Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheat

AnniaT · 2020-10-03T14:45:00+00:00

"ShE NEeDS To CoMmUNiCAtE"

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-10-03T15:11:57+00:00

My heart sank reading this. She’s working her ass off to basically fund their affair. Sickening.

What real advise are people giving her!? Better not be tO cOmMuNiCaTe 🤦🏼‍♀️

Jinxhourglass · 2020-10-03T14:38:21+00:00

God I hope she dumps them and leaves them homeless.

BasieSkanks · 2020-10-03T14:37:56+00:00

So, whilst she’s been working hard her useless, sorry sack of shit, scrote of a husband was banging her best friend? This is an FDS rescue mission. She needs to throw the whole man and friend out the door.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2020-10-03T15:09:26+00:00

Sweet Baby Jesus.

This woman needs to listen to her bodily reactions - Like she has been poisoned! because that right there is the most fucked up venomous toxic marriage and best friend combo-situation EVER. I can feel her pain of betrayal its paralyzing!

She needs to leave and never look back.

kettleodumplins · 2020-10-03T14:50:03+00:00

She would not still have to pay for her useless husband after the divorce is final. The fact that she is even concerned about continuing to bankroll this troll is going to make this FDS Mission: Impossible.

FluffandRainclouds · 2020-10-03T15:12:45+00:00

Lawyer up and do your best to get out of alimony. Good God he is ungrateful. This is ludicrous beyond words.

gcfemtastic · 2020-10-03T15:19:10+00:00

Wait, so basically this wife is being pressured into subsidizing and supporting her husbands unemployed, homeless sidepiece?

Is this real life? Is this woman just a walking doormat?

Imagine working 70 hours a week to keep your husband and his pussy-on-demand fed and housed.

Just bury me. I'm dead.

Karthasis11 · 2020-10-03T15:16:32+00:00

Luckily she was stating in the comments that she will divorce him. Apparently emptying the bank account isn't so easy without getting a lawyer involved (which she should do), because they are married, according to other commentators.

So yes, luckily she is dumping his ass.

hilariouslystated · 2020-10-03T16:05:20+00:00

I hate to say it but some men do deserve to be kicked out after they lose their job...even in the midst of a pandemic. If they're able bodied and not contributing financially to the household then it's time for him to go.

_nylea · 2020-10-03T15:40:25+00:00

God even I feel like I’ve been poisoned and/or stabbed in the gut just from reading this. I hope this woman comes to her senses and leaves these two out on the streets.

But how generous of him to offer her the chance to have sex with her friend too! 🥰🥰 Maybe she should stay!

youdipthong · 2020-10-03T14:47:49+00:00

Wtf. She needs to drop them both. And she’ll be better off mentally and financially doing so. What even is this story

crazykitten27 · 2020-10-03T15:08:33+00:00

For the love of whatever God you believe in someone message this woman and send her here!

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2020-10-03T16:10:53+00:00

Ugh I just saw this. If my name was on the lease I would have kicked them the fuck out. How you gonna just decide another bitch is staying in my house? Dude would have gotten any and every object thrown in his direction. Even if my name wasn’t on the lease I would have taken my $12/hr, 70 hour working ass tf out the door. Good luck trying to survive with broke bitch. I could never do something like that with a friends boyfriend/husband. Both are fucked up yet OP is the one crying in the bathroom. Fuck that shit.

7102a · 2020-10-03T16:51:39+00:00

Honestly I expect this shit from men. The real heartbreaker here is that her BEST FRIEND lied to her and betrayed her like this. I could never do that to my best friend even if her man was the hottest, richest dude on earth with the biggest dick I've ever seen.

2020-10-03T16:22:57+00:00

I'm just imagining them sitting on the couch with smug smiles on their faces and the husband is all like 'WhUt's WrOnG HuNny? ThReEsOmE???'. I think this would be justifiable murder. I hope she rakes them across the coals.

Half_Halt · 2020-10-03T16:01:25+00:00

Imagine for just a moment the reaction if a man had posted that he came home to find his wife cuddling with his bff. The chorus of "REEEEEEEE" would rend the heavens asunder.

2020-10-03T15:41:23+00:00

This happened to me. Except there was violence and sexual harassment from both parties.

