Hey guys it's me Max, I've been in the game since I'm 15 and now I'm more than double that lol. I'm kind of numb now to all the things related to meeting women that used to scare me or confuse me, so I figured I might as well share some of the things I've learned here because I started my self development journey on Reddit.

There are 2 things you must avoid when a girl leaves you on seen: 1. Assume she's not interested and move on and 2. act needy and insisting.

With a lot of experience meeting people you can tell whether following up is pointless, but for most guys I really recommend following up at least once if you think she was at some point attracted to you. People get busy, life sometimes gets in the way, sometimes she likes you but you're trying to meet her right when her ex is trying to come back, she has exams and she's on her period. Just try again later.

But make sure that you never immediately double text. If she doesn't reply IT'S A CONSCIOUS DECISION SHE MADE and insisting WILL NOT change that. She saw your text, and sending something else early will not help.

Be patient instead of needy. But don't be a pushover either: she needs to know that you won't accept getting ghosted for no reason. So you must find the middle ground between moving forward but not being too eager, and the best way to do so is (after a reasonable amount of time, usually 2 days) pointing out to her the fact she ghosted you while being light about it. I often ask girls if they got kidnapped and it works wonders in restarting a conversation.