What's the weirdest attraction cue you have?

AstronautLoveShack · 2022-08-14T21:57:38+00:00

Expressive eyebrows. Think Jack Black or Christian Slater.

HTML_Novice · 2022-08-14T21:51:46+00:00

One girl I used to see had a crooked tooth when she smiled, idk I found it pretty cute

poppy_blu · 2022-08-14T23:14:26+00:00

Oh wait I have a better one. I LOVE bald men.

RepresentativeSwan1 · 2022-08-15T01:18:25+00:00

Hip dips. Not extreme ones but I like slight hip dips that give the upper hip and quads more curve.

Hate seeing women get BBLs to fill out their hip dips and ending up looking like trannies because they misdiagnosed the issue and now their mid hip is the widest point of their hips.

Ideal hips are always widest at the height of the bottom of the crotch. So if you're a woman considering getting a BBL please ensure they don't make the middle (or even worse, the upper) part of your hip the widest point.

throwaway264757 · 2022-08-14T22:45:47+00:00

I've talked about this a lot on this sub but why not some more. I really like nervous cues. Like blushing, looking away (not making eye contact), stammering/stuttering, and trembling/shaking/squirming.

Barely-moral · 2022-08-14T23:05:30+00:00

Physical... I don't know. I can find pretty much any woman attractive so I never gave it too much tought. Maybe the fact that miss moral has central heterochromia in her eyes? The center around the pupil is kinda orange and the rest of the iris is grey/green ish. Quite an intense stare if you can hold it. I guess is not that weird.

Behavioral... The more times my name/pet name can be used in a paragraph the more of a positive reaction I get. Even when it gets ridiculous to the point of mentioning without any rhime nor reason or treating said name/pet name as a full sentence or saying it only to call for my attention for a second and then leaving.

I am aware the source of that is probably some trauma I don't want to adress but who cares.

Vtridolla · 2022-08-14T21:40:19+00:00

“Busting balls is a masculine trait BETA…. BETA MAAAAALE.”

Comedy style.

I really find it attractive how certain women move their mouths when they talk. Especially in Spanish, like I be talking to them and it just seems like they are so articulate with how they form their vowels, and ion know how to explain it but it’s my shit.

Physical I love a good hip dip, and nose arch.

h1shman · 2022-08-14T22:20:19+00:00

Nerdy girls in general

Girls with stuffed animals. I’ve only actually seen this one time and haven’t thought about why it was hot but something about the juxtaposition of her tenderly moving them out of the way before absolutely violating her. she had a fantasy about being dominated by a muscled out guy we spoke about before hand for context.

Big eyebrows. Absolutely hate the skinny eyebrow trend

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-08-14T22:58:48+00:00

Behaviour:

Girl that can playfully banter back, like you mentioned.
Girls that can challenge me. Beat me at chess or MTG and I'm going to want to fuck you on that very same table.
Wanting me. There's nothing that gets me more fired up than a girl clearly wanting to rip my clothes off.

Physical:

Nothing out the ordinary really comes to mind.

Edit:

I find blue eyes incredibly attractive. I usually struggle a bit with keeping eye contact, but when I'm talking to a pretty girl with blue eyes I can barely break eye contact.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-08-14T22:05:34+00:00

I guess the "weirdest" one is height. I like short people.

2022-08-15T05:26:06+00:00

Sanpaku eyes -- when you can see the white space under someone's irises. Examples: Timothee Chalamet, Billie Eilish, Bill Skarsgard. I don't know why it's always so hot to me, but it is.

w_a_worthy_coconut · 2022-08-14T21:59:25+00:00

Physical: Glasses. An ugly girl with glasses isn't magically hot to me, but on an average to above average girl? Glasses are somehow a plus. I literally never understood why some people pretend like a hot girl in glasses is somehow not hot. (Stupid cultural tropes are stupid, I guess.)

Behavioral: There's actually a lot. But I'd say having the right combination of sincerity and sweetness is super attractive. Some people are "nice," but insincere or performative at times. Some people are "honest," but have no regard for others or their feelings. A girl who can balance both is my dream. I guess I'm describing hot-key good mental health and emotional intelligence, which is sadly less common than it should be.

throwaway_pathcam · 2022-08-14T23:36:01+00:00

When a woman lies down on her stomach like the Pulp Fiction poster, huge turn-on

Genuinely making me laugh--being able to tell a funny story or react with wit is hugely attractive to me

Not that weird, but also garters + stockings are amazing

Unhappy-Slice-5098 · 2022-08-15T03:27:40+00:00

Short men, chubby guys with some belly fat (skinny fat with a belly) and a baby face. Also, hairless men (except for the head) but that is quite rare. Guys with very quiet voices and a quiet demeanor overall.

