N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-12-30T16:34:16+00:00

With New Year’s Eve just a day away, does anyone have any stories of a kiss/hookup/added count on a holiday designed for adults to drink and party?

autistic_cool_kid · 2025-12-30T16:17:18+00:00

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Axis_Control · 2025-12-29T18:21:03+00:00

Just found out 1 in 3 men have premature ejaculation issues at some point. No wonder my hookups were so bad 😑

Guy literally cum after like 10 mins and was like ill make you cum next time. There will be no next time dude 😑

Popeoath · 2025-12-29T15:42:38+00:00

The older you get the higher the percentage of single women who've had casual sex before but don't want it anymore.

It's infuriating. Completely undatable time wasters.

Axis_Control · 2025-12-29T06:24:43+00:00

I don't get the guys insecure over women having sex with attractive men. Seems super weird to me. What you think she should sleep with unnattractive men instead? I don't get it 🤣

Spicycloth · 2025-12-28T02:18:55+00:00

I've seen too many guys burn themselves trying to play captain save a ho. 99 percent of the time it just isn't worth it.

Axis_Control · 2025-12-26T08:28:35+00:00

Thoughts on if peoples porn choices and habits should be talked about with their partner? Or is is private and they shouldn't have to? I kinda feel more like its private

Rule_Number_7 · 2025-12-25T22:57:19+00:00

With 2026 days away, which single or non-monogamous PPDers intend to actively, or at least try to, up their N Count this coming year? Or, in the same vein, are there any who intend to take a step back instead?

Corbast7 · 2025-12-25T05:32:27+00:00

Whatever your preference is on someone’s experience level, the most insecure people are the ones claiming their specific preference is the correct one and that other people are “low value” for not sharing that preference. Clearly they feel they have something to prove.

They can’t accept for some reason that people do find different personalities and lifestyles attractive. Weird that all the self appointed evopsych experts here don’t acknowledge that diversity is part of evolution too.

Not surprisingly it’s always the pill heads on here demanding that everyone needs to agree with their taste for their worldview and rigid hierarchies to make sense. “High value” blah blah. You guys suffer from main character syndrome, get well soon.

N_Count_Council · 2025-12-25T05:17:35+00:00

I got 2 bodies this week and might be able to get a 3rd after christmas

Axis_Control · 2025-12-24T13:44:32+00:00

I just let my bf bang me in the bum 🤣 he's never done it before but I have so I guess I

"Owed him that for equality" 🥴kek 🤣

Lemon_gecko · 2025-12-24T12:48:04+00:00

I have a question for men who don't like high n women. Would you prefer to live in world where there is no casual sex at all. No hookers too. No porn (only gay porn), onlyfans, strip clubs etc. Where there will be no high n woman, no sexual service at all. No massage with happy end too, just to be clear. Would you like that? Would you think you'd have better chances?

Also to be clear that's the only thing that changes, women are still working, there are no incentive to marry for financial security etc. But unless it's a form of really invested and committed relationship - no sex. And if you leave her - you'll love some significant sum of money simply because you lowered her value and increased her n count.

Would you preferred that?

Just to be clear, reasonable_mouse789, that's not a question addressed to you, and i don't ask anything about your preferences and how your life is right now, or was, or past experiences, or something of the sort.

Cultural-Ad-8486 · 2025-12-24T11:27:25+00:00

Whenever I see supposedly "experienced people" claiming to "just get better at sex," I realize they've never had sex or a relationship.

Because they don't understand two basic things:

1) You're either inherently compatible with your partner or you're not. And you can only "improve" if you're already compatible.

2) If you have to "compete" for your partner's attention with other people, you've already lost the game, lol.

Rule_Number_7 · 2025-12-24T02:14:01+00:00

I know it's a rather highly debated topic when it comes to humans, but I'd be lying if I said the massive sap in me doesn't like the thought of the whole pair bonding thing. It's a nice concept.

coping_man · 2025-12-23T23:21:53+00:00

My n count is still 0 and now I've had more jobs than n counts. 😎 Being employedcel is actually great compared to being a NEETcel!

autistic_cool_kid · 2025-12-23T22:25:34+00:00

I miss my high N-count, very slutty girlfriend 🥺

6 weeks before I fly to South America to see her

Axis_Control · 2025-12-23T14:59:24+00:00

Who else is looking forward to some hot Christmas sex? 🤣☃️

attendquoi · 2025-12-23T14:53:51+00:00

Are low-count men actually getting opportunities to reject high-count women?

Desperate-Exit7423 · 2025-12-23T14:20:15+00:00

Still waiting for an explanation as to why it’s okay for women to care about a man’s sexual past when it comes to things like sleeping with the same sex, or even paying for sex while a man caring about a woman’s sexual past makes him insecure

YuYuHakusho23 · 2025-12-23T13:51:42+00:00

I feel like a lot of the low n count women here are just more pleasant and fun to talk to as opposed to the high n count women. I do believe the alleged high n count women here have a lot of insecurities or maybe even trauma stemming from sex and they feel the need to A) constantly fuck men even though they hate them to and B) come to PPD out of all places and do a self report.

