Keep getting better as a man and you will get more pussy with age

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2022-02-28T05:58:50+00:00

I'm 31. I'm loving my life and the activities I enjoy... where I constantly meet new beautiful women. I honestly don't know why it's happening, but I have sexual energy with a lot of them.

I think it's because I'm contagiously happy, fun, dress well, and just use a little bit of eye contact...

flowingandrolling · 2022-02-28T04:16:17+00:00

Agreed same here old dudes are slaying you can too. It’s all confidence

FIVE_6_MAFIA · 2022-02-28T09:05:47+00:00

I agree but I don't really want hookups...I just want one loyal chick. Pipe dream, I know

lana_del_reymysterio · 2022-02-28T06:21:53+00:00

I'm 25 and I've noticed it keeps getting easier and easier each year.

Last year was the most hookups I've ever had and that was even with losing a few months due to lock down.

leureater · 2022-02-28T04:14:37+00:00

But is it just muscle and age/successful business? Or do you also look attractive enough, have developed a better personality but look like a 5 on a good day or is it your "idgaf" attitude now? Because I've heard with age, people stop caring less and less...so is that also a factor?

btrpb · 2022-02-28T12:48:43+00:00

As a 44 year old I concur. Bank, dress, physique, career, confidence, experience. Been banging a series of girls mid 20s. Life is good. But I've spent time getting to where I am.

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-02-28T13:51:49+00:00

it's a catch 22 tho, I'm 40 and don't want to deal with the drama of a 25-year-old, yeah sex is easy but I rather just date someone older even if it takes longer to get sex because the drama is not worth the pussy. also it does switch women over 45 have no drama and just want to fuck however most 45+ are over weight

SuaveFuck · 2022-02-28T13:52:06+00:00

i had no chances, i simply had NO CHANCES in my 20s due to very insane parents. my 30s i wasted with "sensible" life decisions, which involved learning to self-improve.

my aim is to be a suave george clooney pussy magnet by 55. well off, good looking, fit....its still possible, i guess.

KeepItTidyZA · 2022-02-28T11:09:51+00:00

can attest to this 38yo, I'm in the best shape of life (and I was always quite built). Keeping your hair helps ALOT. so that should be priority no1. if you're balding take ACTIVE measures to stop it. I've been on medication since I was 23.

ld20r · 2022-02-28T13:52:59+00:00

On the contrary though, there are loads of guys out there who have no intentions of improving themselves or working out and still have no problems attracting partners.

Why is that? Because they were exactly in the right place, at the right time and put themselves out there for the right Opportunity to present itself.

Don’t get me wrong self improvement and working on yourself is great, but it’s also not a magic pill or guarantee to attracting partners.

The only certainties in dating and also in life is that if you put yourself out there enough the opportunities will come and then it’s up to you to take them and seize the moment.

Self improvement without provocative action is useless. You can’t get fitter from reading about push ups, you have to go out there and Do the reps.

Value is also subjective too because what one lady might consider of value could be entirely different from another. Every guy and girl has different definitions of values and what they want in a partner and you can’t quantify it into one singular box.

The reason why dating gets better as you age is because a good majority of people have more Opportunities and options (especially in the online world) so the more opportunities you have the Luckier you get, and the luckier you get the more success you will ultimately have. It’s all connected to one another.

ksmith11011 · 2022-02-28T04:47:16+00:00

I’m 35, I’ve had so many women 20-25 basically throwing it me. I never had any intent to go after women much younger than me, it’s just the reality that they’re what is the most interested.

It really makes me wonder why there’s such a stigma about guys going for younger women when clearly the men are not the ones with the age gap preference. I like women my own age, I guess they’re more interested in men 50+ lol

willgo-waggins · 2022-02-28T04:19:32+00:00

It gets even better than that as you get older and I’m not sure where it will stop. I’m 51 and it’s like shooting fish in a barrel. My primary FWB is 32 and the one before her was 28.

theashesstir · 2022-02-28T11:36:40+00:00

I'm here to second this! ☝️☝️ 38 and forever alone in my teens, desperate & thirsty through my 20s . Only the last 3 yrs have I started to get it

Kurbalija · 2022-02-28T05:18:01+00:00

idk, would rather be married with 43.

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-02-28T13:58:49+00:00

Appreciate you posting this. I'm 25 and have made lots of bad decisions, but feel I have the potential to get it turned around by 30. The one thing I've always found hard to deal with is the idea that my golden days of dating might be behind me. Happy to hear they don't have to be.