Basically, virgin. Not Chad. Haha. I like short chubby Asian men. I sort of had a crush on a super short Asian kid in middle school, he was shorter than me (I'm 5'3) and sadly he got bullied a lot for it. Really hope he is doing well wherever he is now

poppy_blu · 2022-08-14T23:08:13+00:00

I like high T men. And my theory is they are actually less conventionally attractive — they tend to have mismatched or heavy or goofy features compared to pretty boys who I think are low T.

For example Jeremy Renner versus Bradley Cooper

Express-Fig-5168 · 2022-08-14T23:58:56+00:00

I like hands... if you have slender large hands that's already +10. I'm not sure why but I like staring at those kinds of hands. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I have a wide range of hands and nailbeds that I like to stare at aside from those too.

Apparently there is a significant amount of other women who like specific kinds of hands too so that's nice to know, helped me not be as scared to mention it. 💀

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2022-08-14T21:51:29+00:00

Big ears or ears that poke out a little. I wanna bite 'em. 😂

pinktuliplover · 2022-08-14T22:05:21+00:00

I don’t find any of these things weird, but people usually tell me they are.

Physically: Glasses, Thicker eyebrows, Big nose

Behavioral:

Weird laughs

Picking me up and moving me.

Ordering for me at a restaurant without me having to ask him to. (He asks me what I want beforehand. He does not choose my food.)

When a guy calmly but firmly puts me in my place.

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-08-14T21:53:01+00:00

I made this comment earlier, for me it's slight underbite. Slight overlap in the front two tooth. Also, a short nose.

Interestingly, I have slight overbite and had large gap between front two tooth. My nose is long as well.

2022-08-14T22:40:35+00:00

Being mean in a teasing way. So the busting balls thing.

In terms of physical features, I really like women with bags under the eyes. Women like Lea Seydoux, Marion Cotillard, Quinta Brunson, and Rachel Watashiga. Also, certain voices are really hot to me. Deep ones like Zadie Smith's voice or women who sound like they've got stuffed noses. Since we're using porn star examples lol, someone who sounds like Lia Lor.

I also like feet.

bossman146 · 2022-08-14T22:40:57+00:00

I’ve always had a thing for women with Roman-style noses. Like a beak shape kind

rurunoa · 2022-08-14T23:59:11+00:00

Men with glasses. giving me head pat

RocinanteCoffee · 2022-08-14T21:51:37+00:00

I don't know what would be considered the most weird to this crowd, but some of those I have which I don't hear other people talk about often

pockmarks/acne scars
Someone whose voice occasionally breaks or they stammer or the get visibly a little nervous/excited when discussing something potentially suggestive

Nickyjha · 2022-08-14T22:00:02+00:00

weird one: girls with hair dyed an unnatural color… I always marry Abigail in Stardew Valley

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jackedsoon · 2022-08-14T22:41:18+00:00

physical. sharp jawline/masculine features on a womans face. and black nails(not long ones)

behavioural. holding their body together if cold or raining outside.

A girl who can "bust balls"

stop watching porn

Captslackbladder · 2022-08-14T23:13:19+00:00

As of half a year ago, I have the thing you mentioned and I hate it, mine's due to the right eye abducens nerve palsy.

For me the biggest one is glasses, not the hipster kind tho, but the one that are purely functional. Also eye crinkles, lightly imperfct teeth, crooked smile, dimples, sharp canines are all stuff that's on my radar and are definite bonuses too.

2022-08-15T00:23:16+00:00

Hands/fingers, particularly when they're on the larger side

2022-08-15T00:44:19+00:00

I never thought it was wierd until I joined this sub, but I really love guys who completely simp over me.

I'm a bit boring with looks and tend to go for stereotypically good looking men. However, I I like slightly peppered white hair and guys on the shorted side (like 5'&")

Anykindofland · 2022-08-15T06:56:57+00:00

Being able to hold a conversation and actually progressing it by asking questions on her own, not making me feel like I'm interrogating this woman.