Plus after being on the discord and knowing some younger women with high n counts who are crazy as fuck and have trauma it really does check out. I wonder why high n count women can’t just be chill. They always claim to have fun with the sex they are having yet weirdly just like incels and virgins they hate they are here posting into the void and are usually just as crazy if not worse.

Also I say this all as someone who would date/fuck a high n count women atp I know the best thing to do is to never ask.

Lemon_gecko · 2025-12-23T11:41:51+00:00

The things i've heard about sex in the last 24 hours.

- that sleeping around is like doing heroin
- that touching a dick lowers woman's value
- something something about inability to pair bond.
- that being used as a masturbation toy isn't a brag
- that men will just pump and dump
- that woman should've known better and didn't fuck if she wanted chance with him

The problem is same men fixated on "raw" and "animalistic" desire and demand sex as soon as possible, they want for a woman just see him and trow herself at him. The issue is they want it done without any assurances for a woman. So basically they want her to lose her value without anything in return, they don't plan to stay, that's just the beginning of vetting process.

So 1) how do you live with yourself knowing that you're actively harm women you have sex with; 2) how is that coexist with "vet better", because all you're saying that you're out.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-12-23T11:30:22+00:00

I actually think these guys staying away from "high n women" (however they define it) is a good thing. Because I can tell they would be resentful and hateful partners to someone like that. So it is actually better for them to stick to their standards as a form of harm reduction.

that being said, there's really nowhere to go with this topic anymore. the men are far too emotional about this topic, and it makes the debates ineffective, circular, and you can just kind of tell they're trying to provoke a reaction and bait women into endless, exhausting, pointless, futile arguments.

which kind of begs the question, what are people getting out of this? it mostly seems ro be ego defense. wounded egos, posturing, feigned moral superiorify, and a chance to status signal to other men. after this thread has been literally pinned nearly non stop for months, this dynamic has festered and gotten worse. at this point, i find it disgusting quite frankly.

DufflebagJoe · 2025-12-22T20:29:05+00:00

Fun fact: Any number above zero increases your chance of divorce by 50%.

N_Count_Council · 2025-12-22T19:28:19+00:00

The only time high n is remotely acceptable is if she's draining your balls non-stop AND a little subby in the bedroom. These nuts better be constantly empty. Otherwise hell no

Lift_and_Lurk · 2025-12-22T17:49:56+00:00

Constantly being the only side that consistently bring up the topic up over and over even after it’s been answered ad nausum is absolutely being obsessed.

That’s not even a debate.

The question remains is: why?

Desperate-Exit7423 · 2025-12-22T17:02:10+00:00

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N count thread in a nutshell.

Lemon_gecko · 2025-12-22T12:45:14+00:00

If when you find out that i'm non-monogamous, your question why don't i fuck my friends....etc, then it means you want to fuck your friends.

TheRedPillRipper · 2025-12-22T01:20:08+00:00

CROSSPOST FROM AN ASK MEN’S ADVICE SUB

I've been dating this woman for 6 weeks, she says she wants to take things slow with me because she sees long term potential, as opposed to his few previous dates where she admitted hooking up with in the first date. As a man would you take this in a negative way?

During these 6 weeks we've gone on 7 dates, we've been kissing since the 5th one but that's about it. I invited her to my place after our last date, she refused and explained what I wrote in the tittle.

I'm not even sure if I believe what she says. It's not something I would ever do myself ("I see long term potential with her, therefore let's move things very slowly"). I would get it if she was the kind of girl to wait for sex until being a few months into a relationship, but she's been open about hooking up multiple times during the time she's been on Tinder (as I assume everyone in the app does).

I'm starting to believe she's just not physically attracted to me and is just dating for the sake of going in dates. Any insights would be much appreciated.

FatmanSlim93 · 2025-12-21T20:36:08+00:00

N count really isn’t a big deal unless you’re dealing with experience gaps that are larger than a 5-10 person difference. I’ve noticed the larger the gap, espically if the women have the higher count, causes more issues than anything else. Not pair bonding, usually a difference in opinions on intimacy/sex and in some cases insecurity. People always go for either “they’re just insecure” or “she can’t pair bond.” Like be real it could be a lot of things and people just wanna soothe their ego either way on the issue and attack the other side.

Bitch_King-of_Angmar · 2025-12-21T17:38:01+00:00

it was easier before this thread existed to ignore n count posts on the main subreddit threads. and bc looks only gets pinned one day every other week, there's essentially no period of time where this thread is not front and center.

Lemon_gecko · 2025-12-21T16:58:31+00:00

If you so irritated by her having better sex you can fix it by actually becoming the best lover she has. Put effort where it makes sense instead of raging on the internet💅

Ooh, how many excuses not to do that. Who is surprised tho?

Title	N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD
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Date	December 20, 2025 5:00 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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