We're all bombarded with men who say they have no luck in dating, how it's hard etc.

And then there is posts like yesterday about basically not putting any effort. I had a conversation in comments also recently when a guy admitted to not read women's bio on dating app as a power play and defended that. That correlates with what i see on apps. There are men who i date, and there are men who play mind games, pull some demands out of nowhere, and put minimal effort.

Then those same men would complain and say that women are choosers and they (men) have to take what's given. And they can't be picky. Well of course you can't, if you already weeded out any woman with standards and self respect. Maybe you should choose different standards and not just a woman who is fine with minimal to no effort.

Now, i understand that not all men, i don't even think the majority of men if my experience is anything to go by, but it's enough to talk about it.