Beta husband falls for the "polyamory trap" lets other men fuck his wife. Guess what happens?

IllimitableMan · 2014-03-24T17:32:21+00:00

There was an occasion when we took a bath together, I massaged her for an hour after. She said she was horny. She got dressed and drove to her FWB leaving me naked on the bed with my jaw hanging open.

Holy crap on a cracker that shit is brutal. That is fucking cold. Empathy = Zero.

eccentricrealist · 2014-03-24T17:38:09+00:00

Fuck, if there was ever an anti role model you found it.

FortunateBum · 2014-03-24T19:02:44+00:00

We talk a lot, but she is tired of hearing me "complain".

One thing I've learned about women and especially LTRs, do not ever, under any circumstance, complain about anything. No matter how minor you think it may be. "Ouch, wow, slamming my fingers in the car door really hurts." No. She will not understand. She will be annoyed. A week later she will bitch about how you "complain" all the time.

bsutansalt · 2014-03-24T18:31:54+00:00

The salient point from the thread:

About 6 months ago, my wife suggested opening our marriage and embracing polyamory. My wife and I were both virgins when we met and were monogamous. She said she wanted to sow some of the wild oats she never sowed in her youth. I am philosophically aligned with polyamory, so I was not overly reluctant.

The first weekend of openness, my wife contacted a recently divorced colleague from her former job. They went out to dinner. She called me after dinner and said she was going to his house and wouldn't be back that night. She ended up not coming home for two full days. A few weeks later, she went on a date with a much younger former colleague. Ever since, she calls the younger colleague FWB and the divorced colleague her "lover". She sleeps with one or the other of them at least once a week.

In contrast, I have not had a single date with the exception of one glass of tea at Panera with a woman from OKCupid.

I've said it before and I'll say it again, NEVER agree to something where it's possible there will be an unequal result unless you're getting yours first. For guys this is especially true when it comes to sex.

30303030303030 · 2014-03-24T19:37:23+00:00

Ah "polyamory", a sugar coated cuckolding where 90%+ of men are way out of their depth, these idiots either really don't know it's literally 100 times easier for a woman to get fucked than a man or are counting for a miracle and love of their wives... See how that worked out?

This might be made up cause it fits into beta masochism to well but overall it's textbook. He should get photos of her being fucked by that kid and older dude, with time stamps, and go for divorce. She obviously doesn't give a flying fuck about him so blackmail her, show it to family when she fights for assents to hard.

If by some chance this guy actually gets a gf I'm gonna cite the first page of rp manual and tell you all she is going to close that marriage faster than his head will spin.

OP if you are reading this, get on TRT. You need it. No the fucking therapy to talk and cry about you being emasculated. That you know without dropping 200$ on some feminist cunt which will do you no good.

Pays to be loving and respectful? She doesn't appreciate it a small bit and he ended up with ED. Shocking.

_DiscoNinja_ · 2014-03-24T18:02:59+00:00

I couldn't bring myself to read past the glass of tea at Panera with an Ok Cupid (i.e. bottom of the barrel) date because I cringed so hard that I now look like I have Bell's Palsy.

NeoBushi · 2014-03-24T18:29:36+00:00

Honestly these men frighten the shit out of me. A few summers ago I went to Cancun with some friends. Accidentally booked a swingers resort. These older fat husbands literally offered up their wives to get fucked by us younger late-twenties guys. I feel somewhere down the line they lost their Y chromosome, maybe there is something in the water.

Tarnsman4Life · 2014-03-24T17:31:09+00:00

We are wealthy but not fabulously so. We live an upper middle class lifestyle. There are no yachts or anything, but we could continue this lifestyle for the rest of our lives without ever working another day.About 9 months ago, my wife changed jobs by moving to a different company. About 2 years ago, I left a highly paid executive position to become a university professor. Both of us love our new jobs.

So instead of upgrading he downgraded...as Chris Rock said it women do NOT go backwards in lifestyle, PERIOD.

About 6 months ago, my wife suggested opening our marriage and embracing polyamory. My wife and I were both virgins when we met and were monogamous. She said she wanted to sow some of the wild oats she never sowed in her youth. I am philosophically aligned with polyamory, so I was not overly reluctant.