A93durand · 2022-02-28T16:29:41+00:00

AGREE WITH YOU - I ( BARBER 💈) KNOW MORE OLDER MEN WITH 2 BABY MOTHERS AND A GF THAT CLAP PRETTY CHEEKS BC THEY’RE INTO THEMSELVES COMPLETELY THAN MID-AGED ADULTS TRYING HARD TO BE LOYAL TO THAT ONE GIRL. BE LOYAL TO YOUR PATH NOT SOMEONE’S WORLD. YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT OTHERS WAKE UP THINKING EXCEPT YOURSELF.

zUltimateRedditor · 2022-02-28T22:04:08+00:00

Yup. My boy turned 41 on Friday, he’s 5’6 and Chinese/Filipino mixed.

He gets laid 2x-3x a week with different women.

He doesn’t use dating apps. All of them he meets at bars and they become enamored with him. It was insane to witness.

beasty7877 · 2022-02-28T07:21:30+00:00

But I don’t want to get pussy while being old. I’m tired of that “when you age” I want to slay while I’m young and vibrant in my 20s…. Not old and can’t go as hard in your late 30s and 40s. I know I’m not the only one who gets irritated with that “with age” bullshit

JaggermanJenson · 2022-02-28T11:46:40+00:00

Absolutely true. When I was 20 I thought this is the peak. Boy I was wrong. I'm 28 now and my sex life is better then ever and girls I've been with who are 30+ tell me it gets even better. I even noticed a lack of interest in younger girls (like 18-20) because most of them don't know what they want or even whats possible.

cloutier85 · 2022-02-28T08:33:14+00:00

What's the secret? Looking sharp / over 100k salary / in good shape / dress well / eat well / own place and car??

whatsnext20 · 2022-02-28T04:07:40+00:00

Thanks sir! this is motivation

parquinnien · 2022-02-28T13:07:04+00:00

But by the age of 43, I don’t want to keep on playing this game. I want to win by my 30s

Princess_Mei_Ling · 2022-02-28T04:50:52+00:00

For some reason when I was very young, I felt that any guy over 30 was ancient to me. I stayed away with one even he was only 28. I only went out with him twice but felt super awkward and uncomfortable to touch someone 8 yrs older than me.

mstislawsliwko · 2022-02-28T08:53:14+00:00

what about personality? What if I’m kinda emotionless and not talkative?

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xonbuhg · 2022-02-28T04:53:34+00:00

How fit are you? Have you measured your fitness age? Just curious because that seems to be pretty important to keep up to attract younger girls.

WearyFinding8 · 2022-02-28T12:28:41+00:00

I'm 22 getting 0 pussy

Snoo-62854 · 2022-03-01T00:32:21+00:00

I am feeling low, as usual, your post was something I was looking for. At least there is hope. Best wishes for you man 💙.

whatever_man12 · 2022-03-01T01:02:20+00:00

Buddy’s a tall, in shape, prob good looking white dude who does “security” and owns a franchise of gyms, lol guys this won’t apply to you 😂

oreopimp · 2022-02-28T10:27:38+00:00

True. 41 and I date 20-25 year olds on high end of beauty and mental scale. Sometime girls older if we vibe well.

Don't worry about wealth or business or any "tangible" bs wealth crap -- those things didn't exist on the savannah of 10k+ years ago where our sexual selectors evolved where you couldn't take much of anything with you on the move in a pre-agricultural society -- what was there, and is still here today, was fitness and social power.

Hit the gym lift weights drop fat and get fit (imo) and also work to become socially confident with women AND men. These are honest signals of your character and value that can't be faked. So not only do you know how to just be an attractive male offering potential sexual value and social value to the opposite sex (to her personally), you show that being social and surviving in different environments is a process that is something you are at ease with. I don't try to do this to impress women, but I just am that way and almost always every woman (even though I am not a natural extrovert, I'm more an introvert that has natural and learned qualities at being good with other people) I am with is often saying "do you just know everyone everywhere you go?" and sometimes I do know them but also quite often I'm like "oh him, never met him before in my life" and they usually say "had no idea it seems like you two knew each other well" and they get this look in their eye. Get good at making them give you that look. That is true wealth.

Lacy1986 · 2022-02-28T13:24:47+00:00

“It’s easier with money” is what he meant

goodgirllgonebad · 2022-02-28T07:55:00+00:00

100% It's all confidence!

letmereaddamnit · 2022-02-28T11:59:31+00:00

I'm getting back in shape and in the next few months I'll start an apprenticeship making 50k and up to 100k in 5 years. It's in a major city too so I'm getting my hopes up.

2022-02-28T13:50:52+00:00

37 Male here, and I can attest to this.

I have got more and better pussy as I get older. I started as a Late-bloomer. Lost my virginity mid-20s. And Last year (2021) was my best year. And my sex life keeps getting better.

u/Musclemonstersize -- as I am approaching my 40s, I am so happy to read this. It gives me confidence that my dating life will be better in the next few years.

