My friend's husband wants to divorce her and she's financially dependent on him because she's in graduate school without a teaching position. Now mind you, she used to work and had a lot of savings. They lived on that throughout their undergrad. That's right, she financially supported him through undergrad and their agreement was that after that he would financially support her through the 2 year program we are both in. Well, here we are six months into the program and he wants to leave her. She won't have any money to live on in a very expensive city which means she might have to leave the program, thus giving up on her dream. She's looking for a job, but our program is very demanding and a part time job is simply not going to allow her to make enough money to support herself. This is how men can bamboozle you. No matter how much you love and trust your man, do not let your dreams depend financially on him. Do not build a man, he may never repay you. This guy was definitely a NVM, and she is definitely a pick me. She told me that he never actually asked her out, she just persuaded him to be in a relationship with her. I sincerely hope this helps open her eyes to the reality that you should NEVER pursue a man. Don't do it. They won't care about you and they could very easily fuck you over someday.