Muscletov · 2022-08-15T09:30:53+00:00

Fake nails. Vast majority of men hate it, but I fucking love it.

2022-08-15T12:57:10+00:00

Physical:

I love guys with messed-up bottom teeth. Like if their bottom teeth are kinda crowded and twisted, that’s so hot to me. All of my long-term boyfriends have had it. No idea why, but I love it, and if I’m starting to be interested in a guy and notice he has teeth like that I’m basically a living embodiment of the smirk emoji.

Behavioural, I’m honestly struggling to think of anything I would define as “odd.” I’m sure I have something others might see that way, but nothing that clicks for me as such.

BusinessBus1441 · 2022-08-15T12:59:33+00:00

Sexy legs and pretty feet for me.

DJJAMES0621 · 2022-08-15T15:40:36+00:00

Women who are a little relaxed on hygiene kinda very tomboyish

2022-08-15T15:56:25+00:00

Women with short legs and long torsos.

Women with thick dark eyebrows.

Women with defined spinal erectors (might be related to the long torsos)

I don’t have a good behavioral turn-on but I do like women who wear sneakers, sandals, and other casual footwear, I think it flatters a woman’s legs more than heels (maybe related to me preferring short legs)

2022-08-15T17:08:35+00:00

I like really friendly but aloof men. They have an air of always having tons of friends and lots to do, they’re not really hunting for pussy or seem insecure in anyway.

I prefer tall men of normal/ healthy body types. I always thought blonde men weren’t my thing, but I guess my partner is super blonde 🤷🏽‍♀️

Dimples are also just precious.

LowerPatience207 · 2022-08-15T22:04:37+00:00

The cross-eyed thing is pretty unique haha. Haven't heard of that one.

Physical: a crooked smile. Bad posture.

Behavioral:

Someone who has the ability to remember most of their dreams. I do. It's so fun to wake-up next to a fellow dreamer and talk about your nocturnal adventures.

Ramzabeo · 2022-08-15T22:50:25+00:00

For physical id have to say their eyes, thats just something i always noticed before.

As for behaviour, definetly an old school woman, i dated masculine women before i even knew what that was, and it was a turn off

RU2BZ4 · 2022-08-16T01:03:12+00:00

Two big upper front tooth

Shakanaka · 2022-08-16T01:27:26+00:00

I like women with saggy and pointy boobs.

melody_of_ · 2022-08-16T17:12:29+00:00

I really like a girl who is suoer into martial arts, the idea that she could kick my ass /physically dominate me is incredibly hot .

python834 · 2022-08-14T21:42:19+00:00

You mean the ahegao look? My gf isnt cross eyed, but she and i enjoy anime and loves doing that ahegao face during intense moments.

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-14T21:46:11+00:00

Girls with upturned noses are pure sex. Also freckles

DreysunTheOne · 2022-08-14T22:46:56+00:00

Physical: freckles are a tier, short hair is a tier, red hair is a tier. Deep (A-line) Bob cuts are God tier. Uncommon ones are I think a little bit of arm hair is cute, something about girls with a slightly protruding belly is perfect, also the eyes thing for me, or any eye irregularities for that matter, leaking pupils(idk the scientific term I just remember a girl whos right pupil looked like it was dripping into her iris) heterochromia is super duper hot.

Behavioral: glad to see it elsewhere I think a slight stutter is cute, I really REALLY like shy behavior and when a girl seems anxious around me(not because I'm scaring them, but because they are awkward and like me), makes me feel like someone cares enough about what I think about them to put some thought into their words and actions. Yes, a woman who can actually joke like a man, who can bust balls and get ball busted without getting upset or offended, this usually comes later in meeting a girl anyway. This isn't rare at all but women who are "guffaw" funny, who can make me ugly laugh regularly are the ultimate turn on, and it's what drew me to both of my exes and some of my female friends. Most women are not that funny, something about a females voice lacks delivery and most don't have to really "practice" comedy the way guys do (more guys have to use humor to compensate and entertain than women), so it's a breath of fresh air to get a girl who can make me laugh because she's actually hilarious and not because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Also I just really vibe with other musicians in general, most are chill and just like to hear twang twangs or do some CARaoke, and it's fun to jam with people in general, also musicians have usually diverse spotify playlists, and I always love to add more albums to my memory banks.

JustSmores · 2022-08-15T01:14:33+00:00

Physical: Thin body and Recessive chin

Behavior: Loves 80s/90s japanese cars. Extrovert.