Already looking for the Alfa Fux now that there are far less Beta Bux...

As I said. We talk a lot. I mentioned that I feel like her friend without benefits. She said my complaining is unattractive and not helping the situation. I went from confidently straddling the world of corporate power to feeling like a wimpy nerd. OK, I have always been a nerd.

and now that he doesn't make those bux she is not even trying to keep him happy with some screwing around every now and then. No doubt he will get screwed like most men in a divorce and ex-wifey goes back on the market, with a sizable portion of his cash.

Christ I knew exactly what was going to happen after I read the first paragraph.

Clauderoughly · 2014-03-24T20:05:22+00:00

20 bucks says this guy is a male feminist.

comeonguyscomeon · 2014-03-24T17:22:50+00:00

Absolutely typical beta behavior. What did this moron think was going to happen? That he'd live in a harem with lots of young college girls who're interested in him for his maturity and knowledge?

Lol, fuck that. He should of divorced her straight off the fucking bat at the mere suggestion they open the marriage, since that's ALWAYS a one sided affair, unless you, the man, are some movie star.

He seems like one of those limp wristed liberal types who are accepting of all these 'lifestyles' choices, then reality comes crashing down on him when he can't say no.

Fuck him.

bennybunny25 · 2014-03-24T18:56:43+00:00

This blows for the dude but my two main questions are:

Why is a 44 year old woman who has 3 kids acting like a sleezy college bitch?

Why did you even do polyamory? If you two are actually for each other, you/her would most likely not suggest it.

DasWood · 2014-03-24T22:55:11+00:00

Follow up

http://redditlog.com/snapshots/400501

Followup: Wife and I talk a lot. We always communicated well in the past. She is in bed with me almost every night. We have hectic lives chauffeuring kids to events, sports, homework, meals, chores, etc.

Wife elaborated on her comment that "I haven't given Polyamory a chance." She says that I should get out and date because I shouldn't rely on her to meet all my emotional needs for affection or sex. She says it's not fair for me to complain that my needs aren't being met. She says of course they aren't. The whole point of polyamory is to have many loves and get my needs met through a combination of all of them. I shouldn't depend on any one person.

Wife says that she hasn't been sexually attracted to me recently and doesn't owe me sex just because we are married. She says my "constant" complaints make me particularly unattractive to her. She doesn't want to sleep with someone who is begging.

Wife concedes that she's on an emotional high experiencing the newness of a loving sexual relationship with her lover. She says she also gets validation from the casual sex with her FWB. She says her desires for sex are completely met by lover and FWB. When she is home with me, she is tired and stressed and busy and anything but aroused. She visits her lover to recharge.

Wife emphasizes that nothing is stopping me from having a lover or lovers, getting all the sex I want, and basking in the glow of new love. I shouldn't be reliant/dependent on getting those things from her. I shouldn't ask/demand what she doesn't want to freely give. I am being codependent, excessively needy, and unsupportive of her new relationships.

Wife says my requests for sex are suspiciously timed with her dates. She thinks I am trying to derail her plans and talk her into standing-up her lover who also has a busy life and struggles to find time. She is busy and stressed and my requests are just one more chore for her right now. I should stop being jealous and have compersion.

She is reading over my shoulder as I type this. She came home early from work after reading posts in this thread. She says my post was one sided, and she resents most people piling on her unsympathetically. She and I are together almost every day. She only sees her lover once or at most twice a week. If she doesn't feel like cuddling or having sex with me, it's perfectly understandable since she is stressed during the day, and my neediness is the straw that is breaking her back regarding time management and keeping the family functioning with chores, chauffeuring, etc.

She says if I did more of the chores, she might have more time for cuddling and might even feel appreciative and want to cuddle me.

She just said she loves me.

The problem for me is that I don't feel it. It seems I sense love through touch. Just hearing the words doesn't make me feel it. She says she will cuddle me right now, but she needs to get the work she brought home finished.

Clauderoughly · 2014-03-24T19:21:35+00:00

I am philosophically aligned with polyamory

And what philosophy is that, exactly?

