Pickme Logic: I know he's a player and I'm already sleeping with him but will ignoring his texts get him interested in more?

__kamikaze__ · 2021-09-24T19:06:50+00:00

Reading this through a FDS lens there’s so many painfully obvious red flags.

There is no playing “hard to get” after sleeping with him. She needs to block and delete and move on.

Mcccy · 2021-09-24T19:27:42+00:00

I pray that's a man roleplaying. If not, I'm cringing so much at how she described her self with "Small but with junk in the right areas"

4everdoe · 2021-09-24T19:34:39+00:00

Hard to get but already slept together. Oh she’s talking about playing hard to get emotionally… that’s why she’s asking for advice on how to get his attention but she’s not sure if she would want anything serious… but she might consider it. This post is all over the damn place. Too much thinking for some country fuck boi who probably wears dirty clothes and who isn’t giving her 5 mins of thought outside of her junk in the right places.

zealousandvain · 2021-09-24T21:12:11+00:00

Nooo you guys don't understand. She's a player too! They are two players, playing each other. Equality, right??🤡🤣

aquietsword · 2021-09-24T21:46:02+00:00

Woman thinks men have emotional depth. More at 6.

Breesasha · 2021-09-24T18:58:47+00:00

He's a player with plenty of action. Honestly...she's thinking reverse psychology is the way to go. It's not going to work in her favor. It's already too late for her; she's slept with him with no commitment. So all she can do is learn from this and start fresh with a new man who doesn't have that issue.

gigi_chi · 2021-09-24T19:13:29+00:00

Lol the first comment! How are you playing hard to get when you have already slept with him twice?

blueboobs- · 2021-09-24T18:47:13+00:00

I know he likes me bc of how he is during sex .

This is a got-damned child. 🤦🏽‍♀️

crackdpeppers · 2021-09-24T19:59:00+00:00

Why are pick-me’s willing to put more effort into a “relationship” with a man like that instead of being with someone who actually respects/loves them 😭

modernmedusaa · 2021-09-24T21:06:46+00:00

Ugh country town bike, always these dudes thinking they're a big fish in a small pond

AVOID

She'll be getting looks of pity when seen with him in public

mothboon · 2021-09-24T22:02:32+00:00

Hard cringe. I was this girl briefly. Was used by a very attractive well known player. Thought he liked me, played it really cool. It's gross to think about.

Glad I grew up and cared about myself enough not to be used by men anymore.

throwaway-fds · 2021-09-24T18:46:09+00:00

Well bless her soul and I hope she finds the right path soon instead of thinking she's "playing" him by already sleeping with him.

East-Willingness513 · 2021-09-24T22:58:14+00:00

“I’m a player too” girl the only person you played is yourself.

hardpass4 · 2021-09-24T20:02:14+00:00

This girl's false confidence is overwhelming:

I don't want anything serious, although if HE showed more interest I'd CONSIDER it.

Mm-hmm, that's why you're on Reddit asking internet strangers advice on how to GET HIS ATTENTION.

If I roll my eyes any harder they're going to fall out of my face.

NoHoliday7040 · 2021-09-24T21:00:12+00:00

If you want him to think about you more, full ignore.

arnezuara · 2021-09-24T18:50:43+00:00

He’s not playing hard to get, he’s just emotionally stunted + a community dick.

I hope she finds FDS.

staywiththecrown · 2021-09-24T23:27:51+00:00

This is so cringe. It's easy to laugh, but I could have easily written this when I was back in college. I'm so glad for my growth! This Libfem "sleep with him first, ask questions later" shit is so harmful.

lolmemberberries · 2021-09-25T00:06:11+00:00

She probably put more effort into this post than this fuckboy did in satisfying her. She needs to block, delete and move on.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-09-24T19:26:27+00:00

This is pathetic. Like, honestly one of the most pathetic, depressing things I've read in a while.

"I know he's attracted to me because of how he is when we have sex?" Well, I should fucking hope so!

oneheadlight312 · 2021-09-25T00:22:11+00:00

"I'm a fucking player myself..." Darling you are correct. You play your own self.

Momcella · 2021-09-25T01:40:49+00:00

I wonder if her perception of this FWB relationship was skewed since she stayed the night, he got up early to go to work, letting her sleep in like a pretend wife? She probably even cleaned up a little before leaving. I wonder how long she stayed at his place (room?) before finally leaving? The longer she'd stay, the more attached she'd get. For him, the longer she'd stay, the cleaner his place would get. The more she'd want to come over for free sex = housemaid. I could see the bar getting lower & lower with each visit, settling for crumbs.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-09-24T23:17:09+00:00

Sis needs FDS asap. And an std test.

dembar126 · 2021-09-24T23:20:35+00:00

Lol girl this isn't a Wattpad story.