EU-Howdie · 2022-02-28T14:59:51+00:00

I agree very much! I have since 32-33 very much panties dropping value, because as a (real) young guy I worked on myself and became "I"

My positive things ( which made me liked enough by a certain group of women to get a first date) were, are ... not using alcohol, no smoking, no drugs, a little job and a small house, looking for a LTR or marriage and wanting children in my life (and too being open to meet single mothers). I had many dates and some short relations like up to 2-3 years. And after years I found my partner, a widow, my woman for life, with 2 sons and (by now) 3 grandchildren (3 boys again). Happy together for twenty tears now.

Shit, I mean 20 years, is this a Freudian word-mistake? Oh, I definitely need therapy now !!

idkbbitswatev · 2022-02-28T15:24:01+00:00

This is what im looking for once I graduate physical therapy school next year, ill have my own money, abulity to get my own place, and ill be living like a king

2022-03-01T01:15:44+00:00

op has big dick energy

Key_Alfalfa_7757 · 2022-03-01T02:50:01+00:00

Been noticing this lately. It’s pretty a great feeling

Lonely_Man22 · 2022-03-01T04:23:46+00:00

I bet this dude is white.

blue_baphomet · 2022-02-28T05:44:12+00:00

As a woman I am genuinely speechless at this thread

Mysterious_Rhubarb67 · 2022-02-28T04:10:44+00:00

Absolutely! I second.

jpmtattoos · 2022-03-01T00:43:09+00:00

Thanks man. Finally someone telling me that college isn’t the peak of existence. I feel like I have so much more to go yet simultaneously running out of time bc everyone says that college is the “time of your life”

2022-02-28T15:56:31+00:00

Love it! Thanks. Patience and sustained effort. Just grind boys

H8beingmale · 2022-02-28T17:50:18+00:00

so you are still able to attract women in their 20s despite being in your 40s?

dat_expat · 2022-02-28T17:58:53+00:00

Thanx. I just needed to hear this. Keeps my hope circuit active.

jjboy91 · 2022-02-28T18:16:13+00:00

Maybe in your world but irl this is not happening my dude.

I have a good situation, house, I dress well, take care of my self. I have interesting hobbies, nice personally yet girls ain't interested period. Sure they smile and laugh when we talk but they don't see me as a potential partner. Two things I can't change, my height and ethnicity.

2022-02-28T18:25:38+00:00

Someone award this man

Victory4Life · 2022-02-28T18:57:24+00:00

Congrats bro. I’m actually close to your age and messed up my 20’s and 30’s being either the nice guy, or in my 30’s the socially inept guy following movies on how to attract women. Which of course is made by a bunch of nerds who have no clue how real attraction works. Also my career was floundering doing odd jobs. Now that I’m a few semesters shy of getting a masters and with no debt finally, I’m getting a new lease on life with my career. And I don’t want to blow it with women like I did in the past. So pray tell, where are you meeting younger women socially and what tips can you give to open them, especially if they’re surrounded by friends and the token angry butch girl who hates guys? If you moved to a new town for example with no friends or contacts, but in decent shape with a good job, what would you do?

frenchiveruti · 2022-02-28T19:11:39+00:00

Hah... I would be at peace of mind with this, if it wasn't for the fact that none of us will get to 45 in a world that can foster the idea of just having sex and fun, 20 years from now the world will be such a devastated scenario.

quantumactual · 2022-02-28T21:14:01+00:00

I’ve already got hot pussy and I’m young. Guess I don’t need to get better? I’ve achieved maximum man.

originalgainster · 2022-03-01T03:02:51+00:00

you can have all the muscle and "business" (whatever that means) you want. if you don't talk to girls, you will get none.

ruddywaters · 2022-02-28T04:58:23+00:00

This is golden.

mid-week-bevs · 2022-02-28T08:32:23+00:00

You just made my fcking day - I turn 29 in 2 days, have been fretting it because I am just getting back into the dating scene. My aim is to get back into shape by mid this year, so this actually makes me so happy to know it's not actually downhill from here: rather the start of something fckn fantastic. Cheers mate!

coasti33 · 2022-02-28T16:13:10+00:00

Since OP has gone younger from 45 to 43 over the past month, I predict he will get less pussy as he get even younger. Or he is just a lying bastard

Idealbug67 · 2022-02-28T21:39:42+00:00

im 16 slaying pussy left and right. jus be yourself, laid back, confident and give zero fucks what ppl think of you.

oreopimp · 2022-02-28T06:43:19+00:00

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WarningConfident · 2022-02-28T15:23:02+00:00

Just have a good fucking personality that’s it.

mckenna-rd · 2022-02-28T23:17:05+00:00

NoDatabase1552 · 2022-02-28T19:18:02+00:00

How often do you get called sir by low-20s women?