1Here4Bach · 2022-08-15T00:19:14+00:00

Lmao that turned you on because it’s a sign of immaturity and child-likeness(?). Every female character in film or television that ever had crossed eyes has acted like a ditz and/or a child. You’re attracted to what cross eyes represent and how they actually look.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-08-14T21:59:55+00:00

I guess it fits a bit if both but a goofy face while laughing.

Truth_Antisocial · 2022-08-14T22:03:37+00:00

The eye part reminds me lucy lu. Yeah i still have a thing for her.

2022-08-14T23:07:35+00:00

Shoulder blades. I took a girl to a ballet once, and I couldn't stop staring at their shoulder blades for some reason. I like sinewy bodies in general and seeing how they articulate their arms and legs was turning me on so bad.

As for behavioral, I like someone who maintains an uncomfortable level of eye contact. It's almost challenging when they do this. That direct feedback loop from her eyes makes me feel exposed.

Magnito-was-right · 2022-08-14T23:45:11+00:00

Guys or girls, a stutter and asthma.

Historical-System972 · 2022-08-15T00:43:43+00:00

Honestly? A like a girl who's foul-mouthed.

I remember a time when I was around 10 or 11 - we were on holiday, I was hanging out with a friend. His older sister and her friends were sitting at a table watching over us while we played. Then one of them got up and said "Fuck, I gotta go take a shit. Be right back."

One of the first (and hardest) boners I remember getting.

Physical? Idk. I find most women attractive, my standards are pretty low as is. I guess I'd prefer it if she shared my phenotype.

purplish_possum · 2022-08-15T02:25:17+00:00

I seem to have a thing for fat manic pixie dream girls.

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-08-15T02:41:27+00:00

Love it when my wife wears earrings.

Also, thigh gap

The9thElement · 2022-08-15T04:39:03+00:00

Imperfect teeth. Not yellow crusty dirty or decaying teeth. but slightly crooked, maybe a random missing tooth, gold teeth, snaggleteeth, baby teeth or braces are all really attractive and cute.

2022-08-15T07:58:39+00:00

Tall women ~5'10''- 6''

Slim hands.

Visible blue veins on pale skin. .

Marzipan-Happy · 2022-08-15T08:33:47+00:00

Physical: hands. Masculine hands , but that aren't dirty.

Behavioral... hmm. I'm not sure.

filthyburrows · 2022-08-15T10:47:08+00:00

idk why i really like crooked teeth i think it's super cute. ofc it depends how crooked. i don't wnat a meth hood looking girl but a little deformity is nice

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-08-15T11:44:59+00:00

I like a man that has banter and we can have a laugh at each other.

Someone who can see the funny side of shitty situations

Nice eyebrows and an expressive face

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-08-15T11:46:45+00:00

Oh and doesn’t take shit off me, I can be a dick when I’m tired or had a bad day, I don’t want a man who just says yea to anything not to upset me. Tell me if I’m being unreasonable, tell me if you don’t like something. Push me to be better

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2022-08-15T12:45:09+00:00

Big noses, scars in eyebrows, very very thick thighs where the inner thigh is pink from prolonged chafing.

Really liking a specific animal. Coming back to find my partner had just been getting super day drunk and watching the monkey's for a good while was just so damn cute. Or how he talks about monkey logic "there may be poo on my hand, but there is poo on your face". He is the most precious.

Quantum_Supremacist · 2022-08-15T21:52:38+00:00

I like big, strong shoulders. A generally strong and meaty upper body as long as it is still feminine.

The opposite is also true. A thin neck and very visible collar bone is especially unattractive to me.

cableGuy0 · 2022-08-16T21:59:54+00:00

Lmao this thread is literally perfect for the “not like the other girls” women of PPD to virtue signal about how they love that 99.9% of women find abhorrent. You are all so unique!

winniewinniewinni · 2022-08-17T05:59:36+00:00

Lol my eye turns but outward and no one has ever told me it was cute before. I know you said eyes that turn inward but it’s nice to see cross eyes getting positive attention.

suncaster_ · 2022-08-18T17:43:20+00:00

A soft but low/deep voice. I like it on both men and women, the kind of voice that sounds a little tired and could lull me to sleep.

Title	What's the weirdest attraction cue you have?
Author	Truth_Antisocial
Upvotes	41
Comments	155
Date	August 14, 2022 9:29 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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