Whisper · 2014-03-24T19:59:24+00:00

About 2 years ago, I left a highly paid executive position to become a university professor.

Dingdingdingdingding.

tsotha · 2014-03-25T04:06:18+00:00

If your long-time wife comes to you and says she wants to open marriage there are a few things that are almost certainly true:

She already has a lover picked out. If you say no she's going to fuck him anyway.
If you sleep with another woman she'll be upset. The plan is for her to get outside sex, not you.
As soon as she brings it up you may as well mark your calendar - no matter how you react you're about 90% likely to end up in divorce court within a year or so.

Ironhigh · 2014-03-24T18:51:24+00:00

The worst is the guys that accept being betas in polyamory and enjoy being cucked.I can't even comprehend them.

RejectionEquality · 2014-03-24T23:28:58+00:00

I have investigated this open relationship nonsense extensively over the course of many years, and the message is clear to me. It is okay for men to have multiple partners, but it is not okay for women to have multiple partners. Throughout history, men have been known to keep mistresses. That's because men are better equipped to deal with such circumstances whereas women are far too emotional to handle more than one cock at a time. Like it or not, that's just the way it is. "Polyamory" is just a made-up, female-favoring idea that gives women the ability to rationalize AFBB.

JohnGalt316 · 2014-03-24T17:39:21+00:00

lmao @ all the polyamory guys developing ED

is it because polyamory made them or because polyamory preselects the beta in them?

IllimitableMan · 2014-03-24T18:09:59+00:00

I developed erectile disfunction a few weeks after the relationship opened. It might have been the very first night, because my wife declined sex from me for at least 6 weeks after opening. No medicine has helped. Both my urologist and psychologist think I have repressed anger and feel emasculated.

My guess is that his T took a dive bomb.

SpecialFester · 2014-03-24T19:13:54+00:00

Things like this make me wonder how there are people that can say "that's a load of bs" when I tell them about the red pill, etc.

It's honestly baffling to me. I mean, I realize society reinforcing the narrative is powerful. But I mean some stuff is just so pants-on-head obvious. I just don't get how people can honestly not see it.

If society started saying the sky is purple, I don't care if every last motherfucker tried to tell me it was purple, and use shaming tactics when I pointed to the sky and implored them to look again, I would still believe it was blue.

I just don't get it. Poor guy, my heart goes out to him. I'm an introvert too, but it's not the death sentence it sounds like. The pill was bitter, you can watch the process just by browsing my Reddit history. But after a couple of months I now feel like I've had a new lease on life. Got laid two weeks ago, which was pretty great. But what's most important has truly been learning to not give a fuck, and the concept of nexting a ho over losing sleep over one.

I miss the dewey eyed optimism of the Matrix. But I thank TRP every time I read a story like this, and know I'll never be giving some floozy half of my net worth.

[deleted] · 2014-03-24T19:29:37+00:00

This chap's wife had him down as a total chump, so much so she could just come right out and say she's sleeping with other men. And she knew full well he wouldn't be getting any from other women. If you're that bad you really need to take a good look at yourself in the mirror.

[deleted] · 2014-03-24T19:31:54+00:00

My ex wife pulled shit similar to that with me. Thinking back to that time makes me want to put my foot through the wall.

trudatness · 2014-03-25T04:22:08+00:00

That was so brutal... I had to stop reading it.

Fucking depressing. She's ruthlessly abusing that guy.

Fucking remorseless monster that she is.

Needless to say he needs to cut his losses and move on. There's absolutely no way possible anything of value can even be remotely salvaged from that kind of savage manipulation and obsessive cruelty.

That woman is a sociopath. That dude could drop dead tomorrow and she'd be happy about the social security checks that start to roll in.

He needs to serve her with papers yesterday - and then file a restraining order against her to get her out of the house. Remove her like a tumor.

Remember though, as grotesque as this woman seems, all you have to do to remove power from a sick fuck like that is to put them in your rear view mirror.

They only have power when it affects you emotionally. Once you reach the peak of the "Giving Zero Fucks" mountain - the whole thing becomes non-consequential.

