Modern dating has exposed a harsh reality: women overwhelmingly pursue the top 20% of men for passion, attention, and validation. They willingly compete for these high-status men, accepting being treated as disposable, only to later settle for average men when they realize they can’t secure the men they truly desire. This isn’t out of love or attraction, it’s out of necessity and convenience.

The unfortunate truth is that most men can’t compete with the attraction women feel for the top-tier guys. These men are simply better in their eyes, and once a woman has experienced them, she’s forever spoiled. Unlike men, who don’t benefit from hypergamy, women always chase the highest-value partner they can secure. When they can no longer hold onto those men, they turn to the stable, average man, not out of genuine love, but as a fallback option.

Time and again, women have shown that being a boyfriend or husband holds little value. They demand absolute loyalty while offering less in return, delaying intimacy, making it transactional, setting unrealistic expectations, and treating their committed partners with far less respect than they gave the top tier men they actually desired. They threw themselves at those high-status men, yet expect their settled-for partners to accept a relationship on unequal terms.

So why should the average man commit? Why should he be loyal to a woman who only chose him after exhausting her better options? Women have made their preferences clear, they are drawn to toxic, high-status men over stable, committed ones. The most successful men in the dating world are often the worst partners, yet women consistently chase them, proving that they don’t truly value good men.

Why should a man who fulfills boyfriend duties remain loyal to adulterated love? Women have demonstrated through their actions that they do not deserve it. They all desire the same small pool of top men, and when they can no longer secure them, they settle, always holding onto the memory of the one they truly wanted but couldn’t keep. Their love lacks credibility because they repeatedly prioritize attraction over loyalty.

This is the reality women created. If they truly wanted commitment, they should pursue the men they desire, but they can’t, because those men used them and discarded them. Average men should take note and do the same. Women have proven that they don’t value good ethics, otherwise, the most abusive men wouldn’t be the most successful in dating. But they are, because women consistently choose them over good men.