I’m 33 male wife is 34 and she wants a second child. Our first child is 1.5 years old and I love her but I DO NOT WANT ANOTHER KID. Going through pregnancy and the first year was so fucking hard. My wife was lazy AF too during pregnancy and didn’t want to do shit around the house. She basically made my life a living hell. I never want to have another kid with her or any other woman ever again. Our relationship was rocky as hell too during the pregnancy and that first few months of baby life since no one is sleeping. There’s no way in hell I’m having another kid. Also the financial expense of having a child. Like most of you I’m the primary breadwinner making 3x what my wife makes but I also have a much harder job than her.

My wife will not drop having a second. Her friends are having a 2nd kid and just announced so now my wife has baby fever to pop her 2nd out too. I’ve told her absolutely not. And given her all my reasons which are valid but she doesn’t give a fuck. My wife says she will be different this time around and that she will change all the diapers and do all the work for the new baby. I just don’t believe her and even if she does I’ll still get sucked into the shit at some point. Plus she’s going to be miserable, tired, and hormonal. And our first kid is still a ton of work. So my wife says she’s going to divorce me