Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.

Candid_Check_4843 · 2021-09-24T00:31:49+00:00

If he is a king, then why does he live with his mom, have no car, and have bad finances? Very confusing

saint-jezebel · 2021-09-24T00:35:58+00:00

I remember dating a guy who asked me about my credit, said he wanted a partnership, to build, 50/50 and had the nerve to ask what I bring to the table. I told him I don’t work with a brother, his true love is still out there. He acted as if I was losing out. Draining. I’m living my best life.

Pickmeisha, if you’re lurking, stop building him. I promise, he will leave.

preppykat3 · 2021-09-24T01:34:14+00:00

I’m starting to think these are just men pretending to be women online lmao

purasangria · 2021-09-24T00:43:40+00:00

No. Nope. Hell no.

Do not build a man. He will act like he did it all himself and then leave once you are successful in building him up.

thepsychopathhunter · 2021-09-24T01:04:30+00:00

Eww. Why on earth should a woman put HIS bills in her name? Nope. Men are not our responsibility. Women owe it to themselves to invest in themselves — their college bills, their career, their dreams - not some weird scrote’s. He’s not a child, we didn’t birth him and we don’t have to raise him. Let these dusty ass men rot because if you build them up they’ll exploit your resources and build a bob will be gallivanting off to a new victim with his new upgraded “status.” I really hope these Twitter accounts are just fake and men are pretending to be women because the pickmeism is off the charts with this one.

throwaway715123 · 2021-09-24T00:56:09+00:00

Why are pickme's kings always broke?

pastelitosimpatico · 2021-09-24T01:04:35+00:00

I hated the sc so much I almost downvote your post sis lmao this is is so pathetic

East-Willingness513 · 2021-09-24T01:51:54+00:00

This isn’t partnership, this is adoption.

londochig · 2021-09-24T03:59:37+00:00

I'm really tired of women being expected to take on the roles of both genders. Men have become irresponsible children.

Technusgirl · 2021-09-24T00:31:19+00:00

Poor pick-meisha, as soon as a guy gets successful in life he suddenly feels like he can do better and completely forgets about the woman who helped him get there and ditches her for another woman. I see it, every single time.

catlady4u · 2021-09-24T00:58:17+00:00

I am embarrassed for this woman. Idk what else to say.

SakuraGirl88 · 2021-09-24T00:34:27+00:00

That's neither a man nor a king. That's a child. "Elevate our men". Yeah tell that mess to Nicki Minaj 🤮

Aboredperson1211 · 2021-09-24T00:43:39+00:00

HAHAHAHA IS SHE HIS MUM?

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-09-24T01:13:38+00:00

Elevate the men who make more and still beat us? Wut? Nah. A guy that can’t manage the most simple of life’s tasks doesn’t deserve the life support.

t3ddi · 2021-09-24T01:32:02+00:00

The use of the word king is a red flag.

WhoAreYouWhoAreWe · 2021-09-24T01:37:58+00:00

I’ve never known any king throughout history that didn’t have a place to live and couldn’t pay his own bills I think she meant to say bum

asianinindia · 2021-09-24T02:08:23+00:00

I feel embarassed reading this because I helped build multiple imbeciles who always then went off with their wife after eating into my support. God bless FDS.

Edit. They were not married. I meant they found the woman they wanted to marry while dating me.

yeahhh22 · 2021-09-24T04:22:48+00:00

Men don't even do that for us. So um yeah. No

BarbwireBoots · 2021-09-24T01:28:43+00:00

She’ll figure it out one day, the hard way. I just hope no one takes her “advice”

shockingupdate · 2021-09-24T02:23:03+00:00

Since when do kings need help finding a place to live, sis? Where his castle? 🤣

w0rmsongs · 2021-09-24T01:38:02+00:00

I get heart palpitations reading this.

AmethistStars · 2021-09-24T04:42:01+00:00

I think she is confusing a relationship with charity lol.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-24T01:49:20+00:00

Are there really people this stupid?

MacDurce · 2021-09-24T02:37:57+00:00

Kings generally have houses, cars and money to pay their bills so when he acts like a king I'll treat him like one

goddessintheflesh · 2021-09-24T05:08:43+00:00

Not surprised to see this being posted by a black woman. Yikes. As black women we've been taught that we have to settle for bums and scraps.

fds_throwaway_4_u · 2021-09-24T01:42:01+00:00

Fuck. No.

onceuponasea · 2021-09-24T01:56:22+00:00

Lmaoooo omg this is ridiculous. Whaaaat. And as if he would ever do the same and if he did it’s because he wants to control and abuse you.

quasarbar · 2021-09-24T02:47:12+00:00

This is horrifying.

I used to have that attitude toward my cluster-B disordered useless ex. I didn't care that he lived with his parents in his late twenties. I didn't care that he didn't have a real job. I was willing to take care of him, because I loved him.

I shudder looking back on that.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-09-24T02:45:04+00:00

Oh god this is so cringe and a recipe for disaster. He's gonna force her to play mommy, wreck her car, put her into debt and then probably cheat.

If he's not willing to change on his own he definitely is not going to change with you aiding him.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2021-09-24T02:49:29+00:00

Lol a king with no kingdom nor riches. Make that make sense

Japanese-Spaghetti · 2021-09-24T02:59:35+00:00

I hope she’s joking. Is he disabled? Is he a child? Why would any women take care of any grown man???

anotherdamnloser · 2021-09-24T03:08:42+00:00

Wow gross, you want to baby a grown man child? No thanks!

2021-09-24T04:26:24+00:00

I think I threw up in my mouth a little.

exhalefierceness · 2021-09-24T03:15:15+00:00

Or they will treat you like shit so they can make you leave

smilodon91 · 2021-09-24T04:35:27+00:00

Wish I had come here 15 years ago. I lifted my NV ex from poverty to wealth. My income qualified us for a house. My furniture furnished the house. (He brought one desk.. and it was ugly). My income bought additional furniture and top-of-the line appliances. I introduced him to my financial advisor who has since built his wealth more than mine. I also made my LV ex boyfriend more wealthy inadvertently by sharing investment info with him. Geez, I should go on OLD with the headline "Date me and get rich!" Meanwhile, I earn less each year. What the eff is god doing?

shedipity · 2021-09-24T05:40:45+00:00

wow some women are so desperate!!! this is just embarrassing

OrganicMasonJars · 2021-09-24T03:04:37+00:00

Is there a punchline to this joke that didn’t get posted? Because, Jesus Christ.

2021-09-24T04:30:29+00:00

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ThatIntention1 · 2021-09-24T05:43:23+00:00

Lmao @ this girl

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-09-24T05:51:05+00:00

he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.

If he wants to stay with you he would.

Title	Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.
Author	saint-jezebel
Upvotes	568
Comments	81
Date	September 24, 2021 12:28 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pu8fx1/make_sure_hes_complete_because_if_you_build_a_man/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/make-sure-hes-complete-because-if-you-build-a-man.1074674 https://theredarchive.com/post/1074674

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