A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.

To preface this, I’m a young man (25).

But one thing I have a hard time understanding is why are men so hung up on a woman with a high N-count making them wait till the third or second date for sex?

I understand the problem comes from the fact that maybe she let other men have sex with her very easily when she was younger, with little to no strings attached. But what’s stopping the man from withholding sex even further? So let’s say a girl normally has sex on the fourth date but you knew that in the past she would have ONS in college, why not just take back control (as the man in this case) and make HER wait? I feel as if this is a viable solution and wanted to generate some discourse around it. Thanks.

P.S. before anybody says it’s because she doesn’t see you worthy enough to fuck instantly on the first date, you can easily flip it around to her not being worthy enough to have sex with till the 5th date. Although I doubt most men have the patience or restraint to wait that long lol.