She's empowered now because she's at the apex point of alpha fucks beta bucks - but as soon as he divorces her the house of cards have a good chance of crumbling.

She'll cease to be a part time fuck toy for alphas, because the hypergamy switch will get kicked on. She'll turn to one of those dudes she's been fucking and make a power play for one of them to step up to full time status. My instinct tells me she'll get shot down.

Overnight she'll go from "poly superstar" to "divorced single mom".

Those naughty weekend ego trip getaway Friday nights will turn into her just getting banged out by dudes who don't want to commit.

Yeah... Yeah.. I'll see you next week.

It's hard to see from the inside that dude's situation, but he still holds the ace of spades in the card game. Her propped up self view is contingent upon how long he chooses to play to lose. The moment he starts playing to win - the entire dynamic changes radically.

Torps · 2014-03-24T18:57:40+00:00

Mfw when she had all these guys already lined up.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-03-24T22:18:15+00:00

What a beta faggot.

I am philosophically aligned with polyamory

Sucks when theory meets reality, doesn't it?

kinkydiver · 2014-03-24T22:35:42+00:00

That's an extra- large blue suppository that this man has to take. Ouch.

I feel like there's hope though. Being a 45- yo well-off professor sounds nice, and he could get some pretty young tail if he tried. I suspect he's overrating himself physically, what with the weight and the diabetes (if it's type2, but otherwise why mention it), but that can be fixed...

His wife may be the hottie now, but the tide may turn rather quickly against her. OP could even get another wife/familiy, whereas for her it's pretty much over already.

_grump · 2014-03-24T22:55:55+00:00

Am i the only one that became enraged after reading this? I can't figure out whether i should be angrier at the guy for being a total pushover or the woman for being a total cunt

bohemian_fappsody · 2014-03-24T23:37:31+00:00

If guys like that get suckered into polyamory, they should at least have the good sense to make rule number one be: "I will be banging hookers. The expensive kind. A lot." I bet this guy's wife's enthusiasm for polyamory would have waned once she realized he might actually get to enjoy the bodies of other women.

Mandeponium · 2014-03-25T01:53:53+00:00

Roissy's Maxim #12: When the love is gone, women can be as cold as if they had never known you.

DarkSayed · 2014-03-25T03:09:03+00:00

I am philosophically aligned with polyamory, so I was not overly reluctant.

Typical left-wing academics.

Fuck this guy, he deserves the brutal humiliation he is getting. It's cunts like him that go round denigrating other men for having "backward" traditional values.

FUCK this guy, I have no sympathy for him. He is a promulgator of society's ills, and he is reaping what he sowed.

incraved · 2014-03-24T20:24:53+00:00

Holy shit, this is like fucking textbook!

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Science_isthenewcool · 2014-03-25T00:04:12+00:00

1.The best thing for him to do is to divorce her and TELL THE KIDS WHY. They are teenagers they will understand that shit and will lose respect for their mother as a result. Sounds like he can take the temporary financial hit, as they will all be 18 soon and he's financially secure.

2.Dude is a catch! Extremely well off Professor in his 40s, is capable of boning 20 somethings from University, 1000 X better than his selfish, hateful, uber-bitch of a wife. When he does, he will realize that this was the best thing that could have happened. She is 44 or something, her sexual value has basically expired and she is working whats left of it for everything she can get. (Understandable)

3.He will hopefully become familiar with the Red Pill and his life will forever change for the better. I hope to fuck someone links him the red pill.

MattBoBat · 2014-03-24T21:06:35+00:00

If this guy would have actually gone out and landed a few younger hotties, I bet his bitch of a wife would have been on her knees begging for them to end the open relationship...

borderrat · 2014-03-25T03:19:05+00:00

She didn't want to "suddenly" try this out of the blue. She was likely already involved with others but he is weak enough that she broached it as a new idea. So he agreed, she went full bore, and now he's complaining. I have no sympathy for him.

[deleted] · 2014-03-25T03:39:50+00:00

This looks like a really bad netorare manga.

Also, just goes to show you guys, men who are "philosophical" and "intellectual" types don't get shit!

I mean, yea, there's times when you need to use your brain. But learn your goddamn field man!

