind of cherry picked bullshit makes the front page.

Congrats, the internet is big and you're gonna be able to find bullshit articles like this that fit the "men are treated unfairly" agenda. And guess what, you're getting baited for clicks and outrage.

That's why this sub is a fucking joke. You have a point, but instead seek out shit to say "this is so unfair!" You're looking for things to be offended about instead of organizing on genuinely worthwhile issues to seek change.

2017-10-08T16:58:24+00:00

Fat women aren't fat, only fat men are fat.

Bactine · 2017-10-08T15:15:23+00:00

The shit you guys will bother complaining about is incredible.

mike_pants · 2017-10-08T13:42:54+00:00

This sub is so cringey. Lord.

tehfrog729 · 2017-10-08T13:33:11+00:00

The left is known for coming up with dumb euphemisms for really bad things and then only applying them to women and minorities.

Joemanthrow · 2017-10-08T12:04:23+00:00

Overweight people hate things that remind themselves that they are fat TIL

UnnamedNamesake · 2017-10-08T13:21:55+00:00

I view this less of a gender bias and more as society trying to justify obesity in women. It's gross.

Chrissmith98x · 2017-10-08T14:25:17+00:00

Don't you guys know..?...all women are beautiful...but only well built men over 6ft are beautiful

staticsnake · 2017-10-08T14:27:16+00:00

If a guy publicly said: "I don't like fat girls."

vs.

If a girl publicly said: "I don't like fat guys."

Oh yeah there's a difference in response.

snopaewfoesu · 2017-10-08T13:56:19+00:00

This is fine by me. Fat women are entitled to their preferences. And as far as I know men aren't forced to date fat women by law yet so what's the problem?

And don't tell me the problem is a double standard, the problem. It's no intentional, clearly these women are just incapable of making the mental connection that this is a double standard. We should honestly feel sorry for them because clearly they're not as intelligent as men., and never will be.

SeaTwertle · 2017-10-08T14:06:45+00:00

Turns out women can be just as shallow as men. Go figure.

2017-10-08T13:14:58+00:00

Simply put, you deserve to be around what you are.

Nomandate · 2017-10-08T13:36:10+00:00

It's also Been reported that being fat sucks for both men and women.

2017-10-08T13:38:16+00:00

Never settle for an obese life partner, diabetes is a hell of a thing.

2017-10-08T13:45:50+00:00

Fat women are beautiful, accept them as they are. Fat men are gross and slobs... right?

kbarney345 · 2017-10-08T13:48:38+00:00

As a guy who's not obese but overweight I don't blame anyone but myself. I've had several great gfs and a few bad ones but by society's standards most would be 6 or 7 on a good day. I don't blame hot/fit women for not being attracted to me, if I was a rocking bombshell with a bod I wouldn't settle for shit, I'd want someone who's at least equal to me in effort and care for themselves. I'm not fat because of health problems or because it's OK I'm fat because I eat way to many sweets and sit on my ass whenever I'm not at work. I've just recently tried fixing it and walking 4 to 5 miles a day and eating more fish and salad has made all the difference. I had chronic fatigue and back pain and just felt lathargic constantly and that's almost all fanished just from a little walking and adding some things to my diet. Im not losing much weight but I feel a million times better. If you take the time to make yourself better then why should you be expected to settle with some overweight person who doesn't take care of themselves.

sennhauser · 2017-10-08T13:57:59+00:00

Jesus fucking christ

nairblizard · 2017-10-08T14:03:44+00:00

Thick thighs save lives

danielvandam · 2017-10-08T15:29:39+00:00

Can none of you understand that these articles simply are marketing tricks? Fat women read their shit because it validates the way they are. These articles don't dictate some kind of accepted moral standard. This stuff just sells to fat women.

2017-10-08T16:26:03+00:00

“refusing to settle”

the lack of self awareness is mind numbing

Thisusernameisdope · 2017-10-08T16:28:25+00:00

I’m overweight, I weigh like 180 and I’m a 5’5 female. I mean Im just not attracted to obese men, I just kind of get disgusted by all of the access weight. However, I have no problem dating an OVERWEIGHT man who has a belly and some fat on him. I feel like most super fat people don’t want to be with another super fat person because it reminds them of themselves. It’s like looking in a reverse gender mirror.

YeltsinYerMouth · 2017-10-08T18:38:49+00:00

They literally say plus-sized men a few sentences in. Stop making mountains of molehills and distracting from real issues. Focus on "microaggressions" is a good way to make sure people don't acknowlede your problems as legitimate.

Title	Fat women are "plus sized" but fat men are "overweight"
Author	jaib9
Upvotes	18656
Comments	483
Date	October 8, 2017 10:20 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/750yh3/fat_women_are_plus_sized_but_fat_men_are/
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