MissMacabre1987 · 2022-02-28T17:52:19+00:00

What a lovely way to talk about women

Srivastava123321 · 2022-02-28T04:27:35+00:00

Not where I live

itsyosariansnamesir · 2022-02-28T08:58:52+00:00

Yep - I’m 43 and keep thinking I’m too old, and also keep having 28-36 year old women coming after me like never before

lequanghai · 2022-02-28T10:01:25+00:00

Muscle, i understand. But could you be more specific about your business. I'm just curious.

mordan1 · 2022-02-28T14:09:31+00:00

So predatory sounding.

jogmanson00 · 2022-02-28T09:43:33+00:00

Thank you sir, this is great motivation.

Lotus_82 · 2022-02-28T07:38:38+00:00

Same. I’m 39 and the girls I date are 25 to 35 and there’s a lot of quality single women out there these days.

WeedInTheKoolaid · 2022-02-28T15:06:53+00:00

You said it.

Business = money = attention.

My experience, by far, is the attraction to (my) money.

caledonguy · 2022-03-01T02:44:41+00:00

Yo so i have this burning question. How do you deal with STDs/the idea of catching something. Have you caught anything? Get tested weekly? Even if you use rubber, going down on a girl or making out has risk for herpes. And herpes sucks.

Im in my early 20s banging one girl right now but I know sooner or later I'll end up w diff people again and it's wayyy risky to just raw dog.

Also, you ever plan on being married?

Tldr: I'm scared of herpes. whats the situation w you.?

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championchilli · 2022-02-28T08:39:17+00:00

Yeah I did my best in my late 30s onwards, I'm 45 now and still match with 18/19/20 yr olds on occasion, surprisingly less matches with women my age. No complaints.

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UupEmm · 2022-03-02T09:26:17+00:00

This is the most desperate Reddit post/comment section I’ve ever read. This dude is 40 LMFAO.

IntangibleRedditor · 2022-02-28T05:27:50+00:00

What is a vale?

some_guy_claims · 2022-02-28T06:07:32+00:00

So where are you finding these girls and how are you approaching successfully?

homeslice567 · 2022-02-28T07:04:57+00:00

What other value themes are there? You mentioned muscle and business so what other values are there?

MrLovingTiger · 2022-02-28T09:03:40+00:00

Yes but don't forget to approach, approach and approach

Mriconicdev · 2022-02-28T10:42:19+00:00

Facts

Morc-Glork · 2022-02-28T14:02:10+00:00

I’m working towards being a psychologist and musician on the side, I’m just doing my own thing. Hopefully the girls come with time

Emotional_Grape8449 · 2022-02-28T15:33:22+00:00

Are you sure? I own multiple real estates turning to 35 soon. Not having time for relationship/Roman because I’ve been busy working. I thought I am late with everything as I see my friends keep getting married and have kids. It is hard to sit at the family dinner answering a question when\where mrs. Right?

chainsaw0068 · 2022-02-28T15:38:41+00:00

Can confirm.

francescadabesta · 2022-02-28T17:59:15+00:00

Guess that wedding band comes off as well, eh?

josejuan4495 · 2022-02-28T18:02:59+00:00

You are preaching here Sr, long life to you!

This is what a lot of hypocrites here won’t really dare to say but it’s all about the looks and money for women and the “halo” effect . My respects to you

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Rome_Ham · 2022-02-28T20:32:13+00:00

I’m at 59 and I’m exhausted. M[24] I don’t even care anymore.

2022-02-28T21:46:29+00:00

What is "enough"

theosamabahama · 2022-02-28T23:46:16+00:00

I'm 27. My value is good conversation skills and musician status. I still need financial status. Once I'm in my 30s and getting a good pay (god's will), I imagine I will be getting tons of pussy in their 20s every month.

abanda510 · 2022-03-01T02:27:30+00:00

Any advice on how to do this?

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-03-01T03:04:53+00:00

Muscle and business sound like a sure fire way to attract a certain type of girl who becomes less besotted with you when your muscle and business decline

Lonely_Man22 · 2022-03-01T04:45:58+00:00

Damn, my roommates are fucking right now and I see this post as a notification while being unable to get a girl and still a virgin. I really want to die!

iiillililiilililii · 2022-03-02T13:13:24+00:00

Appreciate your seasonality but what about your inevitable sign of aging like sagged/wrinkled skin or loss of hair? Dont young females find that turnoff?

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Date	February 28, 2022 4:06 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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