You can't wage war against Genghis Khan without knowing what kinda weapons he's sporting, what kinda training his men have got, or how many men he has.

Just like that, YOU CAN'T FUCKING THINK THAT YOU WILL BE GETTING LAID AS EASY AS A FUCKING WOMAN CAN!!!

This guy, reeks of weakness. And only weak men claim to the world, "I am evolved beyond your brutish behavior. I do not need to rely on your savage methods."

Sometimes, shit needs shoveling. And no amount of ignoring it will make it go away.

He played the game thinking he was on equal terms with a bitch. He lost.

Now, let's just hope he grabs his balls and stand up again because, that's the only thing that counts, for a man.

How many people messaged this loser?

sting129 · 2014-03-24T20:26:04+00:00

not gonna read that, not gonna read that, not gonna read that.....fuck it, I'm reading it...

Doomsday_ · 2014-03-24T20:59:25+00:00

Opening up a previously-monogamous LTR is almost always a bad idea.

That said, it seems like this guy has major issues. If his wife doesn't respect him and isn't sexually attracted to him, it doesn't matter whether they are "poly" or not; either way he is going to end up sexually frustrated and unfulfilled.

alt30313 · 2014-03-24T22:15:14+00:00

SevenAugust 1 day ago

Your problem is inside you, not inside your wife. Do not divorce her, she is a great value in your life, as you recognize.

Consider building your confidence with sex workers. Fuck them with dildos, leave your junk in your pants. Also try escort services for actual dates (dinner, dancing, etc). You have been out of the game and could benefit from some practical experience being romantic with a new person.

What?

hoodis 19 hours ago

You guys have reached a new low. I cant even adequately express just how fucked up this entire thread is. These people have been married for decades. By his own admission they have had a wonderful relationship for the vast majority of that. They hit a bump and everyone took that chance to swoop in and destroy what little hope he still had. And you did that based on a few paragraphs written when he was down and with no word whatsoever from the other side. You convinced him to divorce the love of his life, the mother of his children. You are probably the most destructive thing that has ever happened to this family. You guys are sick. You need help.

lol

throwaway00120012 15 hours ago*

If your SO of thirty years suddenly stops sleeping with you so she can have sex with two other men, then when you confront her about it, she guilt trips you about having emotional issues that YOU need to deal with by YOURSELF and that it's not her fault, I would NOT fault you for considering divorce or for others recommending divorce.

And he makes it clear that he's tried to communicate his feelings to her multiple times, and he's even gone as far as to show her this thread, and her response was "You've not even given polyamory a chance"? You've got to be kidding me.

I'm sorry, but divorce and no divorce are both valid options here, but I side with divorce as I would not want to spend one more month with someone that emotionally abusive, someone who takes their shit and blames their SO for it. "Bump in the road" indeed.

26ounce · 2014-03-25T02:03:48+00:00

That post is an absolute train wreck and the only good coming from it is that it serves as an example to others. That poor sap needs her out of his life immediately. I hope that the kids are on the older side of the teen scale, that way they will understand what is happening and be less damaged from her actions.

On the upside, at their ages she is just trading on her lingering SMV. There is a very good chance a truckload of karma is heading for her and she has destroyed the possibility of a happy family life into her quickly approaching old age. He has better long term options if he can get his head straight.

Hyooge · 2014-03-24T21:52:42+00:00

This genuinely upsets me. I cannot fathom how something can reach this futile and pathetic a state. He's going to need a lot of selfishness and drive to sort himself out and find more women.

sailorJery · 2014-03-24T21:42:45+00:00

Is polyamory congruent at all with TRP?

thatguylikeaaronhall · 2014-03-24T22:59:54+00:00

Beta as fuck.

CottonmouthJohn · 2014-03-24T23:08:09+00:00

God that was depressing

JJTheJetPlane5657 · 2014-03-24T23:21:21+00:00

God unsubscribing from that subreddit was the best thing I've ever done. It's full of beta whiners, stupid pictures, and Tumblrinas.

jkonine · 2014-03-25T00:41:40+00:00

His wife is a fucking cunt.