He was alt-right and "traditional."

I threw up so much I thought I was pregnant.

Now I'm (happily) divorced, but they're still trying to play family, and she's trying to be the boys' stEPmOm.

I should have never married. I was pressured into it by a father figure who I trusted. (Of course, an anti-feminist)

THROWRA_justfml · 2020-10-04T03:19:24+00:00

I’m the OP of that post and I got linked here. I replied to a few of you but got messages from the automod saying they were deleted because I didn’t pick a flair. Too tired to go back and reply again, but thank you for your support. I’m here and reading and listening.

bye-raspberry · 2020-10-03T16:36:03+00:00

I hope she takes everything he has and then some in the divorce

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-10-03T16:33:29+00:00

The last paragraph is what gets me. Women making posts like this KNOW reddit hates women and is ready to blame them for any and every kind of relationship conflict. She readily blames herself for "neglecting" her "wifely duties" for the crime of working to support two people alone, so reddit won't have to.

punyhumannumber2 · 2020-10-03T16:39:53+00:00

Divorcing him and throwing the both of them out onto the street would feel amazing.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-10-03T16:55:36+00:00

The lady from that post should take him up on his "poly" offer and straight up start seeing other men. Watch how quickly he moves to shut that down.

a LOT of men don't really understand polygamy. The SECOND you bring other men into the equation, they get weird.

princessofthekingdom · 2020-10-03T16:23:20+00:00

Poor thing, goddess. She's done nothing to deserve this hell.

heleninthealps · 2020-10-03T17:43:19+00:00

Omg I can not imagen the stomach ache she got.... having your husband and best friend be like "Hey please go work 70 hours/week to pay food and living for both of us while we're fucking at home! ...

Seriously I hope she gets into a fucking rampage rage and just kicks them out and burns all their stuff

GingeroftheDead · 2020-10-03T16:22:51+00:00

This is the most disgusting thing I've read today.

cupittycakes · 2020-10-04T00:45:00+00:00

Also, never ever be comfortable with your husband or SO hanging out alone with another woman, whether she your best friend or not

Do not let your "best friends" get "close" to your husband or let her push herself deep into your life. Have healthy boundaries

Your SO should be nice and polite to your friends, but remain on "acquaintance" lvl

IAteTheDragon · 2020-10-03T17:52:26+00:00

Throuple Shmouple. Fck off 😠

chelseachain · 2020-10-03T17:46:20+00:00

What the fuck did I just read

Shinygoldendragonfly · 2020-10-03T17:03:30+00:00

I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, Imagine doing this to your spouse and best friend who is paying for your living. Honestly wouldn't mind either of them getting hit by a car accidentally. My heart breaks for her, I hope she leaves their broke asses. One thing I'm glad for her is that she doesn't have children with this man so it seems.

SoybeanApocalypse · 2020-10-03T18:14:41+00:00

The fact that she "owns up" to not doing "widely duties" is so insane. Women are so gaslit

2020-10-03T18:35:11+00:00

I hate how she keeps referring to her as her best friend. I feel so bad for. This kind of thing could have happened to me in the past but it could never happen now. There is no way. I will always have a plan to leave. I will never stay. I won’t hide in the bathroom, I will walk out the door. My heart goes out to her and I know she will leave.

honeybeeroll · 2020-10-03T20:06:59+00:00

Tell me this isn't real, that these two absolutely pieces of shit asked her to support BOTH their unemployed, cheating asses? Meaning she should work 100 hours a week then? This is so awful, working 70 hrs a week and both her husband and best friend betray her. Hanging out together alone for years and then this, you see how they don't have any respect for her.

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-04T07:25:17+00:00

"I've never felt jealous or threatened that they have hung out together just the two of them over the years."

This is what comes of trying to be the Cool Girl and being okay with your partner hanging out 1-1 with another woman. Ladies, never accept this behavior: we're seeing the consequences right here.

Ladies, trust your instincts.

x3meteor · 2020-10-03T18:54:37+00:00

ahhhh wifey needs to leave asap and never communicate to either of those two ever again!! gross

Title	Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheat
Author	Bombs_
Upvotes	312
Comments	92
Date	October 3, 2020 2:32 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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