YesPleaseMadam · 2021-09-25T04:33:22+00:00

“emotionally hard to get” he don’t care about your emotions, sis

millions_ofpeachs4me · 2021-09-24T20:58:54+00:00

“Fucking obviously.” Like, totally! Everyone in this whole fucking town is, like, in the palm of my hand.

potmakesyouparanoid · 2021-09-24T22:33:42+00:00

I have to field calla from one of my oldest friends with shit like this. Woman is 40 just got knocked up to a lvm who had been living with her and her kids. He then dumped her, moved out so they could be closer together (his reasoning to her) and wouldn't check in with her or have time for her for weeks on end, and she's pregnant with his child going to dr checkups!!! He turned up at his kid's basketball game where one of her kids also plays. wone of his baby momma's is there and tells my friend that he told her they had broken up (he has two baby mommas). The first baby momma told her that he is definitely cheating on her. She refuses to see it and refuses to believe the relationship is over "if i ignore him, will he notice and pay attention?" I tell her over and over to respect herself and cut this off and focus on her kids (from previous relationship and also the unborn child). Nope. She's chasing him. I don't understand why, she's got a kick ass career, her own house, amazing kids, why the hell does she want his drama? I guess some women don't ever learn or they learn too late.

Apprehensive_Slice28 · 2021-09-24T18:52:38+00:00

Omg how stupid 🤡this is why libfem sex positive thinking never actually helps women. It’s nothing short of delusional and women like this are not accepting reality and gender dynamics as it is.

RussianAsshole · 2021-09-25T03:50:53+00:00

The hostile reply from her 😂 girl, you can’t even be in the same room as real players. He smashed and dashed.

Lonlinessandtitties · 2021-09-25T06:42:43+00:00

My heart breaks for her, based on her post history. She is very young, with a series of abusive/porn addicted boyfriends in her past.

Risoa · 2021-09-24T19:08:42+00:00

Lord have mercy

lansburysoda · 2021-09-24T20:13:50+00:00

What in the sex-positive-feminism🙄… I can’t anymore smh… 🥴

xfelugirlx · 2021-09-24T19:06:23+00:00

hard to get already have sex Girl no. You arent hard and he don’t wsnt you for more than you already give, he is playing with you and you being a pickme falling 🤡

miss_peach94 · 2021-09-24T21:31:34+00:00

You've already given him what he wanted from the start. His mission is accomplished, now he's onto the next one lmao

solstice100 · 2021-09-24T21:37:42+00:00

If you’re gonna sleep with a known player, make sure you’re 100% in it just for your own physical pleasure. But even then, I wouldn’t recommend it

Feministtiktok · 2021-09-25T00:52:39+00:00

DJ Khaled voice you played yourself

desertedstreets · 2021-09-25T14:11:10+00:00

This made me squirm so bad. It's all downhill where she is heading with this mindset. One thing I've noticed ubiquitously is how defensive these pickmes get when they are questioned or someone points out what they are doing wrong. The hostility is through the roof. Miss, you've posted your 'concern' on a public forum and are requesting 'advice', learn to take it when its offered!

lalacestmoi · 2021-09-25T01:56:57+00:00

The answer is: pack your bags and disappear. Leave him to the local folks!

2y-omonkeyonafarm · 2021-09-25T03:14:48+00:00

I see posts like this and I just think “oh honey…” 🤦🏼‍♀️

ZoErSonHud · 2021-09-25T16:58:38+00:00

u/strangelykorryn

This you? How embarrassing.

If you see this comment here’s a home truth: He doesn’t want you because you’re so painfully easy, like all the others. You’re not special, he’s got 10 other girls doing the exact same things to him and they probably do it better.

Truthfully, in his mind he thinks why buy the cow when you can get the milk that simply for free? There’s no need for him to emotionally attach to you because you’re replaceable to him. That reality doesn’t change just because you messed up and caught feelings.

Also, giving out your body measurements yo randoms on reddit only makes you look more desperate than you already are. Try self-respect.

PotatoAlternative947 · 2021-09-25T02:21:39+00:00

This was me with a guy like this when I was 18. I felt like such a 🤡🤡🤡 but boy, did I learn.

IDontAgreeSorry · 2021-09-24T22:53:35+00:00

LOL if she thinks he even gives one single fuck about her “emotionally playing hard to get”. He gets the benefit of getting pussy without having to put in effort, he’s happy lol. Fucking stupidity omg. Snap out of it girlie.

“I’m a fucking player myself” yeah but most men are turned off by that and automatically see you as a sex object and no more.

avocadobarbie · 2021-09-25T01:32:07+00:00

“He’s also playing hard to get” what?!?? 🤣🤣🤣 no bitch, he actually doesn’t want you. The mental gymnastics!

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-09-24T20:38:30+00:00

Yuck.

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2021-09-25T16:44:39+00:00

They are both clowns tbh

ChocoBananza · 2021-09-27T15:08:43+00:00

I tried finding this post via Google, and I’m shocked and appalled that there is a metric tonne of crap articles and blogs dedicated to this topic. Like… fuck.

On the other hand, why am I surprised? I should have known better by now 😒

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