Dreamtrain · 2014-03-25T00:51:01+00:00

That reads like a true nightmare.

tlazolteotl · 2014-03-25T01:43:51+00:00

About 6 months ago, my wife suggested opening our marriage and embracing polyamory.

The first weekend of openness, my wife contacted a recently divorced colleague from her former job.

It's been said here many times, but it bears repeating. If she suggests an open relationship, she has someone specific in mind.

anonidentitycrisis · 2014-03-25T02:19:46+00:00

this made me sick. my gf of 5 years has recently been receptive to my request for a threesome. she wants it on HER terms though. after reading this I am starting to think it will just open up a can of worms down the road and she will want some kind of reciprocation for letting me fuck another woman. fuck that shit. not worth it.

Deebo33 · 2014-03-25T03:25:28+00:00

I honestly feel bad for dude.

Denzak · 2014-03-25T06:15:31+00:00

I'm 45, male, a little over weight but in good shape, diabetic but it's well controlled. I'm fairly good looking.

good shape

diabetic

if that's type 2, does not compute.

[deleted] · 2014-03-25T08:07:25+00:00

Seriously...what the FUCK do these people expect to happen.

cooltrip · 2014-03-25T09:25:41+00:00

There is a qualified term for this: IDIOT

SupALupRT · 2014-03-25T12:21:41+00:00

Only a moron wouldn't realize this is how it's going to go. A women basically just has to be willing to spread her legs to get laid. We have to put in some effort.

Tastysalad101 · 2014-03-25T13:40:47+00:00

Just reading that makes me depressed.

Starrucca · 2014-03-25T19:06:28+00:00

The funny thing which no one seems to have mentioned is that he's got cash, he's fairly good looking, he's a college professor, and he's not in terrible shape. He might be a beta bitch but if he was just a single guy, we'd tell him he had all the tools needed to crush ass.

She even told him that all of his complaining and bitching has made this his fault. If he listened to her, swallowed the pill, and took some action, he could spin so many 28 year old plates his wife would come back begging to zip things back up. Instead, his hamster brain is spinning and he just wants to beg & plead with her and then come to reddit for confirmation that he's not at fault.

[deleted] · 2014-03-25T19:09:00+00:00

Im so mad right now.

[deleted] · 2014-03-24T20:04:57+00:00

Poor bastard...

RP_Magnus · 2014-03-25T00:54:04+00:00

"a little over weight but in good shape, diabetic but it's well controlled."

Lesson here is don't fuck up your health and get ED from making bad lifestyle choices. He is obviously in denial about how bad his health is. If your a type 2 diabetic you seriously fucked up your health. If you were a woman would you want to put up with a man who has ED because he couldn't be bothered to eat less junk food or work out every once in a while?

The red pill gives shit to women who get fat and then have their libido drop like rocks. We should give the same shit to men who don't take care of themselves and get diabetes and ED leaving their wives in the same sexual desert. Fuck that shit.

TL:DR Your health is everything. Fuck up your health fuck up your life.

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Kalepsis · 2014-03-25T10:00:28+00:00

Ok... before this all gets out of hand, I want to put in my two cents.

Poly is awesome. IF you're going into a relationship with that status clearly defined at the beginning. I have been with my current SO (she fucking earned her promotion from plate) for two years. She's had other boyfriends, I've had other plates. We've had threesomes. I can go find a piece any time I want and I still have someone at home with dinner ready if I tell her to make it. She can go fuck other guys if she wants (she hasn't in months) as long as she follows my rules: use condoms, and if I tell her I want her home on a specific night she will be home. In short, I command my household, which is the way it has to be if you want the best of both worlds. I give her an inch. If she tries to take a mile I yank her leash and spank her. This is what is expected of a man, and if you don't do this for your women, especially in a poly relationship, you will get no respect in return.

The guy in the story made fatal mistakes and it is a lesson every "regular guy" needs to learn if he wants to open a relationship:

Virgins at marriage. Dumbest fucking thing ever. No explanation needed.
Opening a relationship after 20 years. Just get divorced. She doesn't want you any more because she's used to you and bored with it.
White Knight. If he wanted to stay married to her he should have turned hardcore alpha as soon as she suggested an open relationship. You can not be the homemaker dad type and expect your wife to come home for your floppy cock when she's hot enough to pull tail that's 15 years younger. She wants excitement. Be a fucking man and give it to her.

Ultimately, my point is that the longer a relationship goes, the harder it is to open it. Among actual poly people (those of us who have always lived the lifestyle rather than bringing it up as an excuse to ride the CC), divorce rates are extremely low and our relationship satisfaction stays higher for MUCH longer. Maintain frame and set rules, earn respect, and don't be a whining little bitch.

Tl;Dr: fuck you, you lazy piece of shit. Read the words

[deleted] · 2014-03-24T23:34:36+00:00

Dude. I'd rather be on death row than let this bitch get away with this shit..

edtofe01 · 2014-03-25T03:15:30+00:00

I feel so at home here , fml

Jsnoopy93 · 2014-03-25T03:17:11+00:00

What the fuck. This man needs to grow a pair.

[deleted] · 2014-03-25T03:53:04+00:00

If I were in this guy's situation I'd swallow my pride and avoid divorce for the time being. That way both them and their kids have a stable lifestyle with a high standard of living.

He said they don't fight, and he doesn't have any complaints about her other than the fact that she fucks other dudes. They have three teenage kids, a divorce will fuck them up.

I realize some might consider this blue pill, but he needs to suck it up for now, at least until his kids are all moved out. If they were childless, fine, drop the whore. But the kids don't deserve that kind of punishment.

ThisisMalta · 2014-03-25T04:34:26+00:00

I pray this guy is trolling, this is so bad. This is why men need TRP mindset, no one should let a person walk all over them like this. What an awesome example of everything this Sub can help fix.

pogiface · 2014-03-25T05:02:24+00:00

He needs a trip to Asia, Thailand to help fix that issue. In fact, he is a professor and if he has money saved up he could just abandon the whole ship and retire in thailand, live out his days with plenty of women. He could teach while there. Complete exit

johnnight · 2014-03-25T12:25:08+00:00

This guy has been reduced to the status of a home appliance. Nobody wants to fuck the dish washing machine.

the99percent1 · 2014-03-25T12:45:14+00:00

Guess what happens next? Reddit telling the guy to suck it up and take it like a man!

libchh · 2014-03-26T10:34:47+00:00

This post depresses me. Can someone link to the thread about the guy who's girlfriend said "lets take a break so I can fuck around on vacation" and it turned out the guy started boning someone else instead, which obviously drove her nuts.

Stories like this I just feel so bad for the guy because it is his fault for not putting the foot down. It's just like a child will constantly test what shit they can get away with, but when a woman does it it drains your soul dry.

nataliieportman · 2014-03-29T10:19:08+00:00

LOL This is fucking pathetic. Jesus Christ...

[deleted] · 2014-04-10T20:54:11+00:00

Erectile dysfunction my ass. He subconciously does NOT want to have anything to do with his wife's pussy. Everything is OK with his D. Just divorce...

Inviernosolo · 2014-03-24T19:34:22+00:00

Cannot be true. Too obvious.

myrpaccount · 2014-03-25T11:18:11+00:00

If this is true, the wife has fucked herself. My guess is the guy will recover after a bit of time, maybe even faster if he finds his way here. He seems like he is a capable guy and fairly driven so he will end up with someone younger than his wife.

The wife will quickly find out that the guys she's banging don't want a LTR with a post wall slut and end up wondering why her husband is such an asshole.

watereol · 2014-03-24T21:24:27+00:00

What an idiot. Sad to say, but survival of the fittest etc.

[deleted] · 2014-03-25T07:07:14+00:00

He lives with her. He could easily put something in her food to kill her libido.

Title	Beta husband falls for the "polyamory trap" lets other men fuck his wife. Guess what happens?
Author	Clauderoughly
Upvotes	292
Comments	390
Date	March 24, 2014 5:10 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/218sam/beta_husband_falls_for_the_polyamory_trap_lets/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/beta-husband-falls-for-the-polyamory-trap-lets.230658 https://theredarchive.com/post/230658

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